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So happy to have y'all here! I hope you enjoy July's free bonus story featuring Alejandra! We go over a story about a guy who's thinking of leaving his wife, even after all she's endured with him. 

Do you think this is self-sabotage or where could this be coming from?

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Anonymous

Oh hey! I sent a message with that song to the two hot takes instagram cause i thiught yalld like it! ...then i deleted it cause i figured that was intrusive 😅

Anonymous

I get where Alejandra is coming from with if it’s not a fuck yes it’s a no. But that mentality can becomes pretty toxic and hurtful to ourselves when we think that way, especially with people who have anxiety and struggles with decision making. It’s a very black and white way of thinking which can be needed at times but most human relationship and decisions are multifaceted. For example one thing I saw on a post about this subject was how relationships can be hard and challenging at times and they are going to be things that we don’t love about our partners and if that part about them makes us think it’s not a fuck yes it must be a no, we can easily get trapped in a cycle of chasing perfection. If that mantra is helpful then by all means use it but I just wanted to share how it can actually end up hurting us more if we don’t use it wisely.