Spicy Q&A for Barlow. 💋 (Patreon)

1. Do you prefer sex with the lights on or off?

Barlow: What kind of question is that? Did you look at me? Of course, I prefer sex with the light off. When it's dark, I can just let go and enjoy the sensations without worrying about how I look or what other people might think. Sure, there are times when we’ll be able to get a little creative and try something new with the lights on. If I'm feeling adventurous, I like to turn them up dimly and see my partner's body in a different light - pun intended!

MC: You like it with the lights off. Got it!

2. What kind of dirty talk do you enjoy?

Barlow: When it comes to dirty talk, I find that subtlety is key – a few carefully crafted words here and there can really push things over the edge in terms of pleasure. A simple “you feel so good” uttered in a low whisper can get the blood pumping! But it's also good to explore what comes out naturally. Any playful teasing or suggestive innuendos that make us both laugh or moan in pleasure is my kind of jam. I mean... whatever feels right in that moment!

MC: Hmm... yeah, you do talk a lot when you're doing it. 😋

Barlow: Hey, don't judge me. I thought this was a judgment-free Q&A.

3. What do you think is the most important thing to make sure your partner is satisfied?

Barlow: Communication and trust! I mean, there's no other way. Those are the most important elements. You have to be able to be honest with each other about what feels good and what doesn't. When you're in a trusting relationship, it creates a space where both partners can explore their desires without fear of judgment. I believe that it's hard to satisfy your partner if you don't know what they want or need. It isn't about having the same exact desires, it's about understanding and respecting each other’s boundaries. I mean, that's just my take on it.

MC: I think that's a good take. I like it. 💕

4. What kind of sex toys are you interested in using?

Barlow: Wow, okay. We're going there? Oof! That's kind of a tough one. Let's see... umm. I would say that when it comes to sex toys, I'm open to experimenting with different things. Variety is the spice of life after all! I think vibrators are a great way to add some extra stimulation and can be used solo or with your partner - depending on how you're feeling. Cock rings are also intriguing. They can help maintain an erection for longer periods of time and make for a more enjoyable experience for both parties involved. And don't forget about bondage gear! A little light bondage can be really exciting if you know what you're doing and trust each other enough to explore this kind of play - whether it involves blindfolds, handcuffs, ropes, etc. There are so many options out there and finding something that works for both of us will definitely be fun!

MC: Not me taking notes on what to buy from the Lemon sex shop. 😅

5. What's your favorite kind of porn?

Barlow: Oh, come on! Where are you getting those questions? Nah... I'm not answering that.

MC: Why? It's just a question. 😇

Long pause:...

Barlow: Aiight, fine. I'll answer it. I guess if I had to pick, my favorite kind of porn would be amateur-style or a homemade video. I mean, there's something about seeing real people having fun and being passionate together that really gets me going. It's hot to see couples who don't take themselves too seriously and are just enjoying each other - without any sort of script or staged performance. That being said, my all-time favorite kind of porn is actually the kind that celebrates and honors all body types. Everyone deserves to feel seen and accepted in their own skin and when it comes to porn, I think representation is really important. You know I'm big, right? So watching other big people gives me insight into what I can try and definitely not try.

MC: Ooohhh, so that's where you learned that move?

Barlow: chuckles and looks away shyly. Can we move on to the next question?

6. Is moaning important to you or do you prefer your partner to be quiet?

Barlow: Moaning! Moaning all day and every day! Moaning is an essential part of any sexual encounter in my opinion. I think it lets your partner know that you're enjoying yourself and that you're completely in the moment. It's a way to communicate verbally without having to say anything, which can be quite liberating for some people. Plus, it's sexy AF! There's nothing more satisfying than when you moan or giggle in pleasure as I'm doing stuff to you - it just drives me wild.

MC: Got it! More moaning. 😋

7. Is there anything you won't do in bed?

Barlow: There are quite a few, but I'll tell you three of them. Number one... I won't suck on a toe. I know, I know, a toe is a very sensitive part of the body, but it's going to be a no for me. Number two... I don't do anything involving some type of bodily fluids. That's right, there are some bodily fluids out there that are just not my jam. And number three...  no degradation or humiliation kink, sorry. These are all personal boundaries that I'm not willing to cross and will respectfully decline if asked. That being said, my partner's pleasure is always important to me and I'm usually willing to try new things as long as we discuss it beforehand and my partner is comfortable with it.

MC: That's interesting to know. Thanks for sharing. 🧡

8. What would you do if I asked you to tie me up?

Barlow: What do you mean what would I do? Of course, I would tie you up!

MC: Haha! Okay, then what would you do next?

Barlow: I... I'd start kissing you and slowly work my way down your body. I'd start at the top of your chest and make my way down to your hips and thighs. Once I reached your inner thighs, I'd use my tongue to tease you a bit before kissing my way up again and working my way down to the top of your other thigh. I would repeat this process on your other leg until I reached your...

MC: Alright! Got it! 😳🙈

9. Are you okay with spanking during sex?

Barlow: Totally! Should we add that to tonight's session?

MC: Wait, we have a session tonight? 😦

Barlow: No, but we could.

MC: Sure, why not? I'm down for it.

Barlow: Alright then, spanking is now on the agenda! Let's do this! I love to add a bit of playfulness and spice into our sex life so spanking can be great for that. However, make sure to communicate your boundaries and preferences before we start. We should also have a safe word in case either one of us needs to stop or if something doesn't feel comfortable.

MC: Sounds good to me.

10. Are you comfortable with being recorded during sex?

Barlow: I'd think it would have to depend on the reason behind the recording. I'm open to it if it's a fantasy or something we're exploring together. I think that type of situation could be very fun to record and watch it later. I mean, I love you and absolutely adore your body, so looking at you again and again would be something amazing.

MC: Alright. That concludes our steamy Q&A for today. Anything else you would like to add?

Barlow: I guess the only thing left to say is that I'm looking forward to tonight. 😉