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PATREON November Monthly Update!

A very special thank you to all of you who have become Patrons of the Chateau de Lalande. You have made The Chateau Diaries one of the top 400 Patreon accounts in the world, and have transformed not only our lives here, but the future of this beautiful chateau! I’m overwhelmed by your kindness and generosity. On behalf of this beautiful chateau that will continue to survive and flourish because of you, thank you!!!

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Anonymous

I’m sitting in swelter humidity waiting for the bus and your video popped up! Day is getting better already. Thanks for sharing this update with us. Hugs from Australia

Anonymous

evening coming down here...looking forward to update, and hoping you, Stephanie, have some down time planned VERY shortly. we're here, rain and shine, day and night!

Anonymous

DANNY MERCURY

Anonymous

(((Hugs))) Glad you took good advice to be open about things. And great to see good things in the works for winter.

Anonymous

Good, good. Glad the truth is out in the open. Be free! Don't hold back. You do you! Stay warm and rested. Hugs to all.

Anonymous

The attic sounds perfect for the pool table! You could do it up with a Roaring 20s theme.

Anonymous

So looking forward to Advent. This November it seems as if there is much preparation to do before the Holidays. Seems as if everyone is busy getting organized. Sending love from NYC😘🌃💛

Anonymous

When will that hideous chain link fence come down?

Anonymous

Oh my goodness not more leaks! :(

Julia Cobb

Wow! Cannot wait for paneling work in the grand salon getting started. I really like the idea of the pool table in the attic. Is there a window it could be hoisted thru? Goodness gracious at these leaks! I know you were saying “what next”! There is so much happening it’s just mind boggling. Advent just around the corner. So excited to see what’s next! 🥰 From Alabama!

Anonymous

Danny P - Rockin' the stache! Mou chickie Mou Mou... Oh behave yourself! I'm thinking that the digger can be used to help push back the stone gate pillar thingy... Another job for Danny P and his fearless sidekick (oh wait - we don't have Amaury's 70s sidekick name!) *thinking* hmmm: Maybe??? Kenickie? Chewy aka chewbaca? decisions decisions... We should have a poll for that...

Anonymous

Hoping you can get some rest.

Anonymous

I paused the video to say "use the digger" then resumed - now Danny P's like "use the digger" See.... great minds think alike... :)

Anonymous

Is there any update on the Chapel? It feels like it’s been on the books forever and I’m so excited to see it be restored.

Anonymous

You are such a dear, Stephanie. And I’m so happy that you and Philip feel warmly embraced and supported. What’s not to love about love?! ❤️ ❤️

Anonymous

She mentioned someplace recently (I get confused on where I've heard things) that it was supposed to begin Nov 1 but the restorer still has a family member who is very ill. She didn't want to put any pressure on him but offered to let him "off the hook" and get someone else, but he assured her really wants to do the job. I'm excited to see that project move forward too!

Anonymous

A pool room in the attic is a great idea. Renovation day is drawing near. Can’t wait for the smashy crashy to start. Love the moe Amoury very chopper Reid (Aussie criminal) and I have to agree Dan’s moe is very 70’s Porn star keep rockin those moes boys as Movember is a great cause👍🏻😀

Anonymous

So happy to hear you're feeling better, Stephanie! ❤️ I love the beautiful green dress you're wearing. Where is it from if I may ask?

Anonymous

Love the idea of the pool room in the attic! Maybe narnia could store the table temporarily until the room next door can be fixed. Very much looking forward to the smashy, crashy, bangy to start!

Anonymous

Great video Stephanie as always once again you spoil us all…. Now you and Phillip can both be more relaxed and not have to worry about what is shown on the videos so much! I’m going to list a few things/thoughts to maybe think about! 1) AGA, I’ve owned them before and understand your love for them, but I do feel placing one in the main kitchen will be a mistake. Anyone using one has to have Knowledge of what to do and how different it is to cook on one, with volunteers, cooking rotas and catering for B&B guests it will be a nightmare. 2) the trouble with the water pipes and heating has all started just after you had the water valve/motor changed outside, given a lot more pressure. Nothing can be done now but a possible cause? 3) when you start putting the stone cap-pings on the moat wall, could you maybe have the smaller courtyard gates widened? Moving the pillar on the vegetable garden side 2ft and then a new central piece of railings added to one of the gates? It’s a problem that’s not going to go away and needs to be seen too…. 4) you’ve blocked out the start of the B&B season with the thought of holding the Patreon open day and also I believe something for the other chateau diy owners! Could you not combine the two and free up the dates for more B&B guests? They would be there to help you as well as giving everyone the chance to meet other owners and help them to get wider audience’s ? I know you want to have as many rooms open for viewing and I’m sure they could place personally belongings somewhere safe if need be! If it was all put together, it could also be of interest to the chateau diy show to film as well? 5) and final one lol….. A lalande calendar, it’s to late for this year to do but something that can be planned for next year. I know another YouTuber that sells them each year and people pre order and pay so he knows how many to order and is relatively easy to arrange….

Anonymous

Happiness is such a gift🥰

Anonymous

Yes the attic sounds good 🤩

Anonymous

I think the pool table would be great in the little room beside the bread oven. Then you could have pizza and pool nights.

Anonymous

Thanks for the updates Stephanie. Things are hoppin’ at LaLande as usual. Looking forward to seeing progress on the reno projects. Downstairs Loo? Glad you’ve got all the revelations drama behind you. From what I can tell, people have been really kind and happy for you. You put joy and happiness into the world and it is appropriate Karma that that is what is returned to you. Much love to you and all LaLanders.

Anonymous

Most pool tables, even antique ones can come apart. If only just the legs. Also it should be reasonable lite as it doesn’t have the slate top.

Anonymous

I love the thumbnail picture of you and Phillip in Italy. Please post a larger version for the patrons. Thank you❤️

Anonymous

I am so excited, I might get my patreon card this round!! Love the idea for the attic! What a big day at LaLande!! Thank you so much for sharing!!!

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie. Have you looked at Patreon messages yet ?

Anonymous

We’re so happy we had the good fortune to stay with you a few weeks ago! Sounds like it’ll be hard to get a reservation next year! When you talk about patron day, I just smile imagining the grandest summer garden party of all! 😊 Good luck with all the repairs and grand salon transformation!!

Anonymous

Wow I'm so happy that you all were able to have so many guest this year at the bnb. I wish I lived near by because I would love to clean the Chateau for the guest. Thank you for the update.

Anonymous

Good idea on the pool table. Really looking forward to the advent calendar. And SO happy that you and Philip are officially an item now. You were made for each other, and you make a beautiful couple. Thanks for the updates.

Anonymous

a calendar for next year would be great xoxo

Anonymous

I’m so relieved you decided to be open about Philip. Now it’s out there and time to move on. Wonderful update on the paneling. And the pool table will be nice in the attic. Hopefully the plumbing issues will be rectified very soon!

Anonymous

Yay! I can’t wait for the construction on the grand salon to start!

Anonymous

Danny P?🤦‍♂️😂 DP

Elizabeth Haddad

Yay I am so glad it has worked out for you

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, a suggestion about the pool table, how about the area where Marie had her first studio? Maybe it would be easier than the attic and it's a very big space 😊

Anonymous

Lovely update Stephanie. Thoroughly enjoyed it! I am so glad you announced your relationship on CD and you are feeling so much better. 🥰

Anonymous

Well done. The video on the regular channel was lovely and I am glad you got a good response for it. I think you are right, you can move forward with the vlogs now without any worry or anxiety. I really enjoyed the update.

Anonymous

Great update, looking forward to seeing the progress on the grand salon! Wondering what Patreon levels receive patron cards?

Anonymous

The three of you look tired. I'm glad you'll have a quiet house and hopefully get some rest-- at least until smashy smashy crashy crashy starts. I have a quick question after seeing the pea chicks today. They're so much bigger than the last time we saw them but still babies and they're probably not ready to really fend for themselves like grown peacocks. Where will they and Sif stay once it gets really cold in the next few weeks?

Anonymous

Can’t believe channel 4 outed you and Philip. Bloody hilarious! Yes, your relationship was announced on national tv. Way to go girl…😂😂👍❤️😘

Anonymous

Loving the patron content so much already and it hasn’t been 6 hours! I’m so happy to be a part of this effort and community and I cannot wait to visit in person one day! Thank you so much for your generosity in every possible way! I am so excited to receive a momento from LaLande for my home! I’m so happy you have the weight of the secret, well not secret, omission rather, off of your shoulders! Atlas relieved if you will!! *wink wink* look forward to every second of Advent! You are my Christmas inspiration!! Kind regards and much love!!

Anonymous

Danny peacock! 😂😭😂

Anonymous

I'm so glad you feel better, Stephanie. Love always wins no matter what. You and Philip work so hard to make us all happy. You guys should get to be happy too. So, about all the smashy crashy coming Monday. Can you PLEASE get LOTS of footage of Nati with a sledge hammer? PLEASE?! It would bring me SO MUCH JOY! I don't know if you've ever noticed, but when Nati gets happy and excited, she kind of sounds like a minion. It's the cutest thing ever. So when I imagine minion sounding Nati in a good pair of goggles, getting smashy crashy with a sledge hammer, I just can't stop giggling. I just love you guys so much. Put on some tunes and have some fun. <3 <3 <3

Anonymous

Amazing! I can’t wait to see how everything comes out

Leah Hamdaoui

Thank you for the update Stephanie and Nattie and Amary. I really like the idea of the pool table in the attic... pool tables need big spaces to sit within and to be a little away from the main dining and sitting areas... a place to retire and play. Stephanie so happy for you and Phillip. Your relationship deserves to flourish and not be hidden away. It must have been difficult for you to cross a boundary you had set yourself but thank you for sharing the news with us. My husband is 19 years younger than me and we have a fruitful and very loving relationship. Wishing you the very best XXX Leah

Anonymous

I love that idea as well. My only question is do guests have free range at the Chateau. If not and it’s in the attic is it only for staff and volunteer use? I know I saw someone hanging a sign regarding private quarters in a recent video. I’m also wondering if anyone can point me to any videos that may have been done that outline the history of the chateau. My specific question is which parts were the original chateau? What was the entrance to the original building. Which building was next and so on. I’m also interested in the floor plans. Where can those be found. I’m having trouble visualizing the layout on the inside of the buildings.

Anonymous

The attic is perfect!

Anonymous

I was wondering the same thing but isn’t that the area that has now become Amaurey’s workshop?

Anonymous

I am so happy for you!

Anonymous

I knew eveyone would love it and y’all and that everyone, or most would be lovely about y’all! And having to have kept my relationship a secret for a while I knew how good you would feel after you got it out… in fact I think you will be surprised how much lighter you will feel from here on out! We just wish nothing but the best for you in any way shape and form. 🥰

Anonymous

This video and today’s update on the YouTube channel made me so, so happy. I’m glad to see that weight lift off of your shoulders. I’m happy to see how similar all of the YouTube comments were to the Patreon comments and hope you are feeling the love! Thank you for being so authentic and a role model for how to handle insane pressure with grace and relatability. I cannot wait to see more of the plans for the paneling and winter time renovations! And a whole month of 70s mustaches? You all spoil us.

Anonymous

So happy for you, Stephanie, Nothing like the relief of having a weight lifted from one’s shoulders. I can’t say enough how valuable Natti is, and of course Dan and Amoury, and all the crew. Have a great rest of the week. I can’t wait for the Advent Vlogs!! 🌺🌺

Anonymous

Any chance you will share with even just us how your health is and if we need to look out for you more then Phillip does in the future? Not to intrude just to care and help in anyway…

Anonymous

I know first hand the weight that is lifted when you are able to act freely with your partner, so you have my absolute heart full praise and admiration Stephanie. So great to see the gate mishap and the amazing work of Dan and his Digger to the rescue! The idea of the pool table upstairs would be amazing, perhaps there is a window large enough that a crane or well strapped digger arm could swing the largest and heaviest parts through? An idea for that room if it come to fruition. With bright hugs and glitter from Melbourne Australia - keep up the amazing things at lalande

Anonymous

Lovely update. I felt like I was at the diner table listening to y’all chat. 😁OH MY WORD, the leaks just keep on coming!!The plumber has got his work cut out for him. Love Amaury’s idea of moving the pool table to the attic. It really needs to leave the grand salon.

Anonymous

If there is a partridge ornament hanging in one of those pear trees, then it could be an Advent calendar post! :)

Anonymous

Did she ever say how we are on money are we to 33k?

Anonymous

I think Nati is in Love too. Look at the way she looks at cousin Amaury.

Anonymous

❤️👍🕊

Anonymous

The attic sounds like a great place good the pool table- or even a games room!

Anonymous

Oh, sweetie, I’m so glad that you did the mini video and that you feel better. I just love the picture/thumbnail? For the video. You two are darling.💖

Anonymous

So happy to see the weight being lifted off Stephanie’s shoulders and thankful for a great update video with lots to look forward to, including a new area of the chateau to dream about…the future billiards room! A juke box would be excellent especially in a house that loves to dance. I really enjoyed getting to sit and listen to the crashy crashy smashy smashy without too much dusty dusty talk it’s such a pleasure to be invited into these conversations.

Anonymous

It seemed very quiet and peaceful with just the three of you in the Chateau. The calm before Christmas.

Anonymous

Of course you and Philip were embraced by your YouTube family! You’ve fostered love and appreciation of beauty in all you do. You are also the ONLY channel I’ve ever seen that doesn’t tolerate nasty comments and hate, and that activism has cultivated created a positive place in the wilds of the Internet.

Anonymous

So Happy things age going well and you feel a load off your shoulders. Everyone is so very happy for you and you shouldn't feel you have to hide your happiness. Of course no need to share every detail of your relationship but reactions and relationships that naturally come out in the videos seems perfectly natural as that is what your videos have always been about. Continued love and happiness to you! Fondly, Mary Ellen

Anonymous

So glad you're feeling less stressed. Also pleased that you feel emotionally supported by us. I sometimes re-watch your vlogs for an emotional cheer me up and I love that you have gotten the feeling of hugs from comments. You are a strong woman, you'll weather all that life is throwing at you, probably with a smile. Very much looking forward to the billard table's re-homing.

Anonymous

The world seems so full of mean, critical comments, I have been overjoyed to see all the kind, loving comments here. Thank you fellow La Lande lovers for restoring my faith in the kindness of others 💕💕💕

Anonymous

Could the pool table be repurposed into a grand bed with steps to get in or dining room table?

Anonymous

I've noticed a few looks between them recently that made me think the same thing. Not that it's any of our business but the more love in the chateau the better I say

Anonymous

As the story of what has happened to you over the last week or so, I am in awe that you are still standing and smiling. Leaks appearing everywhere, ceilings falling in and now the clearing out of the kitchen. Your private and personal life being outed so shockingly with no warning and Philip away. You are so strong, I admire you. Take care of yourself and enjoy this moment of downtime before Advent starts. Xxxxx

Anonymous

You seem a lot happier no after you haves told us about Phillip. Have a nice day.

Anonymous

So pleased you feel lighter and better about going “public”. You both deserve the privacy that everyone is entitled to. I hope you both remain as happy together as you obviously are ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

I love Amaury’s attic idea!

Anonymous

Amazing video Stephanie! Wow things are certainly going full bore ahead with all the Reno’s! Let alone the never ending story of the plumbing and radiators! I look forward to the gardening and panelling progress. How exciting! And yes it must be a relief to you to have received such a wonderful response to your news regarding Philip. Although you shouldn’t have been surprised as we all love you, Philip and all the LaLanders who give us such joy! You spread love wherever you are so it is returned. Love conquers all after all! It’s also a boomerang and comes back to you. Don’t worry about the naysayers out there. They must be very unhappy people. Bonne chance to you and Philip! 😘😘

Anonymous

You’re safe with us Stephanie! So happy you’re not carrying that weight any longer. Just ignore any nonsense. You’ve created a place of love and positivity on YouTube and you deserve it all back and then some! I love the pool table in the attic. I have a great idea…you could put any brown furniture up there with it and have a victorianesque? parlor/game room. Love the update video, thanks so much!! xoxo

Anonymous

You appear so much happier now that you've put the main video out about your relationship with Philip. It was the right thing to do, no more speculation. Your life can get back on track with what you do amazingly well..being an inspiration to thousands of people. Thanks for the update with the 'core'team . A busy time on the horizon with advent coming up, take good care of yourself Stephanie with help from Philip I'm sure and stay well. Much love ❤

Anonymous

So looking forward to seeing all the iprovements in the next month.

Anonymous

You are just so lovely Stephanie xxx

Anonymous

Excellent shuggling from Dan. I'm pleased to hear that Nati will be getting more help with the b&b next year. Amaury's 'tache makes me think of James from Metallica; maybe he should let the hair down too.

Anonymous

What a magical place , real life with its ups and downs and a sprinkling of serendipitous fairy dust on everyone who visits 🌟✨⭐️💫🧚xxxxx

Kathy Gower

Dear Stephanie, please please please don't spray perfume on my long awaited Patreon card PLease.

Anonymous

Hi Tannis! It was so good to hear your voice again on the vlog with your song. Did you ever finish the recording of the song you sang for us in the chapel? I would love to purchase that if you put it out anywhere. Hope you had a great rest of your stay!

Anonymous

Thank you for the update! I’m looking forward to see the work start in the grand salon, Amaury must be excited to get the project moving again. I’m glad to hear that you feel better after opening up to the YouTube community, you have created such a positive space, and I’m sure the comments are mostly very loving and supportive. Don’t waste your time worrying about the few haters out there, they’re simply not worth it. Much love 💛

Anonymous

Darling Stephanie so glad you’re feeling better about things now, hope you can relax and get back to normal. About the billiard table, could it possibly be turned into a different piece of furniture, perhaps storage underneath, a table area and something built up on it like some shelves, I may be totally off cos I don’t recall seeing it at all. Would be great to repurpose it, just a thought. Sending love and hugs ❣️

Anonymous

Yay for you Stephanie! So happy, you guys are adorable. Also um…get it girl😏

Anonymous

Stephanie I am so happy for you and Philip 💗

Anonymous

I had the same thought as Amaury. 🤩The billiard table can go in the attic. I wonder if it comes apart so you could store it until you fix up the attic. You could also get a new slate and add the pockets.

Anonymous

Thank you darling Stephanie. So glad that a Hugh weight has lifted. You are now free. Wishing your love with Phillip will continue to flourish. 💗

Anonymous

I have recently become a Patreon and wonder how I can receive your Christmas Card as I have not informed you of my address. Pleased I joined in a small way.

Anonymous

hey stephanie and lalanders, i am a loyal patron and since your love life has now been discussed openly and honestly, i hope we can move on and i can ask a few critical questions and make a few suggestions openly and honestly without being accused of being a troll, because i am not, i am fascinated by the chateau, the people and of course by stephanie and i hope this was just the beginning of your success. does it ever frustrate you that so many projects have been started and it takes so long to see significant progress or the finished product? the downstairs loo for example, this has been going on for a year now? i imagine it would make life at lalande so much easier if there was a second working toilet on the ground floor? what is the hold up right now, the coving? have you thought about finishing it without the coving and then add that later? i'm also wondering what's going on with the financial update? has the accountant finished? have you decided not to make it public? (because i would completely understand that and be ok with it, i just would like to know the status quo). last january or february you proclaimed a month of tidying up the chateau and clearing out the attic and then you cleared out the narnia part of the attic and your clothes and the part of the attic with all the old furniture remained untouched. do you plan to clear out this part as well? i would love to see what treasures are hidden up there. did you clear out the rest of the chateau? i feel we never got an update on this front. some time ago you had plans to remodel the petit salon, i imagine this has gone down on the list of priorities? i would love to see it, i think it would be exciting. usually now, in the off season, would be the time to get things done. are you worried that with nati being exhausted from the summer season, the advent calendar, christmas and so many trips planned (venice, south africa, london...) there will again not be enough time to finish some of the many projects? maybe you could create a task force "downstairs loo", focus your energy on one project for a certain amount of time, get all lalanders involved and get it done? i'm not suggesting this only because i want to see the final product but also because i think it's incredibly important for everyone's morale to see success and a finished project from time to time. and yes, i see that a lot of important work has been done over the last year (insulation of the attic, transformation of the main courtyard and so much more) and it keeps going on and i also understand that you're constantly being thrown curveballs with the leaks and the lack of material but sometimes, for me personally, it is frustrating to see for example ian working on one project and then he has to stop and work on a secret project for british tv and it feels like there are more and more loose ends? i'm also wondering what your thoughts on "chateau diy" are? i understand it's good advertisment for the chateau and that you like the filming crew but what are your actual benefits? do you get a lot of new viewers on your youtube chanel via the tv show? have you asked them if you could at least talk about your vlog on tv? unfortunately, like with all reality tv shows, there is a lot of repeating the same footage over and over again, and "what happened last time" and "what you will see after the break". the filming keeps you busy for days and disrupts everything going on at the chateau and yet we get to see just a few minutes of you and whatever project you're doing for them. i understand that this is how filming a tv show works but do you still think it's worth it? i understand that you are working non stop, too much in my humble opinion and i think you're spreading yourself too thin. maybe it's not necessary to go to new york to make an exciting vlog (although i understand that this was an exciting opportunity you couldn't pass up) or go on this advent calendar-tour de force, i'd rather see you working on the many projects going on, see you cook together, have fun, hang out, maybe continue with the clearing? work with the assets you got, maybe ask marie de belgique to make a new tour of the chateau, as it is, it would be fun to see the chateau through her eyes. put the camera in kat's hands and see what happens, i'm sure it would be fun! ask all lalanders about their favourite place in the chateau and let them introduce it to us, AND LET PHILIP EDIT!! try to think of ways of showing us entertaining footage without it adding to your personal workload, i'm thinking about the patreon videos especially. i am not complaing about the entertainment value of your youtube vlogs, they always have been great but i must admit, over the last few weeks, looking at the patreon videos, once or twice i got the feeling that the spirit behind some of the videos was "oh, tomorrow is wednesday, i quickly have to put something togehther for the patreons or let's just do a Q&A!" and seeing what an important income patreon has become for the chateau restauration, i wonder if that is a good business decision? i miss the detailed start of the month updates you used to do in the beginning and i feel the "extra footage"-videos (which i enjoy a lot) were a bit longer and made with a bit more love. i tried to pick my words very carefully and i hope i didn't offend anyone and i apologize for all the unsolicited advice but then again, since i feel close to you and you feel close to us, it would have felt wrong not to say something. these are just my thoughts and my opinion and no matter what happens, i will remain a dedicated chateau diaries-fan forever. stephanie has encouraged us repeatedly to offer our opinion and that's what i tried to do, respectfully and with her best interests at heart. as someone who has struggled all his life to finish things, it seems i find comfort and motivation in going on youtube and seeing people achieve what i long for. one quote that has always helped me massively when i didn't know where to start: "how do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time!" so go and take a small bite out of that downstairs loo ;) lots of love and greetings from grey and cold austria :* PS: again, i am not a member of this hate site that shall not be named and i deliberately chose to post this comment here, on patreon and not on youtube because i don't want to play into the hands of those people. if they decide (which has happened to me before) to screenshot and/or quote me on this site, then i would kindly ask to also include my opinion on them: you are sad, lonely people with too much time on your hands and one day, after you're gone, your children or whoever comes after you will look at how you've spent your days and it will be a sorry sight.

Anonymous

Notre Stéphanie chérie, I'm so glad that your announcement on the CD channel was so well received but I didn't doubt it. At last you can relax & get on with your life. Also, that facial was amazing ! I'd love to know what product Annalise's mum used it looks great on you. You have such beautiful skin & the product enhanced it even more. Do you use a sunscreen ? I've tried tons & at last found the holy grail "MURAD CITY SKIN AGE DEFENSE BROAD SPECTRUM SPF50" & since I've been using it I've no more sunspots (yippppeeeee !). Love to you all

Anonymous

There is so much happening at the chateau, people coming and going, building, planting and now romance. You look so happy and relieved it’s good to see. Even though those stupid radiators are causing a headache you look so happy. Xxx🐨

Anonymous

Just sending love back <3

Anonymous

Na na na na na na na na Danman!!!!! Love it , the Dan signal x

Anonymous

Hi sending love to all from Bermuda 🇧🇲

Anonymous

I thought the same thing. Love Amaury's idea. You could make it like a lounge and cocktail room???

Anonymous

So happy for you. You have a good heart and it’s easy for us see that. Great plans!

Anonymous

Will be exciting to see the long awaited Grand Salon take shape. I’m assuming all radiators are sorted or you wouldn’t be starting? Will the color scheme be the similar to as they are now?

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, Such exciting news for La Lande!!! I only have love for you and Philip!!! You both make a lovely couple!!! Hugs for you both from Vegas!!!

Anonymous

How do you keep up with it all! Well done you keep us so well informed & great about you & Philip …you can just be yourselves without worrying. Thanks for the joy xx💕

Anonymous

Happy that the final outcome of your "outing" has been so positive with a huge weight lifted. You both seemed very relaxed and freed in yesterday's Cadeaux. Sans the romance saga, my week has been a bit like yours, although on a miniscule scale compared to your "chatastrophes": no heat or hot water, turns out my minerally water has damaged both furnace and water heater. In the end the 4 year old furnace is probably salvageable, need a new water heater and new water treatment system. And severe storm caused water to leak through my chimney doing ceiling damage, so top of chimney is coming down for a complete rebuild. Yikes! Guess my little cottage had a " cotastrophy".

Anonymous

Love conquers all… The loving support from patrons and your YouTube subscribers will continue to support you, the Château and all those who work and live at the Château. Excited to see the progress with the beautiful paneling…

Anonymous

Short and Sweet: Love you all, even Dan's & Amaury's 'staches

Anonymous

Dear Stephanie, you are brave and strong as is Phillip. Your love and courage uplifts others. Thank you so much

Anonymous

Haven’t you got a small barn/stabling that you can turn into a games room where a pool table would be appropriate? Volunteers and Guests would love it. Just a chill out space.

Anonymous

mmmmaybe send the pool table away to have pockets added and tell them to take their time doing the modification, might get it out of the way for a few months and buy you some time. Gerry your outfit made my heart smile, you really are awesome. Kudos to Nattie, Dan and Amaury, for all the incredible work. Yay for you and Phillip!! Dan and Amaury, I 'moustache' you a question. What is the name of your first pet and the first street you lived in? If you combine the answers you create your 70's porn star names :-) But seriously MOvember is a great cause, it happens here in Australia too, so good on you both!! Best Wishes.... Fluffy Lloyd

Anonymous

A games room in the attic sounds great - but if it's decided a pool table would not get much use, can it be converted into a dining table?

Anonymous

Oh Stephanie! Everyday is a challenge at Laland! Thankfully you have Dan & Amoury and Nati and Gerry there to always support you!! and Phillip! Everything has gone so well since I became a patron and watched the chateau evolve. I love every moment and always rooting for you all!!! and please Nati don't forget I want to be a volunteer when the sorting of the library begins! I am a librarian and would be trilled to give a hand ! ( I am also a very good cook!!)

Anonymous

I said “put the table in the attic” and then a second later when Amoury said it, I blurted out to the video “That’s what I was thinking!” So glad you feel good about telling everyone about Phillip. Love is a wonderful thing.

Anonymous

All exciting stuff, I love seeing/hearing the plans and how things change. It is great that you can put the "coming out as a couple" bit behind you now, and just relax about it. I would have thought it is actually better that people know, even though I understand your wish for privacy. Phillip seemed quite ready to marry you :-) and I am all on his side on that one! It could, no doubt, be the event of the century if you let him loose with the planning. Right, it is none of my business, I know, but I absolutely love the fact that you two got together. Keep on enjoying Movember, love from me in Norway x

Anonymous

I love Amoury’s idea of a game room in the attic! However, getting that heavy table up all of the stairs is going to be a huge task! (Definitely a fun vloggable moment!). Congratulations, Stephanie, on bravely telling your viewers about your relationship with Phillip. Your Patrons and YouTube subscribers are members of “Team Stephanie and Phillip” so you can rest easy now.

Anonymous

billiard table: i like the idea of adding pockets so that it becomes usable and you could also ask amoury to make a removable table top for it out of antique wood or out of the oak wood you have and then you could use it as a dining table in the dining room or in the entrance hall or in the stables where marie had her first flower studio. by adding a table top it becomes usable as a work surface as a dining table etc and whenever you feel like playing pool, you just remove the top....

Anonymous

It looks like Patreon is working on making it easier for creators to keep videos inside the app with their new native video platform. Hopefully that means more security going forward! https://www.theverge.com/2021/11/11/22774301/patreon-jack-conte-video-player-podcast-youtube-launch

Anonymous

Love seeing you all. It took me most of the day to finish the video, as I own a daycare and have 6 kids under the age of 6 keeping my attention during the day. I can't remember all the thoughts I had wanted to say, haha. I loved the updates and so glad the front gate could be fixed. Excited for all still to come. (And I'll say it just the once and then not a peep about it again, I'm so happy for you and Philip. You are both so deserving of true happiness in your lives.. 🥰). Love to you all.

Anonymous

You are a brave and sweet love. All the best for you SJ.

Heidi Panella

Delightful video! Shout out to Dan, Amoury and Nati for all the hard work they do and continue to do. Movember is known as "No Shave November" here in the states, so men not shaving for the entire month is how we do here. Great cause, bravo boys for doing your part to support mens health. Gerald, you absolutely live your best life and I love that about you, keep being your tartan loving self forever!! And lastly, Stephanie, it is more than evident that speaking about your relationship with Philip has taken a huge weight off your shoulders and it shows on your face how deeply you feel for him. I love knowing that you are both happy together and it fills my heart with joy that you have found happiness in each other. Big hugs to you both and best wishes for "life, love and laughter" 😁💕

Anonymous

I’m so glad you feel a weight off your shoulders. I trust you to do that which is right for you. What about moving the pool table to where Marie did her flowers? It would keep it safe and maybe eventually useable there too. I welcome rest for all of you now that the busy season has ended and before Advent.

Anonymous

I'm so thrilled you can feel more at peace now, I admire your strength and positivity so much Steph! xx

Anonymous

So So Happy for you and Philip! Now I want to hear that Amoury and Nati are an item ;-)

Anonymous

See!! It worked out well, now you can go back on focusing on what's important. 👑 Keep Calm and Carry On. I really love this quote!

Anonymous

So glad you feel better about having told everyone about you and Philip! I know that must have been weighing on you and so stressful. It was a very vulnerable side you've had showing and not on your own terms with the slip up in Chateau DIY. But sometimes vulnerability leads us to a better place, which this seems to have for you and I'm so happy for that. I know some other YouTubers I watch only read their video comments for the first 24 hours or so because those are the comments of their core crowd and tend to be more positive. That might help you as well to only focus on the comments of those who care about you and those at the Chateau. Continue to take care of yourself, give yourself rest and relaxation when you need it and best wishes for a more relaxed week for you without any plumbing issues!

Anonymous

You have had such a stressful few weeks, and I think you’re coping amazingly well, still (mostly!) cheerful and positive, despite the challenges. You are such an inspiration to me when I am having one of my bad days. I am learning to channel my inner Stephanie and rise above them. Thank you! I am so glad you followed our collective advice and made your announcement so soon. I bet you feel much better now that you’re not having to fudge the issue. Hopefully you can move forward now with your followers respecting your privacy. Well done for meeting the problem head on.

Anonymous

I was quite surprise to see the vlog yesterday. I was of the thought of keeping your romantic life private, but looking how relaxed you look now, says that you treat us -your patron and followers as your friends.

Anonymous

How difficult would it be to make the pool table functional? It might be fun to have it in the small dining room this winter. It’s near peacocktail corner and will give your holiday guests hours of fun.

Anonymous

So excited to see the transformation in the Grand Salon start. I think moving the pool table to the first part of the attic is a great Idea. Thank you for all that you do for La Lande Stephanie- Nati - Dan - Amory what great updates for the month!

Denise Behrends

Looking forward to seeing your long-held vision for the paneling in the Grand Salon beginning to come true this Winter!

Anonymous

Stephanie, you have such a wonderful view of relationships. Friendship and family are so important. It is so fun to be privy to your long-range plans for La Lande - I know the garden will take a while - but I cant wait!💘

Anonymous

I am excited to see upcoming progress on the different projects and festivities for winter. I hope that you don't have any more problems with the plumbing/heating or anything else. The attic sounds like a good spot for the pool table either that or Emmaus lol. I got excited when I watched Dan's vlog yesterday, I noticed you have a huge Christmas Tree in the main courtyard. Thats going to be really cool it is the perfect spot for one! It would be really cool to string Christmas lights across the courtyard or even on the terrace pergola.

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie, be happy and keep going doing what you love, and what we all enjoy so much. I think your patreon numbers are up too, it’s a clear sign of acceptance and interest. Good luck with everything!!

Anonymous

Dear Stephanie, Im so glad you feel the weight off your shoulders involving your relationship! Now it can continue organically. Aumury and Natti, you and Phillip will make a snug winter and fun viewing for us all. Something we do here in the midwest of the US with our billiard tables is to when needed cover with plywood for an additional dining table.Lots of love to you, and may all the heating and plumbing problems be sorted easily and quickly!

Anonymous

What if you picked one spot for the garden, the château, the chapel, mark the spot with some type of paint or tape, then take a photo each day for one year. You can then show the growth like a time-lapse. Just one photo a day :)

Anonymous

Sooo many things happening 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Cori Fry Hengst

Should have had the same driver jiggle it back into place.

Anonymous

Like Amaury's idea for the pool table. Well done on the Philip relationship reveal video. Great update!

Anonymous

Just seen this headline on BBC news feed. Covid Dutch set for partial lockdown as infections surge. Hope this won't interfere with Philip getting back?🤔😳 Can't see anything regarding travel so hopefully he will be fine🤞🤞

Daniel Hammond

I am glad you are okay now. I was thinking that the billiard table would be perfect in the attic. You could create a theme up there, maybe a Victorian London Gentleman's Club? (The respectable sort! LOL!)

Colette Retif

The big area where the Jaguar is could be glassed in as Stephanie and the architect were suggesting but maybe it could be used as a Solarium/Winter Garden. I think the glass wall would face south. Many great houses (for example The Biltmore) had just such rooms where they showcased rare plants... Philip loves cachepots so more room for potted plants and a place to go on rainy summer days or, the more obvious grey days of winter. Just a thought...

Anonymous

I do hope the plumbing is all sorted, so any new improvements will be safe from damage.

Anonymous

Dear Stephanie, once again, thrilled for you and Phillip! Curious about the natural pool you had started on Chateau DIY…you had to stop until a permit had been obtained. What is the status of the permit and the work on that project? Much love from South Carolina ❤️

Anonymous

I am glad the weight is off your shoulders, and Philip’s, too! Now when some casual glance or or word passes between you two during a vlog, we just smile….because…and enjoy watching the rest of the vlog! 💕

Anonymous

hoping I can come out to volunteer next year, help out in the gardens, kitchen... wherever. xoxo

Anonymous

FYI : my BFF married at 60 to a 32 year old, my sister did something similar. President Macron is married to an older women. I left my second husband for my friend of 40’years - live your life to the fullest!

Georgette Jones

Just had time to see this and enjoyed it, like the idea of the pool table in the attic . I can tell a big difference in you Stephanie, so much more relaxed and happy❣️ Love the “down” time at the chateau……the calm is needed👍

Anonymous

Pool room/ games room in the cellar under Nick and Maries lounge?

Anna Ibarra

Ooh I am loving the idea of the pool room upstairs in the attic. Great place for the volunteers to hang out. Fun patron vlog.

Anonymous

Love it 💕

Anne Green

Lovely update thank you and really enjoyed hearing from Nattie & Anmarie sending love & hugs 🤗

Anonymous

Space!!! Amazing to see you have space problems too ( pool table). So much to look forward too.

Anonymous

Found the Comtesse de Nadaillac rose! Dear Stephanie- I put out a request to historic rose gardens and rose societies for the Nadaillac rose and this morning it turned up! A rose grower named Merlin in Denmark is offering cuttings. Since Denmark is part of the EU I think the cuttings can be imported into France (although I'm not sure of this.) If you are still interested I can send Merlin a private message through the rose site and see what is involved. Just let me know.

Anonymous

Reason #87 Why you need a digger; Straightening the pillar that the delivery driver knocked into.

Anonymous

Tami, she may not see this, I’d advise you email Nati. Well done on finding it!! 👏👏👏👏

Anonymous

Stephanie you have your supportive tribe here and at LaLande. I’m very happy to hear you found time for a facial, you deserve restful treats xxx

Anonymous

Did all the leaks start after the main valve was changed? Maybe you can turn back the pressure a bit?

Anonymous

The Comtesse de Nadaillac rose. Have you asked Andre Eve roses if they can help you find this rose?

Anonymous

What does November look like for Patreon? You give so much joy to us around the host especially this dark season. All's Well. Marianne

Anonymous

Is there no blog today

Anonymous

Excellent up date as always, cant wait to see the pergola complete, it will be so lovely in spring and summer. I’m so happy for you and Philip. I loved Philips kindness from the beginning. Make time for the both of you, you work so hard xx

Anonymous

Having only just joined patreon I am behind but I have watched the chateau diaries since you started them, thank you Stephanie for all of your vlogs, you and Phillip are a match with your kindness and I wish u both so much happiness xx

Anonymous

Re: the billards table - Put it in the pool house!

Anonymous

Just watched this one - can you make a games room in one of the unused rooms - billiard table, darts , card playing area and maybe a small bar? Like a ‘gentlemans’ club feel but obvs not just for males! 🥃