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"Men who lie about sleeping with women they definitely did not sleep with ):
Men who are honest and chill about not sleeping with anyone yet because it's not a big deal :)"
The pressure to lose your virginity is such bullshit and it especially effects men's mental health. So, let's change the fucking narrative.
I once had a guy I used to work with tell co-workers (after I left the work place, I might add) that I slept with him, and it really just puzzled me. The friend who told me about it (and still worked there) asked if I wanted her to correct him in front of everyone. I gave it some thought, but ultimately I decided he already knew the truth and so did I. And really, it just made me feel sorry for him. I didn't need to prove anything to anyone, but he clearly felt he did. And really it just made me think this guy's gotta be in a shitty place if he's really pretending that sleeping with me is something to brag about.
Don't get me wrong I really disliked him for it afterward, but honestly it just reeked of sadness and I felt like "well, he's clearly already in pain. He doesn't need me to humiliate him. He knows this is pathetic."
So, guys, let's not be dicks to each other. Let's not make putting your penis into a vagina a big fucking deal. Because it really, truly isn't. Also, let's not lie about sleeping with people we haven't slept with. It's unnecessary and you might end up hurting someone simply to feel some spec of imaginary self-worth. Real self-worth comes from doing good things, working hard and being with the people you love, not sticking your dick in a lady.