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Video version for July bonus stories with Alejandra! 

1. Women inadvertently outs her soon-to-be-ex-husband..  

2. Man doesn't share his food..

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July Bonus Stories 3 & 4 -- Video

Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host Alejandra! Did we take L's with these takes or were we just hungry and not thinking?! You be the judge but after editing I'm feeling like I have slightly different takes, so I can't wait to see what you think of these ones. 1. Women inadvertently outs her soon-to-be-ex-husband.. 2. Man doesn't share his food.. Full length Audio only episodes available on all podcast platforms!

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Rez Watson

For the first story - try not to condemn the daughter too hard. My guess would be that her relationship with her mother is a lot stronger than that with her father. That kid is taking a hard situation out in her mom - probably because she feels subconsciously that she would lose her father if she held him accountable. Probably because he has been absent or inattentive based on energy spent elsewhere. The daughter could also have had knowledge or evidence of the affair that she didn’t understand or that she chose to forget, if so then she is probably feeling lots of shame and guilt and wants to pretend it’s her moms fault because the daughter is afraid that her parents will stop loving her if they learn that she is the one responsible (which of course she isn’t, but this is also less painful to process than the true situation). Whenever you hear anyone under 20 reacting unfairly to something their parent does, try not to judge too harshly. Sometimes the only thing a kid can do to survive is move blame onto the only person in their lives with the strength to take it, and often they’re doing this because they feel responsible for keeping the family together.

Anonymous

I love when you guys talk about when not to do therapy and sometimes it can be dangers, I had an experience during my pregnancy and after when a therapist I had that I trusted ended up talking about my sessions with a random aftercare nurse I’ve never met before then the nurse called me telling me I was going to be a bad mum. Decided to drop the therapist that day, only now that my life is getting more busy that I’m thinking of it again and because of your podcast makes me realise I really need to do my research much more this time around!