"Casual" doesn't have to mean "unclear" (Patreon)

So, my microphone was turned off. 🙈 We're using the onboard camera mic today. I cleaned it up best I could, but I'll have the transcript enclosed here too, in case you'd rather read it.

Anyway hi! Do you have any "casual" romantic or sexual relationships? If yes, do things ever feel uncertain or unclear? Do they say one thing, but do another? I've got a few thoughts on that. I'll share how I vet people who say they "don't want anything serious", and advocate for my needs in anything from one night stands to long term friends-with-benefits. Maybe it will be helpful for you!

Chapters:

• 00.00 Intro
• 01.16 Quick note for monogamous daters
• 02.48 What does "casual" look like?
• 05.22 What if they refuse to have a boundary conversation?
• 07.03 Intermittent hookups, both sexual and non-sexual
• 10.29 Vetting people (and ourselves)
• 13.45 Friends with benefits
• 21.15 Unexpected emotions or reactions
• 22.53 What if words don't match actions?
• 24.23 Outro

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xx

Morgan