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good morning loves, 

here i am - being bad and cranking up my phone before out of bed but some days you just gotta do what you gotta do

a quick word to all of you about the womens march...because i know this is an issue that resonates with you as much as it does with me. 

since i’ve been buried under an album release and taking care of a three year old with no co-parent around, i’m only just catching up on the fracturing surrounding the womens march as i get up and ready to march today in my own small town. aie aie aie.

(you can start here and dig back...but basically it's the same factioning-off and infighting that you see in any huge movement: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/19/us/womens-march-2019.html).

it’s sad but it’s not surprising. listen:‪ ‬consensus is impossible. no two people will ever agree on a perfect feminism. know yer history. suffrage, civil rights...all filled with infighting and people getting left behind - or staying behind - as the march marched on.  

we shouldn’t expect this to be easy or simple.‪ ‬but it's disheartening. WHY CAN'T WE JUST GET THIS RIGHT?? whatever happened to SOLIDARITY? 

solidarity is never solid. progress is like water. sometimes ice, sometimes steam, takes many shapes, and we ain't always in the same shape at the same time. 

but we are all H20. all human. all the time. 

here's my ask of all you, my patrons...

no matter what you are doing today - do SOMETHING. walk your goddamn feet, literally or figuratively, towards progress. support your local march, or call/email a rep about your local reproductive laws, or just walk around the gas station with “i will survive” on your phone speakers full blast everywhere you go. 

comment here. i am reading. i will be proud of you.

tell me if you're marching or spending your day fighting for feminism by taking care of your fucking SELF today because you're in recovery. 

whatever way you look at it, all women are marching together today. 

marchin’ to grocery stores, marchin’ to jobs...some of us, who can, with signs & banners. 

infighting happens, but onward we march. 

as one giant ocean of progress.

away from voicelessness. 

towards a future. 

towards equality. 

let’s do it people.

i'll be marching in woodstock (starting at 11 am) if anybody's around. i MIGHT BRING A UKULELE and hop up and say something. wave if you see me

https://www.facebook.com/events/565406093886270/

oh and all you men who may feel alienated by this post, this marching, this whole feminism hoo-ha, i'm talking to you too. 

this isn't just about women's issues. this is about everybody. no women's rights, no evolved planet.

here's something i tweeted yesterday:

i mean it


 love you all

stay warm

stay solid (or dripping, or evaporating, whatever your chosen form today, jedis)


xxx

afp


 

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Anonymous

Proud of you . That is a beautiful picture .

Anonymous

Masks can never conceal your true love ; same bride 😉

Anonymous

This makes me think about what solidarity is, how solidarity can be equitable, and the relationship between individual acts and wide-spread solidarity. No answers from me today, especially as most of my head and heart are preoccupied with personal grief (my mother died at 46 earlier this week). so I'm hoping that what I'm doing- sitting shiva with my family, supporting and being supported however imperfectly through mourning and processing our complex relationships with a beloved woman- will have a bigger impact on the world than I can see right now. That the empathy and honesty being fostered together on a very small scale will inform how we move through the world and treat others as we go on with our lives. I'm not sure if I believe it yet but I'm trying.

Anonymous

Absolutely 🤗

Anonymous

I am really angry about what is going on with the Women's March. I'm not angry at any particular people more our culture in general. What really aggravates me is why can't the Women's March just be a thing that happened that was good in a sea of shit? Why do we now have to have a March every year? I mean it was a beautiful thing now lets move on to other beautiful things and not try to recreate a beautiful past moment on demand. It's ruining the original and what it meant. Not to mention what kind of idiots want to have a March in the middle of the Winter every year. Come on ladies!

Anonymous

I'm a clinic escort in Phoenix, AZ, and our escort group provided assistance &amp; "security" (essentially) at the Women's March here in Phoenix. I, specifically, walked behind our indigenous women (who led the march), ensuring that nobody broke ranks, in order to provide them with that space. It was amazing!

Timothy Kreuter

Not necessarily for women, but on Saturday I performed Street Requiem with my choir as part of a fundraiser for the homeless and housing insecure in Larimer County Colorado (Ft Collins area). Though housing insecurity does seem to affect women somewhat higher than men...

Anonymous

I didn't get to march this weekend, but I'll be marching today in downtown Oakland for the Reclaim MLK Day march.

Anonymous

In solidarity, I’m marching onward towards my education 🖤 thank you for your constant words of encouragement, I hope I get to tell you in person one day.

Anonymous

As a man, I can't wait this toxic patriarchy to die its well deserved death. It's a fucking disgrace to my gender how some idiots treat women just because they don't have dicks. It makes me sick. A city in Germany changes its official terminology to gender neutral language. I fucking love it, but I seem to be part of a small minority sharing this opinion. Toxicity boils up wherever men see (or think to see) their power slip from their hands. It is time to take this power and build a better, equal society. Be strong ladies, me and my thinkalikes do whatever we can to support you.

Anonymous

Nicr words

Anonymous

I helped my best friend, get her and her 6 yr old child and her Mom who's got 1-2 months to live on home hospice, away from a toxic abusive narcissist, that refused to leave the house and was having paranoid delusions. I've been grieving over the death of my other best friend, 2 weeks before his wedding, he was supposed to come and visit and I was going to be his best bridesmaid. Unfortunately he died and no one in his family told anyone, getting him cremated and leaving his fiance to message everyone he's passed on his FB. My other best friend, I have very few, but quality over quantity I guess. She lost a baby, got in a fatal crash, the jaws of life had to get her out and now her son in law is on life support after being hit by a semi in his new car. So many deaths, so much pain, I myself went through abuse, rape, PTSD, DDNOS, addiction, almost being killed by an ex whom had the girl he cheated on me on the the cell (which was mine) to listen to him beating me, egging him on to break my nose and that he was going to kill me for her to show he lived her. It lasted all night until the morning, him being coked up and tried to gouge my eyes out with his fingers and stuffed a towel down my throat so I couldn't scream while he was punching and kicking me. I'm sorry it's just so hard to believe some of the things I've endured. I know people have it worse than me, and it makes me feel guilty sometimes, because I DID live. I hate I was so afraid of him. It was years ago, but it haunts me to this day. I guess when you have young trauma it kinda makes you still feel like that 6 yr old girl. I wish I could hold her (me), tell her I'm sorry, tell her I'm also sorry for what she has and will go through. I look at pictures from when I was younger and it literally feels like I'm looking at a picture of a stranger, that I remember some memories of this person, but.... It's not me? I'm sorry to get so personal, but I figured if I'm to share and heal with any community, I'd be my idol Amanda Palmer and the fans. I love my Mom so much too, she really is my light in a storm. Xoxo