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The issue of "sexuality" has been actively raised in my life. I am troubled by my rejection of this part of the human manifestation. Not even like that - I want to show myself sexually, but I seem to sabotage this process and make a joke out of it.

These photos are almost a year old. This is the first shooting in which I decided to use underwear in self-portraits in order to achieve that desired sexy vibe (which I have been running away from in my photography for so long). It seemed to me that I managed to photograph what I had failed to capture before. But now I look at these pictures and see just a frightened girl who does not know what to do and how to do it.

Just a couple of days ago, I dug into myself again on this topic, watched this shooting and understood my fear and prejudice about sexuality... Do not look for that logic - but here is my conclusion -

Due to the fact that I don't even know what it's like to be sexy - I'm afraid to express myself sexually (as I imagine it) because I'm afraid of the ridicule of others. It turns out that I'm just afraid to even try, but why I don't understand at all. It's like I'm sabotaging this process myself - when I even try to express myself sexually, I turn it into a joke.

It seems to me that I am missing a large range of emotions in my life because of this prejudice. But I'll deal with it) In the meantime, you can look at my failed display of sexuality in the photos)))

And by the way, I'm interested to hear from you - what is sexy for you in a woman?

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Wonder Andy

It takes many iterations of trial and error to learn to speak, to write, to ride a bicycle, to sing, to read light when shooting a photo, to dance and it's the same for expressing your sexuality as well. Do not feel bad for not nailing it on the first try – be proud that you mustered the courage to try and got on the journey of evolving and learning to do something new! What is sexy depends so much on the person, but usually when the person is in contact with their true self and is in an environment where they are able to express it fully and enjoy it, that is where the highest form of sexiness comes from. Trying to imitate what is visually sexy in general only goes so far, although playing with it may be a good way of figuring out your own thing.

rudydale@gmail.com

Julia - sexy is someone comfortable in their own skin, confident enough to pay attention to other people. When we're young, pure beauty is sexy, but it's only skin deep. At any age, however, if we are able to have a smile in our eyes, to greet others warmly, to listen deeply to other people and be interested in them - that can be truly sexy, when someone is actually interested in and listening to someone else.

nudity.slip

You mean that we can exress our sexuality or find it in the safe space like with our friends or partners?