5 Questions about Sex I Wish I Asked Sooner (Patreon)

Good morning, and I hope you're having a lovely weekend!

So, lots of people ask me to make sex education videos but I'm unfortunately not a sex educator. However, I can definitely speak to the volatile range of emotions and stressors that come up when navigating that sort of intimacy.

Today, I'll offer 5 questions about sex that I wish I asked sooner, with some personal anecdotes to illustrate what I mean. In the video, I also reference @ericasmith.sex.ed and @consent.wizardry, two accounts that are key parts of my broader, ongoing education. If you've got any stress about these same questions, maybe it will be helpful!

Chapters:

• 00.00 Intro
• 01.05 Do we define sex the same? (and are we continuing our sex education?)
• 04.47 Are there any internal feelings of obligation? (Note: if there are external sexual obligations coming from partner/s, that’s not ok.)
• 08.11 Am I / are we on the sex escalator? (and how does that impact consent?)
• 12.53 Are there any phobias or -isms still in our sex?
• 16.09 Is there any shame or disgust about sex, whether together or apart?
• 21.05 Outro

This is not a comprehensive list of things we can check in about, just a few things that come to mind today. ❤️

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With love,

Morgan