Major Arcana - Temperance (Patreon)

A middle ground, a balance between elements, patience. 

Card that resonates with me a lot since I see myself as a constant seeker of balance and middle grounds. Always have put myself in a position of mediator, did my best to understand every view and value all. This, as every other trait has some cons and pros. 

A pro - having a possibility to understand the empathize with people with whom one does not share values. 

A con - Sometimes one may try so hard to mediate and feel into other people that they lose their own sense of self, or decide not to share their own opinions. 

Finding balance may or may look easy and feel easy to achieve, but with patience and care it may be a beautiful journey.
I hope you'll find your own way of finding happiness, either if it means for you to keep or lose balance. Let yourself experience it and learn, just like with mistakes on paper 👍