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Join me in a couple of hours for the first ever Patreon LIVE Q&A using Vimeo by clicking on the video above!
If you cannot make it, don't worry! A replay will be uploaded shortly afterwards.

Below you'll find the correct date and time for the live:

California (US):                Saturday 6 Nov 1:15pm
New York (US):                 Saturday 6 Nov 4:15pm
London (UK):                    Saturday 6 Nov 8:15pm
Paris (FR):                          Saturday 6 Nov 9:15pm
Canberra (AUS):              Sunday    7 Nov 7:15am

If you already have any questions for me, please let me know in the comments below!

I cannot wait to chat with all of you lovely people!!

Steph x

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PATREON LIVE Q&A

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Anonymous

Can't wait!! 🙂

Anonymous

Can’t wait thanks!

Anonymous

Looking forward to it!

Anonymous

Where is the next trip abroad you have planned?

Anonymous

What did Phillip do to celebrate his birthday ?

Anonymous

How are the sheep? I haven’t seen them in the background of any videos…are they causing mayhem? Hehe

Anonymous

How's the downstairs loo coming along?

Anonymous

Are you planning on new doors to nati’s apartment and the door to the right for the back kitchen corridor? What are your next plans for the attic rooms not done?

Terrie Powell

Will the chapel restoration stop during the winter? Every episode is so fun! Thank you for all the joy!

Anonymous

Looking forward to it. When will you come to Texas

Anonymous

Do you still do the welcome cards for patrons? And does anyone check the messages on Patreon?

Anonymous

Will you be making any of your own editions to the Chapel restoration or will you just be restoring what’s there already?

Anonymous

Does the gold ring you wear match Philip’s?

Anonymous

Stephanie, are you accepting guests during Nov. December, into January?

Anonymous

Maybe a health update? It feels personal to ask, but we are still a little worried after your hospital stay earlier this year. Wishing you health and happiness in every part of your life, whether you choose to share or not.

Anonymous

For fun, is anyone in the Chateau a Star Trek fan? I’m a huge fan of Star Trek Voyager…Captain Kathryn Janeway is one of my favorite captains/characters in the franchise, she’s fierce, smart, loyal and doesn’t mess around!

Anonymous

Nattie, thank you for all you do to keep the ship upright and in ship shape! You are appreciated! Look for a Santa gift, just for You!

Anonymous

Is Philip still a paid employee now that you are in a romantic relationship?

Anonymous

Any update on the browning box hedge? Do you know what order you will be tackling the major ground works in?

Anonymous

Know that you are among people who love you and care about you unconditionally. We are on your side, When you chose to share with us this very private part of yours and Philip's life you invited in an army of loving and caring people. The others don't matter.

Anonymous

Have channel 4 production team apologize for letting the cat out of the bag or did they not realize it wasn't public knowledge.

Anonymous

No questions, I'll be very interested in what other people ask. So pleased for you both . Just a comment on why you've had to move to vimeo...I can't understand why anyone would want to pay for being a patron and then to upload private videos to a hate website for presumably them all to pick it apart. Methinks some people don't get out much, sad sad lives. On the positive...really looking forward to the live now I've found out how to use mirroring from my mobile to my tv 😉😗

Anonymous

Will you be sending new postcards with the improvements to the Chateau? And as someone else asked, does anyone checking the account? I moved recently so my address changed

Anonymous

Seriously? Why shouldnt he be? Hes not paid from Patreon funds so not our business

Anonymous

What have you named the pea chicks? PS We LOVE your videos!!!

Anonymous

Is YouTube going to get annoyed you are using their competitor (Vimeo)?

Anonymous

Will you still interview Philip like you were planning to do on Wednesday ? My other question is, will Selmar continue to do special projects for you even though he is buying his own chateau with Tatyana?

Anonymous

Can we have an update on mummy? I miss her the most! 😄

Anonymous

Approximately how many people are at the Chateau on any given day? It seems like you constantly have new people there. What is the ratio of “regulars” to guests? I know it varies, but how long do most people live there (eg volunteers vs long term workers)?

Anonymous

Don't forget to install Vimeo app and login. For instance with your Google account!!!

Anonymous

I can’t edit my own question…it sounded a little harsh. But I know you are proud of your YouTube success and have an award from them. That’s why I asked about you using Vimeo? Also, downstairs loo update! Lol

Anonymous

PS I know this is unrelated to the Chateau but I would love to hear about your beauty routine at some point. What are your secrets to staying so fresh and pretty in your 40s? ❤️

Anonymous

Any news/thoughts about the kitchen? The "wash-up area", fridge/freezer etc? Sending lots of love!

Anonymous

What is the estimated timeline for the paneling installation?

Anonymous

Hey Amy...Phillip wears one ring of his grandmother and one of his grandfathers. They just mentioned that in the live Cadieux on Monday

Anonymous

1 - Stephanie, thank you for all the dedication you put on your patreon and youtube fans. it's gigantic 2- Your work, your perseverance and all the success comes back to you. congratulations 3- I would like to know your vision, your dream for the castle in the next 5 years. 4- Your perseverance and the ease you have to communicate your passion will certainly lead you to new projects. this is just the beginning of stephanie jarvis! :) 5- About the gardens that David is drawing, are they going to start soon? Patrick from French Canada, Montreal …. Big hugs to you and Phillip

Anonymous

Hi Steph, thank you for doing this Q&A for your Patreon. Really appreciate it. Is Amaury will be employed by you like Dan, Philip, Nati, Kirstie and Selmar? Coz he's really a big help in restoring the Château. I don't know if I'm correct to say that the income from utube or the BnB isn't much or enough. Although your popularity is so insane in utube and everyone would like to stay as guests in Lalande like me n my husband. We want him to stay as one of the permanent team. But how about income? Can he be paid by the Patreon? I hope so. Thank you so much and I'm very happy for you and Philip🤗

Anonymous

Also, how are you doing? Sometimes I worry about you and your well-being with pressure to make all these videos. Though I love hearing updates, it’s also important to me (and I’m sure your other patrons) that your life is balanced and sustainable. I would still be happy contributing with bi-weekly or monthly updates. In short, I hope you’re taking care of yourself.

Anonymous

When will the kitchen sink area be renovated and where is Marie's new refridgerator? I am rewatching the Chateau Diaries for the third time. See you later!!

Anonymous

If youtube had been secure they wouldnt have had to move. But youthbe didnt get any ad revenue from the Patreon videos so probably not bothered

Katie Roberts Art

Oh I wish I should be at the livestream but I have to go to bed. I'm curious about relationship and sexuality stuff but I'm not comfortable asking! I'd ask all sorts of things in person as I would be sharing too, but I get the feeling you would not be wanting to confide such details here, which is fine. So it is with great effort I restrain myself!! :D Know that you are truly loved and accepted by us. Xx

Anonymous

1. When will Mummy and Percy return to LaLand

Anonymous

You can click on the pencil icon underneath your comments to edit

Anonymous

2. Is Jerry married and have children

Anonymous

Firstly Much love to you both. Could you update on the order of the channel 4 series, i.e lake/swimming pool, the blue entrance and the current project. I know you are not allowed to tell us

Anonymous

3. Will we every see the elusive Nicks apartments?

Anonymous

How much does sound travel through the Chateau? Will all the new insulation you're putting in (and the Wedgewood room, help with sound isolation, especially during workshops?

Anonymous

Oops sent before I had completed. I know you are not allowed to tell us, but an idea of when programmes were recorded/shown, would d be useful. Thank you. Xx

Anonymous

Did you find out who at Channel 4 was responsible for spilling the beans about your personal life? (As if we didn't already know.) Not that we are not thrilled with the news, but it's actually no one's business but yours and Philip's. Going forward, you should make it clear to them that your personal life is out of bounds. They don't even pay you for appearing on CDIY. That's some nerve, sensationalizing it to get more viewers/money/advertisers. It's just wrong. Doesn't surprise me, though, considering other things they have done to use people. They have no shame. And they are not your friends. On another note, I'm so pleased that you are taking steps to circumvent the haters/trolls. I try to battle them myself, but then they accuse me of being a troll, and it's very frustrating. They try to spoil things for everybody, but they can be foiled. I know how to block them on a YouTube channel, if you need any advice. What concerns me, is that the leaked Patreon videos are leaked because the leaker is a patron.

Anonymous

Did you make a design decision on the front facade and if so when will work begin on it? A big “Hello” to all the fellow LaLanders! We look forward to seeing some of you at the future Patreon Open House.

Anonymous

So excited for the live chat!! My question is: How is Mummy? Love an update on her and Percy. When will they be back? Ok..this next is not a question just a statement. I am so happy for you and Phillip. Just love that you two have found each other. I feel like your twin flames and soul mates. I wish you both happiness!!! 🏰💕💕💕💕🤗

Anonymous

I can't wait 88 minutes!

Anonymous

What will you be doing with the old servants quarters? Will they become guest rooms or apartments? That part of the chateau intrigues me for some reason.

Anonymous

Know your a coupe time to invest in Rode Wireless GO II

Anonymous

We do see them. Its the gardians cottage. We saw the bathroom being renovated. And Marie was having her hair done on last nights vlog.

Melissa

Curious about how mommy is doing...Christmas plans...how long have you been in love/dating? Sending you all so much love!

Anonymous

Do you still worry that everything will end tmr with Patreon/YouTube? I recall you mentioned it before. Or are you more relaxed about it now? I do hope it’s the latter. You have had to wait a long time to start to make real progress with the chateau, but you have worked hard and should have the confidence now that all will be well going forward. Sometimes I worry that you put yourself (and your health) under pressure in the effort to always put videos out.

Anonymous

I'm hoping to hear some good news about the central heating. Also, can you tell us if Cat will be coming back any time this year?

Anonymous

what are the French government's rules and regulations you must follow in restoring the chateau. do you find this oversight helpful or tedious ?

Anonymous

Has amaury had any thoughts on the discovered decorative wood in the attic joists? Also when are c4 going to get updated intro footage…..it’s the old courtyard ….though it does show how far you have come! CDIY I will always remember for gerry, mummy and the pizza oven 😂🤣😂

Kimberly Dale

Okay… Not love life related… Because I’m just so happy for you both… I think you have to be brave to love… & I think you are safe with each other… So I want to know your top 3 favorite movies, books… and maybe like your top 3 Christmas holiday movies& feel good chic, flicks…& books… The Perfume Collector& The Doll House( true story based in the Barbizon Hotel) & Give Us Our Dream by Arthemise Goertz 1947… Yours too Philip? Your favorites& Would you please play more piano 😁💛

Anonymous

Hi from New Zealand, Stephanie! The latest leak about your private life makes this topical: how do you manage the pressure of Youtube and Patreon subscribers?

Anonymous

Also, what is your attitude to people? Are you ever scared to meet new people? You're always so open and inviting to everyone and it's a marvel!

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, how is the natural swimming pool coming, the last we heard was you was waiting for permits.

Anonymous

Where do you see the chateau in 5 years?

Anonymous

For such a large property how many people do the cleaning and laundry? I remember seeing Mary Poppins when there were just a few in residence but now the numbers are huge.

Anonymous

Now that you and Phillip are dating, has he changed his position on faux marble charger plates? Or is it still a no go? 😜😘

Anonymous

Also age is just a number Im beyond happy for you and Phillip. You deserve happiness and am so happy you 2 found each other. You have become such a big part of alot of our lives with sharing your every day life threw your channel and we only want what is the best for you. Please ignore any ignorant comments Stephanie. Wishing you and all the lalanders health and happiness xxoo

Evelyn McElroy

Cynthia, there is more than one patron who does this and what's more, yesterday someone on the site claimed that they know how to grab a Vimeo video, too. I actually think that we should simply ignore them. It's what causes them the most pain, anyway.

Anonymous

Wonder about French reaction to the influx of foreign purchasers of chateau. It seems many don’t speak French and direct much of their work to ex-pats. It seems like you have a better balance in this last regard. I can see how this might cause resentments although I know rural France has suffered from lack of services and economic vitality.

Evelyn McElroy

Will Ruby be moving with Selmar? They seem to have bonded.

Anonymous

Exciting! Looking forward to it. This is more for the future, when Amaury is close to completing main projects, but do you think he might ever be open to doing a special 1-2 week woodworking course at the chateau?

Anonymous

Will you and Philip sing again for us, pretty please?

Anonymous

I've been a patron since August last year and not received any cards. Iam sure there is a reason, l have left a message here on patron but never got an answer.

Anonymous

But do you have a fave chair that nobody else would dare sit on because its the boss' chair 🤣 is it just a uk thing or does this tradition extend to La lande 🥰

Anonymous

I'm curious to know what kinds of measures you've had to take in order to hide your relationship from the vlog? Like getting separate rooms to show while travelling etc? :D

Kimberly Dale

💛 I love it when you are singing Christmas carols together in the church will you be doing that this year? Maybe that’s a surprise huge hug from California GOD bless you both, GOD all at Lalande

Anonymous

Hi how is the little hedgehog have you had an update from Kirsty? Also how are the peachicks have you chosen names for them yet?

Anonymous

Hi Steph please Tell us more on how the Patreon account was hacked? Was it a Patreon being a snake? Can we be sure that None of our details have been hacked? Thanks. Lots Of Love to you, Philip and the rest of the gang xxx

Anonymous

Hello Stephanie 👋 I'm so pumped to be here. I set 3 alarms so I could wake up in time for this live! Thanks for making it so its at least 7.15am for Australians. I wanted to know of there are any horse riding stables nearby LaLaland where guests or future volunteers could ride at? And how can I get in touch with Nati re Volunteering skill sets? Much love to all everyone at Lalande. I have a package on its way with a few small love tokens for the chateau and occupants. It will most likely get there in January 2022 lol xxx. Oh I also wanted to ask do you ever get over receiving peacock and hedgehog related items?

Kimberly Dale

Im sorry for it looks like I’m typing with my thumbs& don’t know how to go back & correct things🙃

Brenda Mcgee

Your happiness is all that matters you have touched so many an angel sent to us when the world fell apart Question -Do you think you’ll do The Chateau Diaries vlogs in the near future will they be ongoing😘😍❤️👌

Anonymous

What's happening with the collapsed ceiling?

Anonymous

Love this idea! For men and women…I got all of my power tools from my mom!

Evelyn McElroy

My favorite funny question from the earlier Patreon vlog when you told us about you and Phillip: "Does the hedgehog know?"

Katie Roberts Art

Oh I thought of a silly question! How is Nick and Marie’s dogs name spelt? My beautiful old golden retriever’s name is Sundi too!!! I’ve never met another one. 💕😊🐕

Anonymous

Since no one else seems to be asking….so tell us the story of when you two knew you were meant to be…how long ago? I just think you two are perfect for each other.❤️❤️

Anonymous

What happened with the swimming lake ?

Anonymous

Also, you mentioned there will just be the core of you for winter….who all will that be? You are the highlight of my days!

Anonymous

Sending love to you both ❤️❤️ What are the plans for the chateau during the fall/winter season indoors and outdoors. What projects do you hope are finished before the new B&B season? I’m so looking forward to the Christmas calendar and the decorations of the chateau 🎄🎄🎄🎅🏼🧑🏻‍🎄🎁🦚🐿🦔🦡🦦

Anonymous

Could there be more timely continuity on projects? The downstairs loo is classic, but there others that have gaps.

Anonymous

And yes, can you sing a song for us??? Also hoping you will show more of you and Philip. Assuming you’ve had to “hide” normal actions…

Anonymous

Is the ceiling that fell in last weekend fixed?

Anonymous

Since the project for the swim pond is aired on tv, can you tell us the behind the scenes of what happened? Why weren't the permits approved by the time the work started? How long do permits take to get, when can the project start again... Or do you have to wait for chateau diy to be available to film it/does it still need to be a secret project moving forward?

Anonymous

Our you still doing Chateau DIY?

Anonymous

Which season do you need the more restoration Volunteers? Or are there seasons that need more restoration volunteers?

Anonymous

Will one china pantry be enough for two porcelain lovers? Maybe it will need to be switched out during seasons with out of season items in Narnia?

Anonymous

Have you thought about designing a Lalande flag incorporating life, laugh and laughter?

Anonymous

Do you have plans to setup a "Glamping" area for guests?

Anonymous

Any update on the kitchen tile artwork Steve is working on?

Anonymous

Agree. Beautiful couple (inside and out) with loads in common.

Anonymous

What is your most favourite piece of music?

Anonymous

We are so very happy for you and Phillip. Thank you for all that you do to brighten our lives. My daughter and I are grateful for the happiness you always share. One day we hope to visit.

Anonymous

Also, how did you and Philip start dating? But only IF you feel comfortable responding 💕

Kimberly Dale

Will Selmar be taking Ruby? Poor kitty cat really misses him when gone… he’ seems to be very vocal upon Selmars returning?

Anonymous

My knowledge of specific Brexit regulations is less than minimal. What Brexit rule forced Cat to leave, and what is the prognosis for her return? Will this regulation also impact Amaury, or does he have dual citizenship? If not, does having full time employment at the Château make a difference? Thanks! (Hi Philip! Like Barbados I’m assuming you’re repeating the questions to Stephanie😘)

Anonymous

Hello from London! Worked, so hoping the live works! I don't have any questions as such, just a repeat of if you could look at your Instagram DMs, as sent you some interior/exterior and vlog suggestions. Also, wish to send you some china, but wanted to send photos first on DM to see if something you'd like, so would appreciate if you could check on Monday? I wanted to know where the Porcelain hall is situated (featured on 'Chateau DIY' the other day) as I can't work it out! You and Philip - I guessed ages ago, and wish you both nothing but happiness, health and lots of laughter!

Anonymous

I'm thrilled for you two💞 As individuals you each have deep love values and strength, together you are doubled and unstoppable 💕 You're combined joy, enthusiasm and love will be unpenitrable(spelling error I'm sure!) to hate and unkindness 🎉🥰💕 I'm planning my retirement gift to myself to come volunteer in 2024, can't wait!

Anonymous

Can you reveal who will be staying over Christmas ?

Anonymous

Well shoot, I got all settled in 30 minutes ago with my nice glass of wine, cheese and pate’…..just checked and it’s still 45 minutes away. I’m now on my 3rd glass of wine….I can’t be held responsible of what crazy questions might fling out now😜😜😜🤣🤣🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

Anonymous

My design specialty is 18th century France, so love your choices at Lalande. As far as the Wedgwood room, it is screaming for a white dado rail, and white cove mouldings at the ceiling to look more complete and polished. Plus, the finishing touch would be a blue and white rug - maybe from Emmaus? Amaury could do the mouldings for you. What you have so far is lovely.

Anonymous

Hello Stephanie! Please, will you make sure that Philip does not get his hair cut as short as his last haircut? Many thanks! ❤️

Emma Young

I think you're only allowed so many rooms as a b&b (about 5 or 6), anymore and you're classed as a hotel (more taxes!!!)

Emma Young

When are we going to see the updated intro you and Dan were working on a while ago

Anonymous

It has not been hacked, so you do not need to worry. It is a patreon that has leaked it.

Anonymous

Hi Jelena! It's the small corridor from the winter salon to the Marquis suite if I heard correctly....in case she doesn't respond. :)

Anonymous

Looking forward to the live. So happy for you and Philip. You both are so special and deserve someone as equally special.

Anonymous

I’ve been wondering about how all the sheep are doing and if Cara the volunteer was able to do anything with the fleeces last summer.

Anonymous

I have seen that the gardens metal fence is falling apart, any plans fixing it so not any unwanted animals can jump in.

Kelly S Larson

I'm wondering if Philippe also doesn't want kids.

Anonymous

Hello, I just want to know when was the first time Philip apear in a Blog

Anonymous

I’m so excited for this❤️❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

Production companies know exactly what they’re doing. In the US, they have a lot of regulations in the industry and legal departments that make sure they’re enforced. I don’t know how they run the companies in the UK, but I’m sure someone “approved” the script for that episode.

Anonymous

People, let’s give Stephanie and Philip a pass on the relationship questions. Stephanie is incredibly open about sharing her life with us, but this issue has got to be a really sore subject right about now. Besides, if it wasn’t for Channel 4’s indiscretion we wouldn’t be talking about it at all. If the high heeled shoes were on the other foot, you probably wouldn’t want a raft of romantic relationship questions from those you don’t actually know.

Anonymous

Hawaii time is 10:15❤️

Anonymous

Yay so excited!!!! Hugs to all!!!!

Anonymous

Stephanie do you have any plans for a chateau sewing room? You mentioned wanting to update your sewing machine. I love anything about textiles! 💜

Anonymous

Hi Steph and Phillip! How is Herbert the hedgehog? Also an update on the pea chicks?

Anonymous

What's your tip for staying friends with exes? I'm so intrigued by the fact that you stay such good friends with your exes. I think it shows a lot of maturity.

Anonymous

Hello There! So excited to follow your very interesting and exciting life. My honest question, between Philip and you, who was the first to feel that there was something developing and, has your relationship change any dynamics in the chateau? Thank you and God Bless.

Anonymous

Who will be staying this winter? Will you have any guests?

Anonymous

I staggered out of bed at 6am Sunday, managed to make coffee and scrambled eggs now by the glory that only Stephanie can muster I am here and alive for Live. So excited!

Anonymous

Hi Steph! I may have the opportunity to come and visit LaLande in June/July. I can't wait to meet everyone in person. How far in advance would I need to make arrangements to stay? Do you think you might have a full house at that time of the year?

Anonymous

Thank you for everything, always Stephanie!!!

Anonymous

How is the downstairs loo coming along?

Anonymous

i am wondering how the terrace 'fix' is coming along and when will you have a new one :)

Anonymous

Hello from USA. How are the peacocks, life, love, and laighter?

Anonymous

Works well on iOS AirPlay (to Roku) !

Anonymous

What qualities do you and Nati look for in volunteers? I have sent an email already, but would like to know what else I can do in order to hopefully join the LaLande team, even if it's just for a month or so.

Anonymous

I second, I may have missed an update related to what's happening to the lake now?

Anonymous

I’m unfamiliar with Vimeo and this is a completely ignorant question lol. Do we watch the Patreon vlogs through Vimeo or on Patreon?

Anonymous

Are you still sending out the welcome letters to new patrons? I've been one for a few months and I'm just wondering if I should still be accepting one

Anonymous

If you feel comfortable I would love to know the story of how you two got together. I love hearing those but I understand if you want I keep it private.

Anonymous

Are there plans for duets or trios song during Advent. I so love when you sing together.

Anonymous

Hi Steph - 2 Question s 1. did I miss it and if not, when will we see the final reveal of the downstairs loo, and #2, will Philip be showing us his room/apartment? I'm dying to see all the things he's purchased and how he's decorated his space. Hugs to all!

Anonymous

HELLO from Australia. I can't believe I.ll make it to a live live. 😀 usually I.m asleep. My questions about the sheep. If you make their paddock over the road a car park and the paddock by the old wing a formal garden where will the sheep live?

Anonymous

How are you feeling Steph? I don’t want you to end up in hospital again, busy season coming up - Philip make her take care! Much Love your favorite hygienist- DeLynn.

Anonymous

Hi dearest lassie, you were a wee bit poorly the other day and ‘confined’ to bed for the morning - are you ok now, hope so but please don’t run yourself into the ground xx

Anonymous

Hey all from damp, drizzly Plymouth, where is everyone situated tonight?

Anonymous

OMG! Such a fun question from, well, outer space! Never really liked Voyager, or Deep Space Nine. I liked Next Generation. And from the original…The Trouble with Tribbles of course.

Anonymous

Just popping on here to say that I am so sorry that you two have to go through this. No questions here just enjoying every minute of being a patreon. Keep up the great work!

Anonymous

Greetings to all from Dublin !

Anonymous

When will you have a new opening?

Anonymous

Hello Everyone! I've been here since the beginning but I don't speak much. With this outing by Channel 4 and the swipe at your income, it seems time since Channel 4 recently resumed the Chateau DIY series. Who benefits from these actions and are they coordinated. I pledge first-come Patreon content or not, I'll continue to support LaLande come rain or shine. And, I hope that my fellow Patreons will as well. Dear Stephanie Philip, and all LaLanders, please know that you are supported and loved for your life, love, and laughter as you restore a historic château. Please continue rising above as you share LaLande with the world. ,

Anonymous

I love this exes question, it’s so refreshing to see all getting all my beautifully, and the new partners good with it too!

Anonymous

Hi lovelies- Q: what vlogging channels do you love to follow? ❤️ Tannis’s song is fantastic- l’m la, lah lah landing around the house all day.

Anonymous

So happy for you both. Seems like it has been kind of a rough week. Hope the sun has been shining and everybody is feeling positive again

Anonymous

Hello from sunny and warm Iowa. Looking forward to the live chat!

Anonymous

I've been a patron for around a year - not received anything. (I am in the Scullery Maid category!).

Anonymous

My guess is that this couple will remain independent thinkers.... I hope so anyway

Anonymous

I'm here!

Anonymous

I'm here

Anonymous

Hello!!

Anonymous

Hearing you perfectly !

Anonymous

I'm in

Anonymous

We are here!

Anonymous

I see you!

Anonymous

I hear you!

Anonymous

I can see and hear

Emma Young

I can see you, sounds a bit jumpy though

Anonymous

Hello! You are live 🤗

Anonymous

I"m in and can see an dhear you, but the counter doesn't show

Anonymous

I can see you!

Anonymous

Yes, it has started and I can see it!

Anonymous

We are here!

Anonymous

Im here!

Anonymous

I can see you

Anonymous

Hello, is anyone already logged in? I’m not seeing anything.

Sabine Goetz

I am watching you live! All good.

Anonymous

I can see it but not sure how to get into the chat

Anonymous

i am in

Anonymous

I am watching you!! xx

Anonymous

hear and see you just fine

Anonymous

I am in the chat

Anonymous

I see you beautiful!!!!!

Anonymous

I'm watching

Anonymous

the sound is cutting in and out

Anonymous

I'm here but where is the chat?

Anonymous

I can see and hear you.

Anonymous

It’s live y’all. Just refresh the page and click the video

Anonymous

Your speaker is cutting in and out

Anonymous

Not sure how the chat works. We’re watching and you’re very clear

Anonymous

You are on

Anonymous

we need a link to your live

Anonymous

It’s working fin

Anonymous

We’re here

Anonymous

I can see and hear you, but I don’t see a chat bar.

Anonymous

My first live chat! Has any one of your talented followers designed a toile for La Lande yet? If not I’ll give it a try? What is best carrier to use to send you something?

Anonymous

I'm here!

Anonymous

We can see and hear you! :)

Anonymous

hi from Ireland - hearing you loud and clear

Anonymous

It’s working! But to chat you have to go back to Patreon

Anonymous

Aloha Stephanie and Phillip ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

I can hear your conversation and see you, dear Stephanie

Anonymous

Also, There is an "embed" button on the video. Are you sure that this can't be added to other websites?

Anonymous

The sound keeps cutting out

Anonymous

I am watching the live, but I cant join it haha. Maybe post a link?

Anonymous

Video won't open for me!

Anonymous

louder please...

Anonymous

So excited about your LIVE event! What do you think is the magical ingredient that makes community life at the chateau so fruitful?

Kelly Douglas

We are here. You can see it by just clicking on the video above. 🙂👍

Anonymous

Its a bitt hachy

Anonymous

Hi, Steph the sound keeps cutting out

Anonymous

Picture is good but sound is breaking up a bit

Anonymous

Can't play

Anonymous

The audio is very jumpy cutting in and out

Anonymous

The audio is really popping in and out. But I can see it great here in Oklahoma.

Anonymous

the sound is breaking up

Anonymous

The video is staggering. Small pauses every other second

Anonymous

Unable to upload

Anonymous

Mark and Phillip of Château Avensac are here and say Hi!

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie and Philip!

Anonymous

breaking up on and off ....

Anonymous

the sound is wonky

Anonymous

The sound is going in and out on the live video.

Anonymous

I can play but I don't see how we can ask questions other than here (maybe that's the intent)

Anonymous

A lot of breaking up of your voice.

Anonymous

much better

Anonymous

Your sound is on and off

Anonymous

The sound is choppy

Anonymous

It’s saying it’s offline ?

Anonymous

Sound is breaking up!

Anonymous

Can’t see anything.

Anonymous

Yes, audio issues

Anonymous

Is anyone else having trouble with audio breaking up?

Anonymous

Hello, The audio is cutting off intermittently

Anonymous

There is the option to embed the link in another site when i click on settings - might be something to lock down

Anonymous

The audio is breaking up on every other word

Anonymous

Really glitchy for me; anyone else?

Sabine Goetz

The audio is cutting in/out. Anyone else having this issue?

Anonymous

Is anyone else experiencing the audio cutting in and out, or is it just me? Much better without the mic

Anonymous

I am packing for a Greek cruise while I view!

Anonymous

Hello Stephanie! The video is glitching a little

Anonymous

So excited to join!! Hope everyone is doing well at the chateau!

Anonymous

I note your audio is fading in and out but I can make out most of what you are saying. (My Internet is very fast.)

Anonymous

I'm here but you are choppy

Anonymous

Sound is cutting in and out

Anonymous

the sound is breaking up

Anonymous

I can’t get on. Do I need to log in to Vimeo or watch from Patreon app?

Anonymous

Video is great the audio is incomprehensible

Anonymous

Sound is breaking up alot

Anonymous

It started then stopped and went offline.

Anonymous

Do we have to join Vimeo to see. I just see a picture of the chateau.

Anonymous

Sound is breaking up

Anonymous

Hi Steph it's bad quality tonight, the sound is catching. Really hard to follow

Anonymous

Major sound issues!! Coming and going every couple of seconds

Anonymous

Sound not good xx can you keep still a bit please xx🥰

Anonymous

Ksound breaks up

Anonymous

so there is no live chat to ask questions directly? If you see this, I've always wondered since you guys cook such diverse meals if at anytime a guest wasn't a fan of said cooking and what happens then? The sound on the live is choppy btw

Anonymous

Is this where you comment or is there someplace else?

Anonymous

Not working sorry

Anonymous

Is anyone else having sound issues with the live? Is there a chat for the live?

Anonymous

So lovely to see you Voice is coming in and out :(

Anonymous

the sound keeps cutting out unfortunately.

Anonymous

It says the event hasn’t started for me, do you have to be a member of Vimeo to watch?

Anonymous

Sound is cutting in and out

Anonymous

Audio cutting in and out, very choppy hard to hear

Anonymous

The sound is terrible

Anonymous

Oops…lost it

Anonymous

no sound glitches, but there is an echo

Anonymous

Mine is not working. Help

Anonymous

Much better

Anonymous

perfect

Anonymous

much better

Anonymous

This is much better!!!!!!

Anonymous

Much better on this end

Anonymous

Much better without the mic

Anonymous

much better now thanks

Anonymous

much better!!

Anonymous

Now it sounds perfect

Anonymous

YASS so much better now!

Anonymous

Oh, that's lovely! Voice is grand.

Anonymous

Hear you very good now!

Anonymous

Can hear you perfectly without mic

Anonymous

That's much better without the mic.

Anonymous

Ahhh the modern world. Better by much!

Anonymous

better now for me

Anonymous

Audio is better

Anonymous

Much much better without the mic!!

Anonymous

THis is better now!

Anonymous

It is not skipping with no mic

Anonymous

Much better without mic

Anonymous

Yes without the mic is much better!

Anonymous

great now

Anonymous

Sound is much better without the mike

Anonymous

it’s all that singing!

Anonymous

Better without x

Anonymous

Thats much better Steph!

Anonymous

That's much better Phillip

Anonymous

Much better audio without the microphone!

Anonymous

Yiou sound great now.

Anonymous

No video for me

Anonymous

Solved the problem!

Anonymous

Thats better 😊

Anonymous

Fixed!!!

Anonymous

sound is much better!

Anonymous

much better..no cutting out now

Anonymous

Fab fab fab now 😍

Anonymous

Perfect sound without the mike!

Anonymous

Yes can hear much better now

Anonymous

Better

Emma Young

better without the mic :)

Anonymous

Yes sounds is not great

Anonymous

Yes not breaking up now can hear clearly

Anonymous

Without the mic it sounds much better. Thanks!

Anonymous

much better

Anonymous

Working well! How’s the loo?!

Anonymous

Sound is great now, it was all broken up before, xoxoxo

Anonymous

A few sound glitches. Much better without the mike. the operatic voice certainly carries xx

Anonymous

Miles better sound thank you xx

Anonymous

Good with Mike off not jumping about xx thank you xx🥰

Anonymous

This doesn’t work for me. What a shame. I only see a picture of the chateau no live stream.

Anonymous

I have a paid Vimeo account. Video won't load. I wonder if it's a regional thing. I'm in the US. Anybody else from other parts of the globe having issues?

Anonymous

Better now❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

This is working well. Great again. Thank you to both of you for putting up with so much and pushing on.

Anonymous

Without the microphone it is coming through clear. 😊👍👍

Anonymous

I love that you are wearing my mum's brooch ! She would love to see it, xoxoxo

Anonymous

Where’s the link?

Anonymous

Sound is better now. What has happened with the terrace and the stairs renovation as they look a bit dangerous.

Anonymous

Mine won't place at all. It keeps saying unable to play video

Anonymous

Is there a trick to start the video? I keep getting a message the event hasn’t started

Anonymous

The feed won't load for me.

Anonymous

Cannot watch. Will not load

Anonymous

The sounds clicks on and off

Anonymous

Its gone offline

Anonymous

That was a bust

Anonymous

Can’t watch, says no video

Anonymous

🥰🥰no question, just a comment; Perhaps its a blessing in disguise, now you don’t have to hide your feelings for each other on the vlogs💕💕 Disregard the rude/hurtful people & concentrate on those who are important to you.😘

Anonymous

Not loading here too.

Alton Condra

Looks like I will miss it. No upload here. You guys have fun.

Anonymous

There is no video. Say live but says unable to load video

Anonymous

We knew. It was so cute when you told us tho 😊 im not going to lie the little bit of tormenting eachother was a giveaway xxx

Anonymous

This is rather upsetting. I actually rescheduled my entire day so I could watch this live and now it's not loading for half of us. Pretty frustrating. I hope you decide to post it later so those of us that can't watch can at least see it after the fact.

Anonymous

Can’t access it, says it’s not started?

Anonymous

This is a bit personal and of course don't answer if you don't want to :) But does it ever gets too much? there's many dependent of you for their income, all the work and on top of that hate-accounts! (really sorry to hear abt btw)

Anonymous

Hey guys, I've been able to watch on laptop, but not on phone. Hope this helps someone in this comment thread!!!

Anonymous

I'm so glad you said that Steph because I thought the same thing but the friendship & chemistry between you two is electric.

Anonymous

I’m having issues here in Christchurch New Zealand 🤒 hopefully I’ll be able to watch it later @Starr Date

Melissa

You two act like best friends so its the perfect relationship...so much love to you

Anonymous

I don't need to hear any details about your private life, although I appreciate your wanting to talk with us today.

Anonymous

That’s the best way to have a lasting relationship ❤️My relationship started the same way❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

Great sound and video quality!

Janis Paterson

Cant access, says sorry video doesn't exist. Earlier test worked fine. WORKED on laptop vs phone.

Anonymous

Hi, just kind of very disappointed that one of the patrons leaked your video. Sad to have to deal with lack of loyalty and discretion. But on a happier note, know that the LaLand family will overcome whatever and continue to be happy and successful in all endeavors.

Anonymous

I had this too, then I hovered over the video on the Patreon feed and it loaded somehow

Anonymous

Have you thought about solar power investment- a month of Patreon money (if it could be used for that) would buy a decent system and lower bills and of course be a 21st century addition

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, you two seem to be very much made for each other. Thank you for letting us glimpse into your life in the chateau. Love from Ella Clark in Canada.

Anonymous

It’s been a rough week for you. How are you doing now?

Anonymous

Is there a chat function to ask questions live today please?

Anonymous

Is there any way to project the Vimeo video on my TV, like the Youtube permits?

Anonymous

I have no problem with the video now. Sound is perfekt for both of you and video quality is spot on. For those who struggle, have you tried reloading the page?

Anonymous

Oh also, someone posted one of your vlogs yesterday under a made-up account.

Anonymous

Thanks 😊 it's true! My husband came along when I stopped looking. I am older than him, and we are now 37 years happily married 😊

Anonymous

Love you both so much! Don't let anyone get you down. Hugs!!

Anonymous

What about the downstairs Lou

Melissa

Please feel freedom to cut back on videos...you do so much. Take time to take care of yourself.

Anonymous

may i ask who the photo behind you is?

Anonymous

Does having the relationship out make it less stressfull for you now with editing? have you ever slipped (pre CDIY outing) and had to have an editing Stephanie moment? :)

Alton Condra

I did have two questions. 1) how many days will the Patreon event be and will we have a costume party? 2. Stephanie did you ever get the letter from me on how I sent you the truffle cheese. Loved seeing you share it with your quests.

Anonymous

QUESTION would love to know about Phillip's love of history and what he knows about the history of the chateau/area. Would love a full-blown history blog from Phillip. I'm researching my genealogy in France, England and North into Viking territory and love all the gritty details of your area.

Anonymous

It’s not working for me 😢

Anonymous

Has anyone designed a toile for La Lande? If not I’d like to give it a try, what is the best wAy to ship items to you.. which carrier?

Anonymous

how to join in the live chat?

Anonymous

Is anyone else not able to see or comment in the chat?

Anonymous

I can only access the video, but can't seem to access the actual live chat

Anonymous

Not sure where the chat is...probably why you're not getting a lot of questions there.

Anonymous

Is there a chat? I see the comments down below the video but no chat.

Anonymous

Is there any live chat, or only this chat?

Anonymous

Is Selmar leaving permanent;y?

Anonymous

is this comment section supposed to be the chat for the video?

Anonymous

I can’t figure out how to comment on the stream

Anonymous

QUESTION if you had to choose, do you have a favorite vlog you've filmed thus far? Always curious to know what videos stick out in the vloggers mind after creating so many.

Melissa

No idea on how to find this on vimeo for the live chat

Anonymous

Sound ok now.

Anonymous

I can't even stream the video.

Anonymous

I can't chat on the video. Oh well. Thank you Philip and Stephanie. And thank you Philip for taking care of Stephanie. ♥️

Anonymous

Do you want children

Anonymous

There is a chat feature but I can't figure it out.

Anonymous

I am concerned though, i have a button that I can copy and embed onto another site. Is this method not going to stop whoever it is from sharing?

Penny Thompson

The meals produced at Lalande look SO incredibly good - might you consider having the recipes collected and a cookbook produced? Along with great ideas for how to dress a table would be fabulous.

Anonymous

In canada and works for me, just clicked the link above

Anonymous

Hello from Brazil! COCKTAIL CORNER - have you both decided if it will be placed in the same spot since the decoration seams to be grown a lot with Cadeaux?

Anonymous

How has your heating system been working?

Anonymous

How do you do such a neat and pretty French Twist?

Anonymous

QUESTION: A while back in one of the vlogs when you were driving there was a beautiful song which was really lovely and I think was on the theme of brighter days coming... can you remember the name of the song... was trying to find it

Anonymous

Did you choose a name for the chicken coop?

Anonymous

Phillip, I'll never stop asking! Can you two please please do a lovely duet for Christmas or new years? pretty please :-D

Anonymous

My stream isn't working so I apologize if this was already addressed. Please address what's going on with the welcome letters. another patron stated it's been over a year since they joined and is yet to receive one and I havent received mine either and it's been months. Please update us.

Anonymous

Please post on your community page there will be no more Sun vlogs in Nov. I'm sure a lot didn't see your comments in chat. :)

Anonymous

I LOVE your Wedgwood! Do you have any of the glossy blue and white Wedgwood?

Anonymous

QUESTION: Hi Stephanie, have you considered getting PR (or Talent) agency representation to explore further creative opportunities, or manage reputational challenges that celebrity brings? You would be amazing having your own cultural history television programme.

Anonymous

will you please tell us how you met Davy ??

Anonymous

Age never matters. Just your heart.

Anonymous

Find your joy and be happy in it. Good plan day to day.

Anonymous

We lost you

Anonymous

My ex was 24 years younger we never asked ourselves if it would end and my daughter is with someone also 24 years younger, a family thing it seems, as long as you are happy ! xoxoxo I add that I am great friends with both my ex's ( both called Philippe! )

Anonymous

I cannot see how you ask a question whilst watching the live. Rather a different setup compared to YouTube.

Anonymous

Hi Steph & Philip!! Is Amaury single?! Asking for a friend ;) ahaha

Anonymous

If the Aga is on all the time, what happens during the summer- does it not get too hot?

Anonymous

Samsung Smart TVs no longer support Vimeo Bummer

Anonymous

Vivien Westwood has a wonderful husband who is 25 years her junior. Creative couples embrace the difference. 😊❤

Anonymous

Just love you guys!!

Anonymous

absolutely love you two together. Please take good care of one another

Anonymous

Can you please make more "Patreon goals"

Anonymous

Just FYI, my grandpa always said men should marry or date women older than them since men age faster. His words.

Anonymous

Now that you are in a relationship is Philip to be a paid employee still? Does this present issues for other employees or for our patron donations?

Anonymous

I would think you shouldn't talk about your relationship on the regular vlogs. Possibly acknowledge the relationship once due to the Channel 4 pulling it into public view then, no change to anything.

Anonymous

What are your plans for the old tower locations/restoring?

Anonymous

I can’t go back to the beggining, will it be reuploaded?

Anonymous

Folks are having trouble getting the video to work. I am able to have it work on my laptop, but not my phone. *And I did download the ap to my phone... Just fyi.

Anonymous

Accessed finally via Patreon..apologies if this was already answered. Are there any updates on Herbert and his recovery at the vet? Fingers and toes crossed.

Anonymous

I am in a wheelchair and would someday come and visit, is the chateau wheelchair accessible? I know it’s a historic building, so putting ramps on are difficult. Would love to come one day. Ella from Canada.

Anonymous

Amy are you able to comment on the chat? I haven’t figured it out

Anonymous

when is Matt coming back to do the floor in the China Pantry?

Anonymous

I think every relationship faces certain ultra stressful situations periodically that test your bond...yours might be figuring out how to divvy up the China pantry...😉

Anonymous

No live chat here…..sad face!

Anonymous

What operas have you performed and where?

Anonymous

Will you two sing for us?

Anonymous

The closed door on the old wing/fortress side. Which is closed up. Could it have been a doorway to a wooden bridge or walkway to one of the old Towers??

Jane Nunn

Will try

Anonymous

what is happening with the terrace

Anonymous

How is Nattie's apartment coming along? Is she getting excited? It is great to see the progress so far!

Anonymous

I'm still laughing over Isobel telling Philip to tell everyone that it's her he's dating. Dueling pistols at dawn with Percy 🤣

Anonymous

Is Phillip an employee as well as your mate?

Elizabeth Haddad

Thank you both for hosting this! If I could, for you both: what is two things that drew you to the other?

Anonymous

any word on the brick guys and the stairs ?

Brenda Mcgee

Will we see art museums when you visit Venice😍😍❤️❤️

Anonymous

How long before you plant the lollipop trees in the courtyard?

Anonymous

That paper near the candle on the fireplace is making me feel anxious!!

Anonymous

Q: I love your positivity and energy Stephanie, how do you not let negative comments and mean people affect you?

Anonymous

This is probably the best image quality of a live ever!!

Anonymous

An atelier/ studio for working on projects in the old servants quarters?

Anonymous

I would find it frustrating to work on a project like the Wedgwood Room when my bedroom was still very unfinished - can you talk a bit about project prioritisation and how you approach it? Beyond the obvious of structure etc.

Anonymous

Brainstorming for old servant quarters: artist studio retreat space. It's an idea...

Anonymous

Frozen

Anonymous

Would you two consider singing a duet, maybe a Christmas song for Advent

Anonymous

I was wondering if the Maquis and his family stayed at La Lande this year? I enjoyed watching them in that one vlog you did when they were there some time ago.

Anonymous

Do you mind telling us who made the wallpaper in entrance

Anonymous

Everytime I see this grey dress I wonder where it is from, it looks soo comfy and cute at the same time!!

Anonymous

Where can I see the whole film ???😮🙄😐😐😐

Anonymous

What is your favorite qualities about each other?

Anonymous

(Alan) How far behind are you on cadeaux at the chateau gifts? I sent in July, and wonder if things just go missing?

Anonymous

Perhaps an odd question….do you have any concern about “over” doing renovations and losing some of its old charm? (This is not including mechanical upgrades, of course…)

Anonymous

I’m sure you’ll have been to the The Wallace Collection in London. Really worth a revisit for inspiration.

Anonymous

Why did your parents buy that property in South Africa? And is Michael Potts South African?

Anonymous

I don't know about you Stephanie but I fell in love with Philip when he was chasing the sheep around!!!!!! ROFL. Ha!

Janis Paterson

Why can Amoury stay full time, and Cat has to count days? Is it a work visa difference?

Anonymous

In America, it's a dangerous thing to be personally involved with your employer. Quid Pro Quo and all that. It still happens, but liability is still an issue.

Anonymous

Is there a plan to put fish and lily pads in the fountain?

Anonymous

Have you got some more/new honey from the bee farmer and if so have you finished all from last year.

Elizabeth Haddad

I’m in your side Phillip! Married in the newly restored chapel 💜

Anonymous

HAHAHA, Phillip you can’t propose on a live! So cute just a little I wonder if....

Anonymous

a permanent exhibition of your father's art at the chateau !

Anonymous

You could definitely have really beautiful prints made of your father's art.

Anonymous

Would you consider NFTs of your digital copies of your father’s wonderful art?

Anonymous

The attic would be a wonderful space for a showing of your father's works with that high ceiling.

Anonymous

This is such a good way of spending Saturday night :)

Anonymous

You've been against having a GoFund me account for things at the chateau, which I am totally in agreement with. Would you reconsider it as a way to fund an exhibition of your father's work? It would be amazing to share his work with people all around the world who have fallen in love with the glimpses of his talent we've seen in your vlogs.

Anonymous

(Alan) Where in the name of everything holy did the two paintings in chambre-rose come from? Can we collectively vote them out? Sorry not sorry.

Anonymous

Did the live end?

Anonymous

Video still will not load. I'm located in the US

Anonymous

How do I apply to be a Volunteer? I can't find you on work away and want to book my flights for next year to Europe and am anxious to apply. I am a historic furniture & antiques restorer and historic house renovator in Australia. Keen gardener and would love to help as much as I can.

Anonymous

How old is Amoury?

Kelly Douglas

Here's kind of a silly question that popped into my head, how many staircases are at Lalande?

Julie Chittenden

I love the idea of the trees in the courtyard. I can't wait to see it.

Anonymous

I think she has said else where when it warms up in the late winter/early spring.

Anonymous

Your tea is getting cold ;)

Anonymous

Q: how are the shutter dogs going?

Anonymous

Your taste seems so in sync, is there any area (other than mahogany furniture) in which you disagree?

Anonymous

hello from Western Australia- much love to you both-

Anonymous

YES theatre in a paddock.... perhaps like the pop up Shakespeare!

Anonymous

I'm so happy for you and Phillip, can't image two nicer people finding each other! However the real question on everyone's mind is the love life of cousin Amery (sp?) Is he available💪💪👀💕. Asking for a friend🤣

Leah Hamdaoui

I think its lovely that Phillip is able now to show off his beautiful lady XXXXX

Elizabeth Haddad

We feel the same Stephanie! We wish we were there to support you as well.

Anonymous

Not thrilled with Vimeo. Cant play the video

Anonymous

It is so nice that it is out in the open, seems like a secret we all sensed but now it is confirmed and a sigh of relief has gone up.

Anonymous

617 people with you in the room!

Anonymous

Have you thought about a zoom with your patreons? You could see our faces then. That would be wonderful!!!

Anonymous

You make us feel we are in the same room with you!!

Anonymous

We support you so much!

Julie Chittenden

Do whatever you feel is the best for you and Philip. That's all that matters.

Anonymous

Yes, you have to talk about your relationsip with your CD fans. It's better to get out in front of it.

Anonymous

don't talk about your personal life on your Vlog

Anonymous

This is a comment rather than a question, but after hearing Philip play Pachebel's Canon back in January I decided to start playing the piano again after 25 years. First song . . . Pachelbel's Canon. Thanks Philip!!

Anonymous

No, don't talk about it on Chateau Diaries. The folks there and on the Facebook group are not being as kind as here. I quit the Facebook group because of that.

Anonymous

You need to address it once and tell everyone its private, so you at least get it out of the way and everyone can move on or move along!

Anonymous

Love is love is love

Anonymous

I would not talk about your relationship on the chateau diaries. There are too many unkind people who are not invested in your happiness or future in the general public.

Anonymous

Aw, Steph, we wish we could all be together in the same room too! I’ve enjoyed hearing about your relationship. It’s lovely and part of your life! Wish you both the best.

Anonymous

I've also thought that would be a good idea. Especially in light of the pandemic where so many of us can't come in person.

Anonymous

Whilst clarity of image is impeccable, there is a lot of buffering lags on my end. Anyone else experiencing similar issues? 😘

Anonymous

I don't think it's anyone's business but yours. It's what's you feel comfortable with. Only share it if you want to. I don't think it's necessary to share personally; I think you should have something to yourself.

Elizabeth Haddad

It is very easy to feel a loss of control because an element of your privacy has been invaded but the vlogs are yours and what you choose to make it. If you choose not to address something in the vlogs we completely understand and respect that. Especially since you share everything else. We have heard of your depression, your joy, your tough times, you happy times, if you want to keep your love life to yourself you have every right to do so.

Elizabeth Haddad

Btw the video quality on Vimeo is amazing

Anonymous

this forum is extremey frustrating

Anonymous

I definitely think that you should not discuss your love life in the Chateau Diary vlog. I think this could change so much that is lovely about the Chateau Diary vlog. One must never discuss politics, religion and sex at dinner parties and I feel strongly that this has been the delightful magic of the vlog. You have been so transparent about your life but enough is enough! Thank you dear Steph for considering it.

Anonymous

No one else can advise you re: the beloved. You have the same attitude I have: friendship, respect, trust is the foundation. Love is love, no matter the labels others may give it. Repeat often ,"All is well."

Anonymous

I would love to buy a print of your father's artwork hanging behind you above the fireplace. It's so gorgeous and I love the colors :)

Anonymous

No hair cuts Phillip!

Pam Mastin

Stephanie, I do believe that you should also speak with the Chateau Diaries group. It would be such a load off your mind...always wondering who knows what and wondering about the reaction. It would make a clean slate. Just one opinion here. :)

Anonymous

Please Please answer the Volunteering Questions before you go..

Anonymous

Below the ear length for Philip looks a lot better. It is clean and keeps him looking young.

Kelly Douglas

Are you going to give the peachicks to the little old lady who found Jenny's lost peacocks? I bet she would love them.

Anonymous

No question here, just wanted to say I’m looking forward to your return to the Lalande kitchen!

Anonymous

It's best not to talk about an intimate relationship on your vlogs, one never knows about the future. Also, you mentioned Philip's duties have changed, what does his current role entail? Will he manage employees or restoration?

Anonymous

Re peachick names. Have you seen “You” on Netflix - ‘Love’ is a main character (murderess) …..

Anonymous

How is it possible to volunteer at the chateau? :)

Anonymous

Dearest Stephanie, I am delighted you are happy in your relationship with the lovely, fascinating and absolutely hilarious Philip. However your discomfort at talking about it publicly is evident and so I would counsel against it. Particularly if, as it appears to be the case, Philip is more comfortable, this can prove difficult so, on the premise that you grew a love without anyone knowing, nurture it. It does not need to be open for discussion! Metaphorical hugs to you both x

Anonymous

Will you do another singles event post-Covid?

Anonymous

How to contact about volunteering?

Anonymous

Stephanie and Phillip, please don't feel like you need to keep sharing your relationship with us on the vlogs. I personally enjoy your interactions and it is obvious the affection you have for each other. Phillip does a great job of taking care of you and making sure you take care of yourself. But beyond the natural interactions please don't feel like you need to share any other details of your relationship. That belongs to the two of you.

Anonymous

Are you going to visit Steve and Sarah ?

Anonymous

Stephanie if you're ever in Maastricht, I invite you for coffee / tea and Limburg pie

Anonymous

I am from Malta! 😁 Greetings

Anonymous

I vote or you not to disclose in the YouTube channel. Keep your privacy

Anonymous

Update on the "New" vlog intro

Anonymous

Check with Terry and Ash at Lalacelle as they would like Peacocks

Anonymous

How do you maintain your amazing energy? 💓

Anonymous

how do you walk on a stage being so shy?

Anonymous

ITS an old building..... which means it’s full of old world charm and no straight lines! So projects will always take time.

Sabine Goetz

Thank you for doing this live Q&A. It was a lovely way to spend my afternoon. Much love to you both.

Anonymous

Thankyou S and p for doing this video.

Anonymous

I had to go in another section of pattern to get it to work.

Anonymous

You and Philip are totally loved !!

Anonymous

Thank you. You have handled this week fabulously. Much love

Anonymous

Love you you darling girl!

Anonymous

You're so appreciated and have saved so many people's mental health during this time - thank you!

Anonymous

Sending lots of love back to you! Thank you for a great Q&A.

Anonymous

Well that’s awesome. I finally figured this out and it’s done

Anonymous

❤️

Anonymous

We LOVE YOU TOO, Stephanie! xoxox Laura

Anonymous

I missed it! Damn! I was working in my garage!

Anonymous

Thank you for this live, both of you are amazing! Xx

Anonymous

Thank you both! It was so lovely to hear from you. Sending you lots of virtual hugs!

Anonymous

Love, Life and Laughter are perfect names for the peachicks xxx

Anonymous

Thank you for answering my question. As always, you are so beautiful and kind. Much love xx

Anonymous

Thank you! You are lovely! So positive. You have been here for us all these months. We are here for you.

Anonymous

Aww, a million hugs to you guys!

Anonymous

Thank you for doing this live feed.

Anonymous

I can’t wait to see you all when I come to visit in June to celebrate my daughters 21st

Anonymous

I dont think you should say anything on the CD channel x Thankyou for this live x

Anonymous

Thank you both so much. Such a warm and lovely chat.

Anonymous

Adored this Q and A and adore everyone who we all have gotten to know at La Lande

Anonymous

Sending you love and appreciation, for all that you do for so many!

Anonymous

If we would be in the room with you, you would get a lllloooooooooottttt of hugs! 😊

Anonymous

Wonderful check-in. Thank you for sharing so much of yourselves with us. BTW I couldn’t see where around ask questions or make comments in Vimeo. Philip where were you seeing people posting during the LIVE?

Anonymous

How do I watch this from the beginning?

Anonymous

Thank jou both. Was lovely 🥰

Anonymous

I missed part of the Q&A will the video be posted?

Anonymous

Love you right back! Infinite Blessings to you and the whole Lalande Family

Anonymous

Thank you so much for the live today. Blessings on all at Lalande

Anonymous

By the way, I’m on the team of trees in the courtyard.

Anonymous

Sara- as far as i understand this live will be posted here on Patreon soon so you will be able to see it from beginning

Anonymous

Thank you so much Stephanie and Philip for this Livestream tonight. Shame we couldn't have a live chat, but I suppose we have to be adaptable to the changing world! Hope you have a lovely evening having a drink with Selmar and Tatyana! Lots and lots of love from Scotland!

Anonymous

You are so sweet, Stephanie! I'm glad you are feeling better and that you've decided to take Sundays to rest until the advent videos start. Sending lot's of love from North Carolina

Anonymous

Great Q&A. I know that it was not easy for you today, but you did an amazing job. Just keep being you :)

Anonymous

Well done Steph & Phillip for speaking about your relationship. Phillip great that you cut the live off when you did, as Steph clearly didn't want to break down on camera. Very best wishes to you both!

Leah Hamdaoui

We love you Stephanie :-) your kind heart and good cheer and beauty and sense of style and respect touch us all XX 🏰💛🏰🦘

Anonymous

I'm so sorry that you've felt so much pressure. I pray that you can have some relief of that anxiety now that you're not carrying the weight of a "secret" on your shoulders. That stress can be so exhausting. Mentally and physically. Love you, Stephanie. Hope you're able to get a good night of easy rest after this.

Anonymous

I think you have to go to The chateaus web site and talk to Nati

Anonymous

We love you for your generosity of spirit and your beautiful heartfelt enthusiasm for LaLande, your work and all of us. Bless you and Philip both and to all at the chateau.

Anonymous

I kept waiting for it to start. Didn’t know I had to close the program and come back I. I’m so bummed.

Anonymous

Thank you so much for sharing with us. Wanted to say again how happy we are for you both ❤️❤️❤️❤️. We were t able to see the beginning of the live. I hope it will be possible to rewatch. Have a lovely rest of the weekend!

Anonymous

Thank you 😊 for a great Q&A. Warm hugs andmuch love and light from Melbourne Australia

Anonymous

Oh Stephanie it made me cry thinking of all the pressure you are under. You handle it all so gracefully, with humour and love. I’m so glad you’re surrounded by so many who love you and are protective of you. Philip is your Renaissance man and I’m absolutely thrilled for both of you 😍

Anonymous

That was so lovely and glad you receive as much joy from our comments and we do watching your vlogs❤️

Anonymous

I feel completely left out and I’m 🙁

Brenda Mcgee

That was so lovely Stephanie you are so special to us you also gave me confidence to take on the world with courage and to see the world with love possibility and a community life changing lifelong I feel honoured to support and a sense of belonging Bless you my love and Phillip who truely loves you enchante😘😘❤️❤️👌🙏

Anonymous

Thank you for the live video today! Vimeo seemed to be great for the safety features. For a live event, it seemed to be really choppy. I'll have to rewatch since i missed half of what was said. But It might be great for the regularly posted weekly videos on Patreon. I also on team trees in courtyard!

Anonymous

Stephanie, you are so graceful and grateful about everything, it always touches my heart! I really hope to meet you in person someday soon. Thank you for this lovely live! Lots of love to you, Philip, and all Lalanders! ❤️

Anonymous

That was delightful. Thank you so much! 💜😊👍🇨🇦

Anonymous

This is late to be helpful to anyone, but I figured out mid-way through the live that if you want to comment on a Vimeo live, at least on an iPhone, you need to 1) download the vimeo app, 2) create a [free] Vimeo account, 3) open the video in Safari, 4) pull down to reveal the "Open in the Vimeo app" button, 5) open the video in the vimeo app, 6) tap the little speech bubble button to reveal the chat. Hope this is helpful for next time!

Anonymous

Stephanie, have Davie look at this Grand Design program (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUFJrWCqecA)(Grand Designs UK 2021 Season 22 Episode 5) This couple built a "swimming pool" that is cleaned by plants. It looks awesome and may work as well at the Chateau. I am so happy for you and Philip. There is nothing worse than being alone. Your joy is wonderful to see.

Julia Cobb

I honestly had a panic attack trying to find the live chat.I did get in on the last 10 minutes. I’m so excited about all that’s going on and approaching Advent. Thank you to both of you. I’ve never been a very open person about my relationships and I totally understand about you both. I too miss the sheep😉 and other critters. Hugs to you both. 🥰

Anonymous

Thanks for the chat Steph. It was the first time I could catch a live and I really enjoyed it. (The video worked great, though I'm not so sure about the actually chat, as on PC I couldn't really refresh, maybe smth to be worked out in the future). It definitely shows and I thinks it's what makes your videos so great, that you talk to the camera/us like we are just some friends having a chat, it really sets the whole atmosphere. Much love <3

Anonymous

I missed the live! When will it be posted to watch?

Anonymous

Great Q & A, don't change anything to your format, it's all working fine, you have it off to a tee.

Anonymous

Thank you so much for this Stephanie. You’re such a sweet soul and we’re all delighted that you’re happy. You’ll arrive at the right decision soon enough (about you & Philip) and whatever that is, you will 100% have all our support 🧡💛🧡💛

Anonymous

That was super and must have been difficult to do! Handled with great elegance. Things may change a bit for you now and I do think you should make some reference to your relationship in CD. Otherwise it’s too much of a two-tier system in relation to something so personal. So sorry you’ve been put in this position but there’s no going back unfortunately so it makes sense to quell any rumours and then move on xx

Anonymous

I really feel you do not need to say anything at all in the main vlogs, you simply don’t need the stress, carry on as usual doing what you love because like you we don’t want anything to change either 🙂 x

Anonymous

Please help me? When I click on the video now , it tells me THE VIDEO DOES NOT EXIST. thank you for any suggestions. South Australia 8am Sunday

Anonymous

Yes I would say a couple of sentences on the Diaries tell them it’s private and won’t be discussed again. Always better to confront these things head on and put paid to the innuendo and scuttlebut.

Anonymous

Yaaayyy!!! thank you so much Stephanie and Philip. You're both amazing. Love that you answered my question. So happy for Amaury that he can stay there. He's a big asset for the renovations of the Château. Please take care of yourself. You really need a good relaxing massage from time to time. Good health is very important and we don't want you to be sick. Take care and we are here for you and the LALANDERS. Sending love and positive vibes. Thanks a million 🤗

Anonymous

Thanks for the live, though many times I prefer you in charge of the editing. Philip seems such a good collaborator with all aspects as well. You dealt with “the border” between private and public really dexterously and right on brand, so I’m no longer afraid of potentially invasive questions aimed at you! I’m right with you in realizing what a great match you are for this new occupation. Heart and intelligence seems to be your North Star—and creativity, of course, which makes the improvisational sharing work so well. Looking forward to “going” to S Africa, and before that, advent! All best.

Anonymous

Just ask in comments on here. Philip was reading them out

Anonymous

Same is happening for me. I hope the new platform saved the live.

Anonymous

that's better than me, I never ever did found the live chat. I was having a convo with myself here! LOL.

Anonymous

Oh wow! Ok. Thank you, that is very helpful. I'll definitely be better prepared for next time.

Anonymous

Thank you once again for this video!!! I personally found it to be less stable then via YouTube and it was almost impossible to get it to airdrop onto my tv, like I normally do…. That said, if you decide to continue using this method, I will just have to get use to it and see if I can improve how to watch them! Another thing was that well watching via Vimeo, I couldn’t then ask questions through Patreon at the same time!!! You asked for advice on what to do about the château diaries vlogs and your relationship…. Maybe a short separate video, a few minutes long, just to confirm and explain your reasons for trying to keep it private and leave it at that…. Then let the normal vlogs run as normal as if nothing has happened! Whatever you both decide, you will always have our support and will will always have your back….. One warm Patreon hug coming your way!

Anonymous

Thank you so much for this! You made me tear up at the end because you also make me feel like I'm just hanging out with friends. Its been a rough few years for me and getting to enjoy the company of you all have made my days brighter. I love all that you do and I'm so grateful for your amazingly loving heart.

Anonymous

Please, please do not change anything about your vlogs, blogs or you tubes. They are simply wonderful and we all adore them. We are all so pleased and happy with the news of you and Phillip. I predict that very shortly, all of this new attention towards this part of your life, will all very simply fade into total normality and there will be no reason to explain anymore or speak about it publicly at all, beyond what you want to or are comfortable with. I frankly had always assumed you were a couple anyway! I am, however, so sick and tired of these horrible people who think divulging and exposing elements of anyone else's private life is acceptable behavior. But pls try not to worry about it and try to put this behind you. Rise above all it and these horrible people who have put you in this uncomfortable position. We are all on your side and would never do anything to hurt or harm either you or Phillip or anyone else at LaLande. Cheers!

Anonymous

Couldn't get the live feed up, so I'm looking forward to watching it later.

Anonymous

Lee- i think he was a viewer of the vlogs and wrote teling of his historical garden expertise and interest and it grew from there to be the incredible part of the team that he now is

Kimberly Dale

😁🥰 ThankYou for Posting the Times Clearly … I was actually early I’m usually a couple hours behind, so that clearly made the difference for my being a part for an entire beginning to end live stream… Now rest up… & I need to get on with my day too…it’s mid afternoon here🍁🧡🙏😊

Anonymous

Missed the live (working) and unable to replay it. ☹ Also, on this new platform I can't send it to YouTube to view on my television. ☹ Phone screen only. Hope all is well! 👍 Thanks for great content. ❤

Anonymous

Why would it be a problem ? Philip is not paid from Patreon money and it’s not illegal for any business to employ a partner or family member.

Anonymous

Love from South Carolina 😘 Husband and I enjoyed the Q and A on this rainy dark afternoon. I know you may be uncomfortable sharing your relationship on Chateau Diaries but it may also be a bit uncomfortable "hiding" it now that the viewers are aware. Do what is best for you!

Anonymous

The bed linen gets sent to a laundry service now. And theres another Cleaner, Dave that Stephanie just mentioned.

Anonymous

Your voice and attitude are strong and upbeat, you have handled the shock and stress of the week beautifully. Pamper yourself please!!!!!

Anonymous

Love you both and Lalande so much! Stephanie, weekly acupuncture or similar treatment through advent could really help. Maybe ask Selmar who he sees for his back. Take extra good care because absolutely nothing is worth your health suffering. That live q&a was like catching up with a friend ❤️ I’m glad you feel supported. And if you and Philip can get through technical difficulties live on air as a couple…you can do anything!!!!💕 You’re both amazing wonderful people.

Anonymous

Loved the live. Have to watch it on my iPad though and couldn’t work out how to comment while watching. Thanks for all you do x

Garrie and Cindy Garrison

That was very special. I feel so lucky to be part of this great experience. And to know these great people, even from a distance. Life is beautiful.

Anonymous

I didn’t sign up for Vimeo before hand so wasn’t able to ask questions during the Live chat. But its was very good. Thank you for your honesty, I can listen to you talk for ages.

Anonymous

When you went to mic you didn’t break up.

Anonymous

I enjoyed this Q&A, my first -- thanks! However, I think it is essential to keep the private out of the Chateau Diaries. Those are about the chateau, not your private lives. I would most likely not have enjoyed the Diaries as much if I felt part of your private space; I have my life, you have yours. What I, and surely many others, enjoy is the personal but strictly-not-private in your vlogging. I can dream with you then, in a way I can't if I had to also share your private lives.

Anonymous

Just like anyone at an office, when working you don’t address your relationship…you remain professional (as you both have done very well) and once the work is over then… it’s still none of our business! My ex husband and I worked together for 2 years and no one had a clue we were dating until we showed up one day married…lol😂. The point is, our behavior didn’t change regardless of the relationship status. I don’t understand what y’all are referring to when you mention “hate site”…but I can hazard a guess. Social media makes it so easy for nastiness to spread. Stephanie, Some of your strengths are your goodness, kindness & inclusiveness….just keep being you…

Anonymous

I like view 3 of the facade. Will miss the blue shutters but understand about maintenance.

Anonymous

Thank you both for the lovely chat. I love the positivity and dynamics between you both. Looking forward seeing all the exciting developments taking place at la Lande. I have my advent calendar at the ready to count down the days to Christmas. Enjoy your Holiday Steph 🤗 What is the name of the musical you will be in Philip? Will you be doing a little behind the scenes filming for us?

Anonymous

I can see the Q&A in the vimeo app for FireTV. But it won't let me watch it. It's incredibly choppy & constantly flashes up "unable to play video". It wouldn't let me watch it at all while it was live. While I entirely agree it's unfair that non patrons are stealing your YouTube links. If we can't watch these videos in a convenient way (and on the phone isn't convenient). I don't see any reason for Mum & I to remain patrons.

Anonymous

Thank you - that was such a treat to have you come visit us in our living room and chat -really cheered me up- you are SO generous with your joy, life and love. Like 1000's others you continue to bring much light into my life With regards to your question as to what to do/say on the vlogs- my response is take your time to tune into what is right for YOU You are a very smart woman and give yourself the time to connect with what that is- no one else knows. Also the form might change over time - maybe there is no one off response either way - just dont feel you have to work it all out immediately, You are a woman of incredible integrity. supported and loved by many and that will see you through You are ALL doing brilliantly. And thank you Philip for being the kind, loving, caring, smart man that you are and looking after our beloved Steph so well and bringing her so much joy and happiness in your loving partnership xx

Anonymous

My husband knew about you and Philip and I would say no way! Ha to me good for you. Speaking of relationships anything with Nati and Ameroy?

Anonymous

Thank you for doing the live vlog both of you xx. Lots of questions I thought of asking were answered xx I thoroughly enjoyed it xx I’m so pleased for you both xx age is just a number xx hope you are able to sort the YouTube and Patreon dilemma out xx someone once said to me “keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer”. I have found this so true xx look after yourselves xx love and hugs to you all xx🥰🏰

Anonymous

STEPH THIS IS STILL SHAREABLE!!! If you hover over the video on the right hand side there's something that looks like a paper airplane It allows you to copy the video link and you can share it just as easy as with youtube! I emailed it to myself to see if it would show up and it does!

Anonymous

I will still enjoy the vlogs no matter what, but I don’t think I will enjoy it as much if your private life is regularly referenced. What happened with channel 4 is a pity because I get the feeling you would have preferred the separation too, especially since you were open with your real friends and family and could carry on with the job of making the vlogs comfortably with the relationship offline for a year. It’ll be interesting to see which way things go in the near future with the vlogs. Wishing you both the best of luck and I am happy you found each other.x

Anonymous

That said. I did see the bit about you taking Sundays off until the end of the year & your trip to South Africa to see Isabelle in the new year. As I was trying to make it work. Good! You work entirely too hard, and produce a huge amount of content week on week. As shown by your reaction when the ceiling collapsed. You need to rest & recharge occasionally. Delegating some of the editing duties can only help!

Anonymous

I didn't understand the "hate site" thing either so I went looking. I was truly horrified by the number of people who expend a great deal of energy being mean and hateful. I even saw the previous video there. It's just so sad that people have nothing better to do than to make spiteful comments about others. I'm going to forget it now and just keep on enjoying life being happy for others.

Anonymous

I was just thinking about your initials S&P, just like salt and pepper. The pairing dates back to seventeenth-century French cuisine which considered black pepper the only spice that did not overpower the true taste of food. So there you go, your pairing was meant to be

Anonymous

Oh for Pete’s sake. They’re taking video of their computer screen and posting the live on the hate site in two minute increments. Honestly? If that’s how you want to spend your Saturday night, whatever. I do think maybe you should look into knitting or volunteering at a soup kitchen or some sort of soothing, productive hobby instead. You clearly have a lot of time on your hands!

Anonymous

Is the quality of the video really choppy for anyone else? The sound keeps cutting in and out for me.

Anonymous

Yep! Stephanie really needs to ferret out who “MojoDublin” is here. He/she is the one posting the videos. He/she said they joined Patreon August of last year. He/she may not be the only one, but that is the poster that is posting the videos. There are others sharing the comments here and making fun of the Patrons. They are malicious immature group of haters.

Anonymous

My sweetheart and I spent several years of our dating and early married life traveling a lot with our work. It gave us the opportunity to do what we loved and miss each other terribly. I remember with great fondness the times he would meet me somewhere in between for a long weekend. I’m so grateful being with him didn’t mean giving up myself. It’s only made me and us better!!

Anonymous

It’s very generous of you Steph and Philip to share your relationship story. There’s really nothing to hide. Celebrate your love and finding each other, its a precious gift. That’s what the world needs more of … love love love. Ignore the ‘haters’, they live in a miserable parallel world.

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie and Phillip for being open about your relationship with us. Where it goes is up to you both. Just enjoy each day as it comes and don’t overthink the future.

Anonymous

🤗 love and happiness to all! Such amazing people ❤️ continue to do what you love, how you love to do it. No explanation is required about personal relationships ( although so happy you and Philip have found that together) share what you like, in whatever shape that takes! I have always found the vlogs completely natural as they are 👍🏼

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie for opening your chateau and bringing us right into La Lande!! Just live your life , stay happy ! In future on your Vlogs do whatever feels natural . It’s ok to be yourself, we love you!!❤️🙏🏼

Anonymous

I dont think you have to share your relationship on chateau diaries lots of love melbourne australia

Anonymous

Thank you for the very informative Q and A. I am so happy you found most deserved happiness with Phillip. You would be hard pressed to find a better person to love.💕

Anonymous

I'm glad you've weathered this storm so well. Personally I don't care for romantic drama or that kind of reality show stuff. I hope The Chateau Diaries can keep its focus on the chateau and the magic around it. Also, apparently someone was copying this video almost in real time onto the hate site so switching to Vimeo doesn't seem to be a solution.

Anonymous

Very nice Q&A. Love you too, you are a bright light for so many.

Anonymous

You are so lovely, thank you for the updates and sharing. I began watching you a few months before lockdown, and I just feel that I've been on this incredible journey with you that I could not have taken otherwise. It has really had a positive effect on my life and I feel very grateful and protective. Please take good care of yourself so that you don't get ill! Be loving and very, very gentle to yourself until you are feeling a bit less stressed. Hold your boundaries firm. Lots of love from San Diego, California.

Anonymous

Clever to have Vimeo; worked well. Hope it stops the haters. I see the comments about keeping your life private; Of course we're all happy for you, but no need to divulge. If we truly love you, and we do, we will have good boundaries. I love watching your vlogs, so do all you can to keep your health and vitality.

Anonymous

So much love to you both ❤️ It’s such a privilege to feel apart of your wonderful life. I love having things to look forward too with your future plans with advent and travels that we get to live vicariously with you. Here in Victoria, Australia there is still so many unknowns with the restrictions and the uncertainty has been difficult. So watching your wonderful lives move forward so full of love and joy is beyond a blessing! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

Merci Stéphanie 🥰 de partager ta vie et tes rêves avec nous! Tu nous accompagnes, avec ton énergie positive, dans nos vies de tout les jours. En étant toi-même tu nous donnes l’exemple qui nous encourage à accomplir nos projets et nos rêves! La vie est une grande aventure et remplie d’amour, de vie et de rire…c’est à nous d’en profiter comme tu le fais si bien!

Anonymous

Big hug for you all ! I sometimes call those emotions 'growing pains', when new bigger projects, new relationships, new pressures in life come along and one thinks they can't handle anymore - growing pains. How could life get any better? A butterfly comes to mind. Thanks for the lovely video Stephanie, best wishes to you and Philip.

Anonymous

The sound was erratic in the beginning so I was fiddling with the settings. Then I notice that Stephanie was talking so fast! I thought, she must be very nervous! Why doesn't Philip step in and help her to slow down a bit? ha ha -- then I looked again and saw that Vimeo has SPEED settings for talk. I can have Stephanie speak at any rate I wish -- including NORMAL speed! Live and learn. Stephanie -- I commented elsewhere -- Chateau Diaries itself was hacked. There was a fake one on youtube though some regulars caught it. Have you?

Anonymous

Much love to both you and Philip. Forget about the pitiful people in the world…I am thrilled you have each other. The sound quality was excellent after the first few minutes…great job! ❤️

Anonymous

Thank you both for such a wonderful Q&A. Embrace the happiness that you give to each other. ❤️

Anonymous

Great video! I'm so glad that nobody was asking overly intrusive questions about your relationship, since you don't owe anybody any explanations. My advice would be: if your instinct is to keep it to yourself then do that until you "feel" differently about it (for whatever various reason). Your intuition is strong and will know the right time IF & when it comes. As for you Dad's art.... I would love to help you create a Coffee Table book for LaLande!! At lest one chapter could be his art with any history and background info with each piece. How amazing would a big beautiful photo book all about LaLande be? I think people would LOVE to buy something like that. I have no background in creating a book but am happy to research and help organize it. Please let me know!

Anonymous

It was wonderfull thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous

Hello wonderful Stephanie! It is my very humble opinion that the vlogs are as near to perfection as possible. You have taught us all so much about rescuing historic properties and all the fine items that embellish them. As your viewers we have visited grand locales, eaten glorious foods and learned the histories that swirl about them all. But your highest magic lies in your ability to allow people from all walks of life with wildly varying personalities into your chateau and making a comfy cozy home. There is no reason to hide your relationship with Phillip on the vlogs but just continue along as you all have been. Most of us realize that there are problems, clashes, and relationships between Lalanders we do not see but your vlogs do not focus on those and that is how you keep the balance. This took me a dreadfully long time to write and I still don't think it is very concise, so sorry. All will be fine, just continue on. Please get some rest Stephanie. Much love from Austin, Texas.

Anonymous

You truly are an amazing lady Stephanie and I hope my daughter's grow up to be like you open to learning new things and experiencing everything life throws at them.

Anonymous

You did manage to cover a lot of updates! :-) One last relationship comment: Don't stress about the YouTube channel... let it evolve as it does. As time passes, you may find yourselves being more open about it or not. Just do what is right and natural for both of you. It will be fine. (What you said about exes and friendship is spot on. The love and friendship does not end when the romance does.)

Anonymous

I did that two, but when I clicked on it to watch, I had to enter my login credentials for Patreon to be able to watch.

Anonymous

Dear Stephanie, can you not sell your father's art work as prints? Aww what Isabellle would say? You could make such an income! His work has something for everyone. It seems he left them all to you for your life and his wife in perpetualm.

Anonymous

Stephanie you have been an inspiration! Thank you so much for all that you give. I had to take a break from contributing with patreon for a while but now I’m back. It gives me so much joy to be able to be part of LaLande this way.

Anonymous

Stephanie, you indicated earlier in the livestream that you are conflicted about sharing on the Chateau Diaries about your relationship with Philip.  Then you followed up with sharing the impact the stress of that being made public has had on your body.  Sometimes our bodies know things we haven't fully processed cognitively, a kind of physical intuition.  I think it is important to listen to that, as a kind of self-care.  It sounds like your body is telling you that for now you need to keep a measure of privacy regarding your relationship, and hold off on sharing that on the Chateau Diaries.  You can always share it at some point in the future, if you want to.  You can't unshare it once it's been shared.  And sharing with the entire internet is a bit different than being open with the people who are physically present with you, or even with the mostly supportive and kind Patreon community.  There's no reason to make a quick urgent decision about this just because of the events of this week.  Take your time to sit with it.  Share it only when it feels completely right and unpressured, when you can share it as a piece of joyful news to celebrate, rather than a reluctant reveal.  And if that time never comes, you are completely entitled to keep whatever part of your life for yourself that you wish. There are lots of vloggers, indeed other well known actors, musicians and other artists, who keep that side of their life completely private and never share it, in spite of or even because of the interest and demands of the public.  Whatever, whenever you decide, I hope you continue to feel loved and supported here, which you very much deserve.  Sending you much love!

Anonymous

Also Stephanie, I hope you can relax about your relationship with Phillip. He is lovely. Be yourself, Don't let this outing of your relationship tarnish your feelings or scare you. Just both of you be yourselves in life and your videos. xoxo

Anonymous

In regards to your father's art work, have you considered photographing all the pieces and putting it in a book? In America we'd call it a coffee table book, but no matter, I'd buy a copy!

Anonymous

Thank you for the lovely Q&A Stephanie and Philip. You bring so much happiness to so many and have really enjoyed being a Patron to your channel. My personal feeling is that you should never have to talk about your personal life to anyone. We sign on because you are so interesting in all that you talk about and we love the DIY projects of the chateau. What you do behind the vlogs is not our business , so never feel you owe it to anyone to talk about it. So happy for the both of you. Love from Canada xoxo

Anonymous

Thank you for this very special Live Stephanie and Philip. Please don't change the Chateau Diairies format, it is just perfect as it is. I look forward to them and have my dinner with you all while I watch the Diaries, Patreon or Cadeaux! You and Lalande have become a part of my life too! I became very emotional when you spoke about staying friends with your exes. I agree with you on all your points, a strong and loving friendship with mutual respect is forever. Bisous et a la prochaine! 💕🌹

Anonymous

I enjoyed watching the live and have watched all of your videos during lockdown here in Australia My thoughts are slightly different in that you come across as such an authentic and approachable person that I would assume you would be open about your partner on your channels. I’m not a vlogger so it’s easy to see it that way. What I’m trying to say is that in being truly authentic I would think it would be out in the open Not trying to judge so will respect and support whatever you decide as a patron I think you need not worry about what people think as so many people love you and for what you do There are always haters on the internet so please do not give them your energy Lots of love ❤️

Anonymous

Ps - will you be sharing details about your hospital stay from a few months ago?

Cynthia Logan

I just watched your live chat. I absolutely love how genuine and open you are with your patreons. ❤️ The love is mutual! Keep up the good work, but please find more time for R&R. And I hope that you don’t put too much pressure on yourself regarding the advent videos. Little short videos is all that is needed when you are doing them daily. Big hugs, from Missouri USA.

Anonymous

I just love you both so much!! Thank you for taking the time to spend with us. It is so appreciated. I'm so thrilled for Philip getting the opportunity to do the musical. So exciting!! As far as hoping to have the chance to do more musicals in future, I would say, don't hope for more chances, Philip. Create opportunities for yourself. If you want to do more musicals, never doubt for a second that we wouldn't help you fund your own projects. We absolutely would. If there is a lack of opportunity where you are, there is obviously a need. If Stephanie has taught us anything, it is to dream REALLY BIG for yourself. If the heart of France needs more musicals and theater, then maybe you're just the fella to answer the call. If you build it, they will come. I'm pretty sure Henry agrees. Hugs and love to you both. <3 <3 <3

Anonymous

Oh Stephanie, you are just so wonderful! Thank you for sharing your world with us!

Anonymous

Great Q&A. Share whatever you are comfortable with. If keeping your private life separate has been working for you then carry :) happy you both have found happiness!

Anonymous

To answer your question to us, should you tell all viewers about finding love with Philip - I have the answer in your own words from the vlog about your mother's wedding - you said, "I believe love at any age should be celebrated." And so my vote would be to let all the viewers know so they can celebrate with you as we have had the chance to do. And then go back to your usual wonderful vlogs...and your private love life. They may find out anyway, and hearing the news from you will thrill them all...

Anonymous

PS I would vote for having some of your father's art done in 100 Stars robes and pillows and more....

Anonymous

Great live. I'd love to see some clips of Phillip's play.

Anonymous

This recording was a great way to start my day. Unfortunately time difference meant that I want able to watch live but one thing I would have asked - where is Oliver? Will you be able to do your joint project in the future? Have a great week 💕🇦🇺💐

Anonymous

I'm so happy for you and Phillip, you both deserve love and happiness. Keep the Diaries going the way you do and enjoy the "private" life to yourselves. We do not need to know every detail of your lives. It's not fair to either of you. We are so lucky to share what you have been sharing and hope it continues for many more years. Love you and everyone at LaLande!

Anonymous

I was shocked that this was raised while S is valiantly trying to manage the fallout. Talk about adding fuel to the flame.

Anonymous

Thank you to you both for sharing this live, sending you both much light and love. 💕🇦🇺 Michelle

Anonymous

Does anyone know if there is a way I can see the live chat? I wasn't able to be here live and I'm not familiar with Vimeo. Thank you!

Anonymous

just click the picture and the video is there. hit the play button

Anonymous

I agree with the garden ideas that you and Davy have come up with. Height is very important in a grand garden design.

Anonymous

Simple question: When do you plan on working on the Mill, and what do you intend to do with it? Turn it back into a functional mill? Keep it as a mill, but non-functional? Something else? I know most people are going to ask about you and Phillip, so I figured I'd ask something else to give you a change of pace. :D If I ever went to Lalande (which seems like it's getting farther and farther away from likelihood given COVID and countries' response to it), I would have asked permission to work on the mill while there... Just kinda cleaning it up, getting all the brush out, throwing up some supporting beams here and there if it needs it, and basically just prepping it for the actual work. That way I could say that I contributed in a physical way to the restoration of Lalande. XD

Anonymous

You need to feel comfortable with what you reveal about your private life, don't ever feel pressured.

Anonymous

I very much enjoyed the Q & A today and it was good to have updates on so many things happening around the chateau. Since your announcement on Wednesday, I’ve given it a lot of thought, especially since you’ve expressed your own feelings about sharing with the larger audience on the vlog. While I so appreciate the need to keep something of your life private, I think you can do that while acknowledging that you’re in a relationship with Philip. To do less would infer a sort of shame and/or embarrassment over it, and as you are both adults, there is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about. So, yes, when you’re ready, perhaps make your relationship known as part of a conversation with others at the chateau, but without a big announcement. Then just go on with your regular life, which includes Philip. This shouldn’t be any different than Michael with Ruth, Selmar with Tatyana, or Nik with Marie. When one is in the public eye, there are always those who will gossip and speculate. I guarantee that amongst the FB groups and that awful page, by now your relationship has already been outed and there are going to be feelings that you’ve been hiding or deceitful, and I know that’s not what you’ve meant to do. Be yourself. By living your life authentically, you can just get on with it and stop worrying about those idiots.

Anonymous

Thanks for sharing all that you do! We all love you both and the diaries. Do what makes you comfortable or what you want to do about sharing your private life. We won’t change how we enjoy watching you both or how happy we are for you both!

Anonymous

Steph (and Philip) Richard and I just watched the "live chat" because we had other obligations earlier. I want to thank you both for your honesty, integrity and openness. Even though, we have never met, you feel so much like family to us as we move through this journey together. As I have watched the vlogs and the Cadeaux videos, you hear constantly what a blessing you have been through this pandemic time. While this is genuinely true, the success has been because you are genuine, honest and treat us as family. You keep us informed and involved in the decision about the restoration and life at Lelande. Your communication with us is almost without precedent. That is one of the reasons for our continued support. We believe in you and what you are doing at the Chateau. Your zest for life is truly evident and just make sure that you take care of you! You have surrounded yourself with other people who care and share the passion and created a most amazing team. While life is a cycle, we know that people will come and go from the life of the Chateau, but each leaves a special gift that will be a part of the Lelande story forever. We hope that in the next year or two that we will be able to visit to meet you all in person and give you a hug in person. Thank you so much, both of you, for the inspiration and joy that you are giving so. many.

Anonymous

I've been watching your videos since the beginning of last year, your videos have provided me and thousands of people an enriching and uplifting distraction from our feelings of isolation and displacement during these Covid years. I treasure the time I tune out from the worries of the day and tune in to life at LaLande. Heart felt thanks.

Anonymous

What date!? I'll be there in June also with my daughter! We'll be there June 2-11. I hope we get to meet.

Anonymous

Stephanie you are such a beautiful and gracious person. Thank you for sharing so much of your life with us already. You are incredibly generous and you both deserve every happiness. Only share as much as you are comfortable with, we are here to support you and your passion for Lalande. Your private life is yours. I am excited for 2022 so many projects will come to fruition! Keep well over winter my dears xx

Anonymous

What a lovely chat! You certainly have blossomed with joy and happiness! My very best to you and Philip. Merci beaucoup!

Anonymous

My dearest Stephanie, you are so focused on making everyone happy, the viewers, the patrons, and all those at LaLande. So my biggest wish is just for you to do what makes you happy! We love you and Phillip and all the LaLanders. You've given us so much that now it's time for you to Rest and be at peace because you have over 3400 family members that have your back. Hugs!!!

Anonymous

I think you should keep your personal life private and not discuss it. We all fell in love with the magic of your videos not knowing about your love life no need for us to know about it now. You share so much with all of us there’s no need to share everything.

Anonymous

Great stuff S. love being part of all this Chateau fun. 🥂

Anonymous

You can rewatch it - just click on the picture above. :)

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, Thank you for the wonderful Q&A. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to join you live today due to the extreme time difference. I just wanted to say, and I think I speak for all of here that I really appreciate your sharing your relationship with us, even if it feels awkward, but I personally consider you someone I truly care about, even if we haven't met in person yet. So whatever you chose to share, I will hold in whatever confidence you prefer and hold no expectations as to what and when you share. I just feel honoured to be a part of the magic, and to know that someone like you is out there spreading good in the world. Thanks again and I wish nothing but happiness and love for you both! xo

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie and Philip. I’m so very pleased for you both and even more happy to hear you have been together for a year! Just wonderful. I love your updates and Vlogs and have watched since the beginning of the pandemic. I have experienced the loss of my father and mother since then and I honestly don’t know what I would have done with out you to take me away from the grief. You both inspire me and I appreciate your hard work. Be kind to each other and live life to the full, it’s short enough. xx

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie and Philip we would like updates about you 2 every 3 or 4 months or so that would be nice loved the video you have come a very long way both of you Allan and Karen from Christchurch NZ

Anonymous

Lovely video Steph! I do hope you get to take a full holiday away - you deserve the rest!

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie for your Q A your answers to the questions were so informative and look forward to all the projects that are in the works when you speck to us through the patreon vlog I feel like I am in the room with you and could just hug you I am so pleased for you and Phillip and think you can imbrace you relation ship for all to share it is so lovely but of course only when you feel comfortable to do so love to you both

Laura & Jack

Jack and I were delighted when we heard the news. Not usually seeking personal information but, as you mentioned, we do feel close to those there and wish all to be happy. Can’t wait to visit. Loved your comment about an enveloping feeling. Half a world away, we both said “ahhh!!” And smiled as we few the same way. Ry

Anonymous

Stephanie I want to commend you on your decision to keep your love life to yourself, relationships are difficult enough with it being directed and scrutinised by anyone outside of your home. Age doesn’t matter at all , just love in peace.xxx🐨 coral

Anonymous

What a wonderful Q&A! Thank you. Once the dust settles on all these little revelations, you will know how to proceed. I hope that whatever you decide to share - even if it is nothing all, which is perfectly understandable! - you will feel just a bit more relaxed about it overall. You deserve life, love and laughter, but also peace, wholeheartedness and serenity in your lives. Also: the song recorded in the chapel - the one that cheered you in the kitchen while you were feeling down about the little flood? I went back to listen to it again, and the verse about Philip made me cry.

Anonymous

Stephanie do not talk about your love life with the public. You need your privacy and it has nothing to do with the chateau renovations.

Anonymous

Thank you, Stephanie, for spending so much time with us. I feel close to you - just because of your open heart, mind and spirit.

Anonymous

Lovely Q&A, thank you, please don’t be pressured by the leak to share your private life on the chateau diaries and we don’t need updates. That would be a terrible pressure on any relationship. Just keep being you (both) we can see the chemistry and that’s just a little bit of magic for us to enjoy. We support your quest to bring Lalande back to life it doesn’t give us a right to know everything about your private life. Love and hugs to you both. xxx

Anonymous

I'm sorry you felt so down and tired. I hope you have some lovely lush baths to nourish and sooth you. I just got out of one myself after a long day working on my feet, listening to your updates. I'm curious how your bedroom areas are going? I know you were talking about allowing yourself to spend more time on it, but it seems work has stopped. I'm excited to see progress on it. I agree with what other people have said. Once the dust settles all will be fine. It's nice that you mentioned it to us and I think that most people who watch you will react the same on Youtube. That is with kindness. I really think mentioning it or acknowledging it takes back your power. I hope that makes sense. Cuz it's not some scandal. It's something lovely. Can't wait for Christmas advent. I still hope Mr Micheal can join in this time! xoxo

Anonymous

Video not there

Anonymous

Love Finds a way 😍 Unconditional relationships are the greatest of gifts.❤️ Do not over think how The Chateau Diaries will now go forward, they will continue to evolve with the foundation you have set. Your relationship with Phillip is a true added bonus to all facets of La Lande, La Landers and the community circle of Life Love and Laughter you have created Stephanie ☀️🌻💛. What will be will be 🍾🥂

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie and Philip for another great Q&A. Watching your videos has always been a great stress reliever for me. I find myself watching old vlogs on days you don't post. I think its your positivity, kind heartedness, creativity and good spirit that draw me to your videos. Hope you can find rest and relaxation. Thanks again, I pray you both will be blessed with peace and love and happiness. xo

Anonymous

Now I have been able to see yesterday's Q&A did not go last night. But ... I had to start playing every other minute, which was annoying and got choppy. Will Wednesday's Patron be on the same platform? Can you tell what brand it is on the gas stove in the kitchen, is so nice and I will change with me. Thanks in advance Marianne

Anonymous

Thanks for update.I did wonder why the natural pool segment on TV seemed to just tail off.Every happiness going forward!

Anonymous

I had the same problem as Marianne Froberg. Hopefully it will improve as technical issues are sorted out. I am very happy for you and Phillip.

Daniel Hammond

Thank you for an amazing Q&A! I have loved every installment of Chateau Diaries and living vicariously through you is one of the joys of my life. Certainly, life would have gone on throughout lockdown without the chateau. There are books to be read, films to be watched, cakes to be baked, friends to chatter with on the telephone and coffee to be guzzled, even if it is only instant (blasphemy!) but you have taken me away from mundane reality into another world. I cannot tell you how appreciative I am. I hope your relationship with Philip lasts forever! Lots of love.

Anonymous

Thank you for the Q & A, it was great. the image quality seemed to be better than on youtube, it was great. Sending big hugs to both of you. Love from Australia xxxx

Anonymous

About the future of the chateau...If I were you , I would concentrate on the basic renevations like the facade, the heathing and gardens for the next five years ! Working so close together , involvement was unavoidable but it can be also overwhelming ! But life is here and now and happiness is always the thing worth looking for ! I think I said too much ....

Anonymous

I really hope you don't change the format and content just because you've talked about your private life. I personally don't want to hear about that, I'm a patreon because I love following the chateaux journey, not to follow your love life. I'm happy for you guys, but I really hope things don't change for your viewers.

Anonymous

I can hear the party downstairs !

Anonymous

The best, not stressed, q & a you ever made. All the best to you and Philip. Luv u

Anonymous

I have a problem...when I click on the video it said "sorry this video doesn't exist"....do you know why??? I couldn't see it on live sadly!!!!

Anonymous

We all love you for who you are. Thank you for sharing your live with us! Kisses

Anonymous

Thank you for the Q & A, it was just lovely!

Anonymous

I was there for 11 days and had NO IDEA! You are both so LOVELY and professional. Philip said he was spoken for and left it at that... so so sweet! I am inspired. I have younger men who approach me often that I discount because of what might happen in the future but you're right, we have to seize today's happiness! Kisses to you both!!!!

Anonymous

Someone can please help me? I still get the same message from vimeo...this video doesn't exist

Anonymous

How wonderful to see this Patreon Vlog! I am so so pleased to that you and Phillip are so Happy. Its shows in everything you do. To be a part of LaLande and see and hear how you are all going about your everyday life is amazing. The best thing ever on You Tube and I count myself lucky to be a Patreon. Love and hugs to you all, I cannot wait for the Advent Calendar to commence. Have a lovely week ahead, and Stephanie, always remember you have so much support from us all. Lots of love from the Dordogne xxx

Anonymous

Wonderful Q & A, thank you. Big hugs to you both 😘😘

Anonymous

Fabulous Q&A, so happy for you both. Sending love ❤ xxx

Anonymous

If I was not experiencing it myself I would never have believed such warmth and care could be felt for people I have never met. This is not sycophantic gushing, it is simply how I feel. Take care of yourselves and take time for yourselves.

Anonymous

Brilliant Q&A especially all the updates of things happening at the chateau. I think that your relationship should be kept out of the regular chateau diaries, as you say it's about chateu life and you should be able to have something private for yourselves ❤️❤️

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie, Hi Philip... This was our first time joining one of the live Q&A sessions and we were thrilled at the ease of which you simply talked to all of us as if we were actually sitting with you. Thank from both of us. And please do not put too much energy into the relationship issue... it is life! If you carry on as no big deal, it will not be a big deal! Haters is gonna hate - just bathe the haters in love and they will come around! Much love from the new Chateaulains du Chateau Avensac in the Gers... Mark and Phillip

Georgette Jones

Finally got the information, way to late so I missed it but I will now watch the replay❣️

Katie Roberts Art

Oooh I am having tears too at the end.. that was just so heartfelt and beautiful. Glad you're planning a break in January, take really good care Stephanie, advent sounds hectic! Oooh boy, you'll need some editing help won't you? I know you like to edit your own but it's a crazy amount to do. I wonder if any of us can help remotely? I'm sure a few of us have experience. Let us know. Xx

Anonymous

Dearest Stephanie and Phillip, Really great Q & A. I was so concerned about you getting hurt, that it didn't even dawn on me until yesterday that you'd have control over the Q's. Great job as always! It was very nice hearing about all of the subjects, and catching up. Again, so very happy for both of you.

Anonymous

The question and answer time was very much appreciated. You both have shown such vulnerability, sincerity , openess, and thoughtfulness. My partner and I wish you both contentment, love , and especially peace. All the best to you both.

Anonymous

You are both like family as is the rest of lalande team, and we love and support you all for as long as you need us. Thankyou for everything that you do to keep us happy and sane. Lots of love to you all.xxx

Anonymous

The link to the video is still the video above this post? I'm the only one who cannot see it😭😭😭😭

Anonymous

Hi dear Stephanie and Phillip, a relationship is such an organic natural thing and you don’t need to feel sensitive or embarrassed by it. Talk about your relationship whenever it comes up naturally and love talking about your love. God knows, there is little enough of love in our world today. Chateau diaries has always been full of love, long may it continue. You give us all hope. Bless you both. Love and huge hugs from Kerryn in Melbourne, Australia 🇦🇺😘😘💕

Melissa

Completely agree. Praying things start improving for you!

Anonymous

Loved the live stream (of course I always miss the actual live part , life! So thank you for posting the recording!) So happy you didn’t go deep on the relationship it is, after all, none of our business. Please do not mention it on your regular channel. Just because you share some of your life, it does not obligated you to share all of it. I think people forget that. You owe nothing except what you’ve committed to, x number of blogs per week. And that is also subject to change. I love your happy videos, they make me smile and would hate for that to change. Warm wishes to you both - happiness is contagious! Thank you for the glimpses into your world 🥰🥰.

Anonymous

Mark I love your response! You are so right, haters gonna hate!!! And love eventually wins!

Anonymous

What a wonderful live session that was mostly everything about lelande and not about you and Philippe ~ there was ‘just enough’. Stephanie thank you so much for your courage to share I choked up at the end too because I don’t think you realize but WE don’t want things to change too! Many blessings to all of you at lelande for sharing your lives with us

Anonymous

Chers Stéphanie & Philippe, je suis ravie de découvrir que vous avez trouvé l'amour ensemble & je considère que votre pudeur à partager votre intimité rafraichissante à notre époque. Votre amour est votre trésor à vous deux & vous êtes les seules personnes à savoir si vous vous sentez à l’aise pour révéler plus de votre relation. De l’autre côté, maintenant que votre histoire est publique vous n'avez plus besoin de vous bridez ou vous cachez & je pense que sera peut-être plus facile pour vous d'être complètement naturel devant le camera. Les Château Diaries raconte la vie du château et de ceux qui y vivent mais vous avez le droit à votre vie privée. En tout cas, vous avez raison de prendre le temps de réfléchir. Rien ne presse et vous pouvez révéler votre relation/intimité progressivement. Grands bisous des Pyrénées Orientales, Michele (56 ans) xxxxx

Anonymous

You made me tear up too! 💕💕💕xxx Thank you for choosing to be so open & vulnerable with us. I’m so happy you chose not to go too deep into your (obviously beautiful) relationship with Philip. I’m not so good at that…. Before I know it I’ve spilled everything and often wish I had more strength to zip it! Try and find time to yourself over the next few weeks - I try to find 15 mins and watch something utterly mindless like ‘greys anatomy’ or ‘Gilmore girls’ etc it calms me down and stops my mind racing. Anyway, I really do hope you’re ok, be as kind to yourself as possible. Lots of love ❤️ xxx

Anonymous

Hugs and kisses Stephanie and Philip 💕💕

Anonymous

I’m so glad I found you Stephanie. Such a beautiful community and so happy for you and Philip. It’s so wonderful to see such warmth and fun shared so openly with so many people.

Anonymous

So interresting to hear about the natural pool and the lake. I am really looking forward to the development of those plans.

Anonymous

There was going to be a bit of a delay between the live version and the recording being posted. Keep trying

Anonymous

Possibly my comment won`t get through this sea of messages, but I still have the desire to write this words. I can even feel through the camera and video how uncomfortable you, Stephanie feel talking about your realtionship with Philip. I think you should really trust your feelings and if there is a need to talk about how this makes you feel, you should talk to Philip and your closest friends and familiy...and maybe it would also help to wait some time. Take your time to sort this through and maybe it would help to disuss with Phlip his position on all of this because you are just one part of the story? You won`t owe anybody any information or explanation...

Anonymous

....and I am sure with some time gone by, you both will find your way and your position- whatever this will be :)

Anonymous

Stephanie and Philip we are so happy for you both. I hope your feelings of awkwardness settle soon for you Stephanie. It really need not be a discussion topic on your vlogs but neither do you need to hide it. Just think of any other couple on YouTube, we know they are a couple but they don’t discuss their relationships with their followers. Like you, I love reading how supportive everyone is of you both!! It is so reassuring to know there are so many lovely people in this world. It’s like the icing on the cake seeing the love people have for you! Just be you and trust in our loving support. Sending you much love from New Zealand xxxxx

Anonymous

Stay true to yourself...when/if it feels right, you talk about what You want to talk about. Don't do the things that bring anxiety.

Anonymous

When you are truly successful and happy at what you do, some miserable person will be jealous . Remind yourself , who has 30 million views ? It ain’t the haters.

Anonymous

Thanks for a great Q&A - amazing as ever! I’m sure someone else has also pointed this out but Vimeo seemed to give me the option to download the video - I didn’t try but it might be good to check your settings. Thanks again guys

Anonymous

Me too Denise. Ugh! Frustrating! We were having so much fun on there until the haters arrived, and then I just found myself defending the La Landers and getting upset. For my own mental health I just said, “Nope! Not gonna do it.” I remember consciously making that decision! My husband is like, why are you giving money to someone in France you don’t even know? My answer to him, because it makes me happy! That satisfied him. 🥰

Anonymous

The Marquee passed away last year I believe. Stephanie was very sad about it. I believe some of them come back from time to time. They have an open invitation I believe.

Anonymous

I'm so glad you guys joked about the whole gay thing.... as a gay man I also assumed.... surely made an a$$ out of myself... really happy for you two xoxoxo Just want to also mention how ridiculous the people sound on that hate site... Steph, your doing one amazing job and we all know how hard you have worked to get where you are xoxo

Kathy Gower

I must have missed your announcement (I was in hospital this week). I am very happy for you and very sorry that you have lost that private part of your life now. I think it would be great if people didn't ask you questions about your relationship and allowed you to have more privacy. Go with your gut feeling, if you feel uncomfortable sharing, don't share.

Anonymous

I'd address it on Chateau Diaries. People don't like feeling out of the loop. They'll turn to tattle to get their answers if you don't control the narrative with as much honesty as possible. Wouldn't want to lose trust with your audience and potential patrons.

Anonymous

Have you been able to figure out who "Clara Burnett" is on tattle? Seems the person behind that name knows a lot of inside information.

Anonymous

In the other Loo that has no sink, you could replace the toilet with a different toilet that has a sink built into the tank, an easy hygienic change without construction needed. A toilet without a place to wash hands, these days seems a little gross. When it comes to your relationships be as open as you feel comfortable with and no more. No one has a right to more information than you are happy to share. You are open and I would just be open, make no apologies and keep on. You have felt the need to hide it at great lengths in the past but now the cat is out of the bag, I would just relax and let it go. Has Phillip considered growing his hair long and then donating it to make wigs for children who have cancer?

Gabrielle Baalke

Oh, my goodness! An AGA! My heart.

Jodi and Scott Barck

I think let Amaury go. Let him loose on the Chateau. My husband loves how he just tackles jobs. Amaury is a blessing to the Chateau. Great job Amaury!!

Anonymous

I appreciate your perspectives on things, people etc. You are such a refreshing ray of sunshine - Thank you for your positivity!!

Anonymous

It's a real shame that you have been forced to discuss your private life in public, and this is the first time I've seen any awkwardness in any vlog. I think you need to keep those areas private and take more time off. I know something about this subject. Your exhaustion has been apparent on your face for months. Develop more balanced habits NOW before you have a serious health consequence!

Anonymous

I find it absolutely amazing how we can form such a strong connection with people we have never met. I too felt very emotional at the end of the video. I think we all feel very protective of you and hope you will look after yourself and be relaxed and happy and not work too hard or stress too much. Sending love and hugs to you both.

Anonymous

I think it is great you all are dating! Phillip is wonderful - so happy for each of you!

Anonymous

❤️❤️❤️Darling girl❤️❤️❤️you have no idea how dear you are to some of us.

Anonymous

AGA AGA AGA A couple of times now Stephanie has mentioned replacing the cooking range at the chateau with an AGA…… Now, I’m an AGA lover and can understand her wanting one, but also coming from a catering background, I can say it will be a big mistake!!!! In a domestic household with one or two people using it and feeding upto 8 people they are fine. At the chateau, doing 12x breakfasts/lunches and dinner for upto 20+ , it’s not going to work…. Add to that the fact you will have every changing people trying to use the AGA, which is an art form in itself, there’s also the case of what you will run it on? Traditional coal fired, would again need someone who knows how to use it all the time….. They are beautiful things and the kitchen will be the warmest place in the whole chateau, but as a running B&B with every changing volunteers and rotas for cooking an AGA just won’t be suitable….

Denise Behrends

You comport with such lovely grace amidst dealing with all that is on your proverbial [porcelain] plate.

Anonymous

Stephanie, I wonder if you 'dropped your bundle' because you knew Nick and Michael were finally there to carry the load with you, even for a little while. Michael with love and charm, and Nick with intelligence and understanding.

Caroline Kaiser

I’m so happy for you both. Philip is mature beyond his years and Stephanie is so young at heart. When I get a chance to meet you Phillip I would love to ask how are you develop such a strong sense of self. Because you mentioned you were horribly bullied. Wishing you both much happiness

Anonymous

Wasn’t able to make the live but truly enjoyed the replay. Stephanie, you have such a beautiful genuine presence and I hope one day to meet you in person and give you the hug I so dearly wished to give you at the end of this video.

Jodi and Scott Barck

I don't think you need to discuss on the regular. Chateau diaries. I think word of mouth is out there and people are ok and not worried about it. All good all ok

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie 😀. Just a thought…a studio for the owners is a great idea. Michael needs a work area and the old servant quarters is a good use of space. Also, another room up there would be a good studio for you to film ahead of season for such things as Advent. You could set up for Christmas and leave it up and film Advent episodes in advance all throughout the year and not have to cram it all in during the holidays. It would also be an excellent space for Cadeaux at the Chateau. Thank you for your videos. I enjoy them all 😀. ~ Joel

Deby Davis

dearest Stephanie- you are so loved. Ive just sat here and smiled for an hour. my face hurts. we feel connected to you too and all long to come visit...oneday. At the beginning when you first shared about feel undone with the ceiling collapse I was reminded of the saying 'when the rivers low the rocks show'...Stephanie I dont think I know or have seen anyone who gives and gives to the degree you do. You always have such grace and poise and have modelled so many many charming qualities of how to 'do life with class and style'.... we could only ever wish you the very best for that huge generous expansive kind heart you have. You needed a Chateau to house it... just keep doing what your doing and 'let the water find it level' re how you and dear Phillip out work your relationship publicly. In the mean time - savour and cherish those around you that you love- your one in a billion girl !!!

Anonymous

Stephanie, as you said it's been a crazy past week, so much so I completely forgot I think I've found the perfect newel post finial for the Pigeon Towel. I believe at least one person will like it. Gold maybe?? https://www.etsy.com/listing/977578927/finial-squirrel-decorative-carved-newel

Anonymous

OOPS! Tower!

Colette Retif

Thank you for your typo. It made me laugh!! I really needed a laugh when I read it. Sometimes typos are great!! :)

Anonymous

Stephanie, yhis was a wonderful video! Please don't let any of what has happened in public tarnish your relationship. just be your natural self You tube viewers will know soon enough. so you can just carry on.

Anonymous

We have 2 things to say: 1. Congratulations! Love is always a great thing. 2. WE HAVE FINALLY BOUGHT A FRENCH CHATEAU. Oh, did I scream that out loud? I think I did. Well, it’s for a good reason! We finally bought a French chateau!!!

Anonymous

Sob I still cannot see the video😭 why???

Anonymous

I didn’t get a chance to ask 2 questions. 1. Will selmar still be helping at Lalande? Or is he moving out? 2. Will your cousin Aynmaree be permanently moving in?

Anonymous

Thank you for all the updates! As to your relationship, it seems to me that it's up to you and Philip, although I prefer continuation of the prior format of the Vlogs.

Anonymous

Stephanie, please continue to be who you are, we all love you because of that. I think it is wonderful that you have found personal happiness...but that is your own business. We watch and are patreons because we all love the chateau and want to help in anyway we can. Have a wonderful week, and carry on.

Anonymous

I managed to see it!! Love it!!! For those which still cannot see it try by pc rather than your phone...that works for me!

Anonymous

Thank you so very much. I so appreciate the time you take to do your vlogs and your live. Time slipped away and I realized I missed the live due to the time difference. I so enjoy the LaLande family. I think I speak for everyone when I say please take time for yourself to rest. Take time to just read or walk around the beautiful grounds you have created. You bring so much joy to so many people. Especially over the last two years when there has been so much sadness in the world. Once more a reminder to not worry and keep your personal life ....yours. I must say we all love Philip and can see why you would too.

Anonymous

Thank you Stephanie... for your being open with us. I can only imagine the awkwardness and I certainly found myself surprised to learn about you and Philip. I would have wanted you to be able to keep that private. Ugh! Anyway, I have so much respect for you both. You keep calm and carry on and with such grace that we can all learn by your example. Best to you. (PS-- I love your realistic attitude about the future too.)

Anonymous

It's really lovely to hear how you two speak about each other. How wonderful to find love at any age.

Anonymous

Stephanie please take as much time for yourself as needed. You have a great staff and co-owners who can handle things while you regroup. Personally I had already guessed about you and Philip and understood your need for privacy. It is no ones business but your own. Now that it is confirmed, Congratulations on finding love and companionship. I've always adored Philip from day one and the girls, (Nati, Marie, and Kat) obviously love him, then you know he is good for you. Hoping you have a lovely rest and see at the Advent.

Anonymous

Ahh Stephanie, bless you! Really don't think you need to worry about your relationship being out there - & I can see you growing old together (think Philip will like this comment!!). xx

Anonymous

This was a fantastic Q&A and I must say, it's so sweet to see how you two care for each other (the part when Philip talked about how he misses you when he's away for rehearsals...SO CUTE). I'm happy for you two. :)

Anonymous

Hello there! I've found the Chateau DIY we can watch here in the US. These two Stephanie is on #27 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6nef6fTbSU and #28 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LoJW5bbcsls Just copy and paste #27 is the pond to be a pool, and #28 the Wedgewood little room

Anonymous

Talking about people coming to stay, you didn't talk about what the process would be for someone who would like to come as a volunteer to help for a bit... What would that look like?

Anonymous

So cute, no need to share anything that is personal to you both. I personally dont want anything about chateau diaries to change. Its perfect and you are human and entitled to privacy ❤️

Ashley Johann

For those in the US, there is a YouTube channel called Chateau DIY that has all of the episodes on it.

Anonymous

Firstly, congratulations Stephanie and Philip - I’m calling the shipping name already - Stephilip! :D Look at that, even your names fit perfectly! I’m sorry to hear that you didn’t get to control the news at your own pace. I think it was a smart move to be private about your relationship for some time. Finding genuine love in itself can be quite hard, and I can imagine that when you share so much of your life, you would be especially cautious about protecting a relationship when it’s new and not yet fully formed in front of literally thousands of viewers. If I were you I would mention the lovely news together in some way in the vlogs, preferably in one of the next videos. That way you and Philip can tell the narrative to what is actually true, and not what other people spread and catch up on in the comments. People always want to dig where they feel there is something to hide. If you show that you are cool with it, then they won’t spend much time on it. Yes, people watch the vlogs because they like to watch Chateau life, but speaking for myself, it is the people that are in the vlogs I find most fascinating. That is why I favorite your vlogs in particular over any of the other chateau channels. Also, if Philip weren’t such an integral part of the vlogs and the day to day life at the Chateau, I don’t think it would be necessary, but seeing that he is, people would appreciate it if you were honest. It would be the smart thing in the long run. But again, that is of course totally up to the both of you. On Youtube you create amazing, high-quality content that cost nothing - the viewers do not have the mandate to demand what they want you to share. I wish you both the best in the future, you deserve it so much!

Anonymous

How do I access Vimeo?

Anonymous

Personally I think it would be best to mention your relationship in a YouTube vlog quite soon. Be open about the fact that you wanted to keep it private, and that you will continue to keep it private going forward. That will hopefully stop the rumours and speculation, and I think as so many people know already it will just be weird and out of character if you continue as if nothing has happened. True “friends” of Lalande will just be very happy for you, and respect your privacy.

Theresa Romero

I adore that you and Phillip are together. I trust that there won’t ever be a “breakup” between you two. Whatever the future holds, I feel that you will always love each other and be in each other’s lives. Be happy, my darlings. We all love you. 💗

Anonymous

https://www.patreon.com/m/3916966/membership? Is this the Patron website? I signed up for patron and this was the site.

Anonymous

Lots and lots of love to you Stephanie, thank you for sharing so much. Trust your instincts when it comes to sharing on Chateau Diaries

Anonymous

Hi Bev, it looks like you're in the right place. You just need to click the play button on any of the videos. From the comments I read people are having a hard time watching it on their phones. You will need to watch the videos from a computer. I hope this helps.

Anonymous

I agree since the news is out, (and may I say if anyone was really paying attention this would not be a surprise), I would confirm, stating that you are both very happy, then go on being private with the relationship. No one needs to know or has a right to know about your private realationship. So be happy and enjoy this time of love and laughter.

Anna Ibarra

I missed the live Q& A, but caught the previous. I remember asking Philip before news leaked, if he ever expected himself and life still at LaLande . More or less. I believe he giggled and said no. Lol, Who knew, well I didn’t picked up on it. For Stephanie, glad you stepped away for a bit. Good move, as even such a wonderful positive person as yourself can be tipped over a bit, not knocked down, but you allowed your pillars, Nick, Michael, and Amaury to help sort that leak, etc, and Philip by your side to catch you. You looked so girlish, blushing slightly at the thought of bring up yours and Philip’s relationship. It’s sweet. But you do what you both want, the haters will be there to try and knock you down. Or keep it still to yourself. Many of the other couples vlogs don’t show lots of affection, now and then, but may say a term of endearment now and then. So do what’s best for you first, as I know this is a first on your vlog and your new love. Do what matters to you first. I know Philip will go along, to protect you.

Anonymous

I love all the vlogs you make and I really hope to visit some day!! ❤️😀 So thankful for all the work you are doing and I am wishing you and Philip the best!! Take care! Lots of love 💕 from Monica in Norway

Anonymous

Is everything Allright?? There was no cadeau unwrapped yesterday 😘😘😘

Anonymous

Hi Stephanie. While I am really more looking forward to the first of the month update, thank you for doing a live last week with everything going on. It was nice to watch it back and even though I didn’t tune in at the right time it still feels like you’re just sitting across from us and having a chat. I was surprised about you and Philip but I feel strongly that it’s none of our business, even as patrons. But now we know and it’s nice to see how he makes you smile in the context of your year-long relationship. As this was coming out last week I was reflecting on the transaction between a content creator and their patrons. For me, I give my small contribution to see the progress of all the works at Lalande because I’m most interested in renovations. The other aspects of chateau life are a bonus. As a mid-twenties young father who isn’t passionate about his work, it’s nice to see people pursuing their true purpose. However, it strikes me as odd how much time I spend thinking about what’s going on at a rural chateau a world away from my small-town USA life. And yet you say you consider us friends that cheer you up when you’re low while others would just consider patrons consumers of a product. I think that’s the magic of your optimism and diligence, Stephanie, and I think that’s why I keep giving. Hope you are feeling a bit better this week. Hold those you love close and persevere, as each day is a gift! Thanks.

Anonymous

Phillip posted that his laptop died while editing and it should be posted on Wednesday

Colette Retif

How very, very beautifully said!!

Anonymous

Exactly. As a gay man I have an idea of being suddenly “outed”. Our private lives are our own business.

Anna Ibarra

Did you find out Bev? I clicked on the icon name on the patreon video when I watch, and you can link it with your sign on with which ever way you sign on to other apps.

Anna Ibarra

I feel you don't need to discuss it, as I also thought that you didn't need to tell us about when you were ill. That is up to you, and your business. It's what we signed up to watch and be a patreon, to watch you do your best and the people around you to help make that chateau of yours come to life again.

Anonymous

I’m really so happy for you both! I am sure it’s odd to be mentioning it in your vlogs since it’s something new as vlog content, but I think that since you have been together for so long now and that everyone you are with daily is aware then it may be easier for y’all to just be y’all and not worry about letting anything slip. If that makes sense? I think mention it once as you did to us and then just continue on as you do daily. Once people know then you will probably feel relief and nobody will even bat an eyelash in a few weeks…most of us just want to see you happy in any shape and form, but of course if you are sharing your life with someone else, and someone as wonderful as Phillip, then we are even more happy for you! And to the dungeon or donjon with the rest of them!

Ana Maria Sierra

Chateau DIY is on YouTube. What I find annoying is that the preface Phillip each time as “the boyfriend”. No mention of his unique talents and why he’s part of tbe team. It does not present an entirely accurate description perception because , of course, we all know that Phillip makes valuable contributions and that’s how he became part of Lalande. Alas… Here is the link to “the episode”: https://youtu.be/LoJW5bbcsls

Anonymous

Stephanie you have to do what you are comfortable with you don't have to talk about your relationship if you are not happy to. We are just happy that you are happy, keep doing what you are doing we love it and love you, Lady Di x 😍

Anonymous

The constant mention of "boyfriend Philip" was not cool for them to do. It's disrespectful on their part to you and Philip. We love your tenacity, your joy, your vigor to bring out the best in people. Being in the public eye is not easy but by doing so, you empower so many to see outside of our little bubbles. You are a leader of a woman many can learn from. You are humble and transparent. It's not our business to know your private life. On the flip side, the transparency of the relation on a very superficial level can also empower so many of us afraid to experience things that are scary. And, at the same time you liberate yourself, Philip to share the joy you both feel without editing yourselves out. If the relation parts for any reason, there too is an opportunity to show the power of friendship and respect. Age, sex, race, religion or other should not dictate the reach love has. You surpass all but death. Bottom line, you MAKE a difference period. And, we love you. for it.

Anonymous

You are also wonderful and inspiring. I think we a!!

Anonymous

Oops think so highly of you and Phillip that what ever you do you will have support. Since Selmar is traveling to England..soon...have you opened the painting of Diesel that I commissioned for the chateau?

Anonymous

I am so happy for you and Phillip. I have to say you guys are probably the only couple who have been outed by Adjoa Andoh who plays Lady Danbury in Bridgerton, which is kinda epic. Also I am a OT in a nursing home and have gotten to see so many couples of various walks of life. Many of them who have gotten together in the 60's and 70's when the world was not as accepting as it is now. They always seemed so devoted to each other. I hope you have as much happiness in your life as they do. As your intro says it is about "a chateau that is filled with Life, Love, and Laughter." If you decided to share your relationship with Phillip on youtube it is simply you being true to those things. I would imagine it is a very odd reality when your life becomes your brand. I wish you all the best. As many have stated before, you and your channel has help me get through the pandemic of crazy we have all had to endure for the last almost two years.

Anonymous

Hello Stephanie... my comment here would have nothing to do with the latest I've chat of Nov. 6th. I just need to know if Michael Potts has a book showing the photos he took during the "Middleville Beauties episode that premiered on October 22, 2020. Thanks 😊

Anonymous

I meant " Medieval Beauties."

Anonymous

Steph, wherever you find happiness is fine. I started being in love with women and ended up with a man. My only boyfriend. Love him to pieces. I still love all the women that I fell for too. Life has no script. (Thankfully) Just look after each other, and most importantly have lots of fun!!❤️😘

Anonymous

I think you should stay your private self!! You are a delight for sharing with us but you are obviously not that comfortable so stay true to yourself!!

Anonymous

Friendship is the absolute be all and end all of a relationship. Even though I was deeply attracted to Pete from the day I met him, to the day he left this Earth, throughout our 40 years together there were challenges and it was our friendship. shared interests and respect for each other that made it such a wonderful union. Good luck to you both, however long or short your relationship, make sure you just enjoy it for what it is in the moment. Take each day as it comes, be grateful for love when it drops on you (as this relationship did, as mine with Pete did). Perhaps the relationships that we don't go looking for are the ones that last the longest <3

Anonymous

Dearest Stephanie, I've been thinking of you so much since this live Q & A. I think your question about what to do and how to handle your personal life on TCD is a very vital question. I always have believed one of the best vlogs was the one about fighting at the Chateau because it showed the humanity and the love of the community you've created. It's what you spoke to about former relationships--the romance may end, but the friendship endures because of the people you've chosen to surround yourself with. I think the bigger question, under the issue of your personal life, is this idea that you want the vlogs to be "life, love, and laughter"--but you also have the tension of wanting to keep them positive. But that's not life! Life is messy--and sometimes all the Narnia Wardrobes in the world can't hold that messiness. Gerry has had cancer. Mummy and Percy are half a world a way. The ceiling caves in. Kat can't be at the Chateau as much as you would want--any of us would want because let's face it, that woman is JOY itself! There's loss--of your father, of the pandemic, of Marie setting off on her own adventure, and soon Selmar as well. I think the "life" part is what makes the rest so sweet. Not false positivity (look that up if you're not familiar with it) that asks of us to pretend to keep things light for the sake of keeping things light. It's not real, and at the heart of why TCD has been so impactful for folks is authenticity. You ooze it! Bathrobe, silliness, a classical liberal arts education, china patterns, driving around with a portable speaker in your car, McDonalds, the loves that come through the chateau and the tears spent when they part. Don't give up on the LIFE part just because it can be messy. Don't think you have to always keep things light. I'd much rather it be real--because real is something you can sustain for the very long haul. You have to get so very clear about those whose opinions matter--and it really is only very lightly those of us who financially support you. Your family, your beloved friends, those that live with you at the Chateau, Phillippe. Those are the souls whose opinions of what you should or should not do matter. Deeply matter. The rest? Well, it's just an opinion to take or leave--like this very post. So, my wisdom about what to share or not share is this: Do whatever feels the most authentic for you. It's okay for that to change with time. When we first start a relationship with someone, we don't want public weigh-in--even if we are rolling our eyes and blocking it out. But if it's serious, we might start using words like "my partner" or "my beloved." What is public evolves. I think the part that struck me is how tender your heart is and how much you want to protect it. Don't we all feel that way?! But to be out in the arena of life is to risk. We risk criticism, we risk loss, we risk being misunderstood. But we also reap the rewards of our bravery--the hungry are fed, the broken-hearted are encircled, we fall madly in-love, we redefine what family is comprised of, we laugh, we dance, we weep, we fall down terribly, we rise again wiser and full of more gratitude for all we have and can share. I say this to you with tenderness of heart. Live authentically! Let's the trolls and those that want you to do it their way be damned! It's what makes you so special. Don't lose it. With solidarity and kindness, Jacqueline

Anonymous

I agree with this, but life on YouTube is more vulnerable than life not in the public eye... Take care both of you!

Anonymous

You are a prophet.

Anonymous

The video was unwatchable for me :( It skipped all the way through.

Anonymous

From Seattle, it was only there at the beginning for me. After Phillipe did something with the microphone (I think). I love everyone at LaLande!

Anonymous

I love Château diaries so much that I decided to become a patron just to be able to see more videos about what was going on. Happy for you Stephanie… Don’t change a thing…❤️

Anonymous

I only wish you happiness, doesn't matter if it'll last a lifetime or not...What matter most is you found love, treasure it as much while earth exist but if time comes for you to let go then part only as friends and keep the happiest memories! All the best and take care always Stephanie, we love you in any way or form...We just love you, period.

Anonymous

P.S. I would love to receive a "welcome card" I would treasure it forever...

Anonymous

You must remember to always be yourself. Don’t bend to the wants of others. If you choose to speak about your love life, fine. If you don’t want to, that’s fine too. I love all the videos because you are so open and honest and a have a beautiful life. Don’t let one mean Apple spoil it for the rest. All my best wishes to everyone at LaLande. -Bridget.

Anonymous

Barb I did the same thing over a year ago and it was the best decision! Welcome! 😁☺️

Anonymous

Love seeing you all. It took me most of the day to finish the video, as I own a daycare and have 6 kids under the age of 6 keeping my attention during the day. I can't remember all the thoughts I had wanted to say, haha. I loved the updates and so glad the front gate could be fixed. Excited for all still to come. (And I'll say it just the once and then not a peep about it again, I'm so happy for you and Philip. You are both so deserving of true happiness in your lives.. 🥰). Love to you all.

Anonymous

I really enjoyed the video, however could you please put out a more structured update where we go over all the patron goals that have not been done yet, and where they are at? Those are projects that many of us were really excited about, which energized us. Some, like the kitchen updates (fridge), have not been mentioned in so long. Also, early on you talked about making the accounting of the patreon funds and the use on renovations available to us here. Is that still in the plans as we haven't seen a detailed accounting yet.

Anonymous

Apart from the cutting in and out, i couldnt get the volume loud enough or cast it to my tv. But that's preferable to someone hacking your patreon content Xx

Anonymous

Omg 🙏🏼💜You are the sweetest Lady Stephanie 🌞 I wish you and Philip ❤️All the Best ♥️ My Goodness you certainly deserve it 🙏🏼💜😇🤩many Blessings of light 🌞and love 💗 to you both 🎉♥️🎉

Jane Nunn

Unable to hear you the sounds is cutting out all the time. missed all of the first part.

Jane Nunn

When you took the mic off the sound was fine.. Lovely update Steph! Thankyou! Hello Philip so lovely to have you back.. love to your both xo xo

Anonymous

Why has it taken me so long to become a Patreon?!!! I have been missing out on so much! I love Lalande and have been watching avidly since the very first lockdown. But the Patreon side is so much more, so personal and in-depth. How amazing is the extra footage!!! Anyways enough waffling, Steph I really wanted to bring you a big mug of tea and some chocolate hobnobs at the end of this video. The hugest of hugs during this trying time.

Anonymous

This was delightful Stephanie, thank you. :) In answer to your question, I’ll enjoy watching the Chateau Diaries either way… whether you and Philip choose to share your romantic relationship on there or not. Just do what feels right for the both of you - that’s what matters most. :)

Anonymous

I only just joined Patreon and am so happy I am now in on all the fun!

Anonymous

A question: will you ever let us know where to buy your beautiful clothes? Your dresses are lovely!

Anonymous

Lord bless you,

Anonymous

In terms of you asking our advice for how much to share of your relationship with Phillip on the vlogs, I sincerely think that is up to you and Phillip and it might change from time to time. You do not owe us anything, but now that it is out there, I think it is ok for you to exhale in this area a bit and just know that its ok to show and share anything that is comfortable for you all. Because we love you we would of course enjoy seeing the two of you together and sharing parts of your life together, but truly that is your decision entirely. Boundaries can always be tested and then redesigned and adjusted as needed. I hope that you feel our love for you and that you neither feel pressure to share, nor hide, anything you don't want to. That being said this is the best good news and I'm here for it! xx Staci in Chicago

Anonymous

As always your kindness and vitality shine through. Thank you 🤗

Anonymous

Consider limited edition silk screened replicas of your Father's Art ... Paloma Picasso did similar with a small number of her father's work during the early 90's and it was incredibly successful

Anonymous

Notre Dame will have been fully restored before the chapel is even started. 😇