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December Bonus Story #1 -- VIDEO

Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host Jordan! This one is a doozy. But what do you think? Show your support (much appreciated): https://www.patreon.com/TwoHotTakes Full length Audio only episodes available on all podcast platforms!

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Anonymous

I can see where the friend was coming from - but let me be clear: this was neither the time or place, or even something she should have said. While I absolutely agree that cheating has everything to do with the person who cheated (that person made a choice to lie and do real damage and not communicate their needs), it is still true that relationships are a dance that require more than one person. I believe that this is where the friend was coming from: that the relationship dynamics/life situation was poor and she wanted (for some reason?) to remind her friend that "it takes two to tango". Again, while that is true, it absolutely doesn't excuse not being there for your friend when they're hurting and already feeling as if they cannot trust someone who they love and care about to be there for them. The position the friend took was more suited to a couples therapist than to a friend who should have given the love and care her friend needed. TLDR; the friend was intellectualizing the situation when that is an inappropriate response, and probably decided to take the role of a therapist/neutral observer more than a friend, which is why she is the asshole.

Anonymous

When Jordan said "if you're happy with yourself you won't be lonely" I was like point-set-match. Right on the money. This "friend" has a weird outlook on friendship and relationships. He is a grown adult not a child, if he needs more from his partner it is his responsibility to voice that not shift the blame to her. Sound like she dodged a bullet because a partner who can't communicate or take responsibility for their own actions isn't someone you want in your life. If anything she is better off without Mark or OP, who both clearly have a false sense of reality here...