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Good Morning my darlings.

I have all sorts of news to drop on you (mostly about the exciting upcoming Dolls tour - we just announced Orlando and Santa Fe on top of Denver) but I’ll get to that later today or tomorrow.

I wanted to just send you all a quote and a loving reminder. Also just posted it up to the socials.

A friend just sent me an advance copy of their fragile memoir. A soul-baring. And this is the quote that opens the book.

Here is the world.

Beautiful and terrible things will happen.

Don't be afraid.

- Frederick Buchner

I feel this sentiment in my core today. I have seen, heard, been privy to so much darkness lately. I feel honored to stand near it, but also see - laid bare, more than I ever have - the unfathomable and sometimes unbearable wounds of trauma. The depths. The seemingly unhealable.

A reminder: you may not feel healable, but I have seen miracles.

I have held space lately with people who have raped and murdered and who have found some kind of path to reconciliation.

I have held space with people who have survived childhood sexual abuse and I have watched as they flourished and made art in the face of the unthinkable.

There is not always a happy ending. There is not always immediate company. There are terrifying roads.

Those souls you love deeply may not find the handle to the door out of their own dark. You must keep going.

Here is the world.

My love: you have this choice to make, each and every day.

You have this choice to make, now.

It does not matter what has happened to you, what you have fucked up, who has betrayed you, what may have hurt long ago or yesterday, what story is now behind you: here is the world.

Here is the world.

Beautiful and terrible things will continue to happen.

Take my hand.

Do not be afraid.

(I can’t wait to read this book. Reports later).

Reading comments for the next hour or so.

♥️

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Kaleigh

“Those souls you love deeply may not find the handle to the door out of their own dark. You must keep going.“ this line brought me to tears… beautifully said.. thank you for this. Sending love ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

One of my top two favorite quotes. The other is Mary Oliver, What will you do with your one wild and precious life?

Sally

Feeling a tad emotional right now and that just made me teary. Thank you for sharing with us.

VitAnyaNaked

<p style="color: #008600;">You know, I used to think that life is absolutely not fair. I did not understand why there is so much evil, suffering, grief in life. However, over time, I began to think differently. We will not understand what happiness is without experiencing grief or need, we will not know what is beautiful if we do not see the ugly ..</p>

Anonymous

We are all resilient beings. I love this quote: “People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.”

And Steiner

I'm working on the "Don't be afraid." part myself. Currently this part of my version of this poem would read: "I'm am fucking terrified out of my fucking mind." If anyone needs a cheer up; During the last webcast Amanda had I suggested the name of an album could be "Traumaland" and someone else suddenly suggested the name of one of the songs could be "Traumalamadingdong". Well, my friends, Traumalamadingdong is now an officially released song made by my dearest friend Mama Joy Rising. Enjoy: https://mamajoyrising.bandcamp.com/track/traumalamadingdong?search_page_id=2472480531&amp;search_sig=9b96fb5ea4ca3760e1dd27d4b38686eb. 💜💙💚💜💙💚💜💙♥️🖤🤎💜💜💜

And Steiner

I'd like to present one of my tools in my path to healing from abuse in childhood. Changed my life. Check out ASCAsupport.org if you want to know more or participate in meetings; ©2022 THE MORRIS CENTER. ascasupport.org ASCA Stages and Steps Stage One: Remembering 1. I am in a breakthrough crisis, having gained some sense of my abuse. 2. I have determined that I was physically, sexually or emotionally abused as a child. 3. I have made a commitment to recovery from my childhood abuse. 4. I shall re-experience each set of memories as they surface in my mind. 5. I accept that I was powerless over my abusers’ actions which holds THEM responsible. 6. I can respect my shame and anger as a consequence of my abuse, but shall try not to turn it against myself or others. 7. I can sense my inner child whose efforts to survive now can be appreciated. Stage Two: Mourning 8. I have made an inventory of the problem areas in my adult life. 9. I have identified the parts of myself connected to self-sabotage. 10. I can control my anger and find healthy outlets for my aggression. 11. I can identify faulty beliefs and distorted perceptions in myself and others. 12. I am facing my shame and developing self-compassion. 13. I accept that I have the right to be who I want to be and live the way I want to live. 14. I am able to grieve my childhood and mourn the loss of those who failed me. Stage Three: Healing 15. I am entitled to take the initiative to share in life’s riches. 16. I am strengthening the healthy parts of myself, adding to my self-esteem. 17. I can make necessary changes in my behavior and relationships at home and work. 18. I have resolved the abuse with my offenders to the extent acceptable to me. 19. I hold my own meaning about the abuse that releases me from the legacy of the past. 20. I see myself as a thriver in all aspects of life — love, work, parenting, and play. 21. I am resolved in the reunion of my new self and eternal soul

Anonymous

“ Those souls you love deeply may not find the handle to the door out of their own dark. You must keep going.” This hit so fucking hard. I promise I will. My therapist told me a couple months back that she thinks I’ve reached a point in my life where it doesn’t matter who stays or goes, I’m on my path and not letting my relationships hold me back. Big loves to you and everyone this resonated with.

And Steiner

If anyone has questions or wants to know how to get into a meeting let me know. 💙

NakedSunFlower

Yes, I can not agree with these words. Beautiful and terrible things seem to continue to continue, this is the essence of our life.

Joanna Lindblad

We all make mistakes. The important thing is to learn and grow from them. To open ourselves to forgiveness and understanding. To help one another. If we do so, we will never be alone. Kindness to ourselves and others is a habit that should never be broken 🙏 (((❤️)))

Jen Kiaba

There is not always immediate company…oh I feel this. I grew up in a cult and escaped a forced arranged marriage and the path towards healing is a lonely one because it’s hard to find healthy community with that particular shape of scar. But…the path is worth it. I’ve found kindred, especially in making art about the journey. It’s been a particularly lonely few years because of the pandemic but those connections got me through

And Steiner

So glad you got out! The part about "...with that particular scar." left me with chills. I hope you find you scar-loving Tribe soon. 💜💚