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Sorry for not posting any updates and worrying anyone but I've had a rough few weeks. Thank you all for the well-wishes, it really means a lot. 🤗 I tested negative for covid but was still extremely sick, fatigued, and having trouble breathing. Up until this last weekend I was still fatigued - like so weak that I couldn't keep my arms up to put my hair up in a ponytail. I finally got to my actual doctor (because they won't let you schedule appointments if you have any covid-like symptoms until you test negative) and she said she's pretty confident it was just a bug and I needed to rest. 

My doc also brought up that this is the 5th time I've been sick since January and after talking with her for a bit I realized that the problem is I'm overworking myself and not letting my body rest and recuperate. She also asked me to step back and imagine what it would be like for me if I did have covid right now and possibly needing to be hospitalized because I'm not taking care of myself and that hit me kinda hard.

When I started a Patreon and really became more consistent with creating content I was working as a consultant. I was able to offer lots of different types of creations with no problem because I had a lot of time to work with. But since I moved to Cali and have taken on a full-time job I've been spending most of my time outside of that creating content. After looking at it I realized I've been spending upwards of 14 hours a day on the computer between work and creating and consistently getting less than 5 hours of sleep at night. 

So I've decided to take steps to find some balance in my life. I've already started by drawing some boundaries with regard to my work hours. I realize that if I just spent more time re-charging in the evening I could likely get more done during the day and not feel like I have to work all the time. I also realize that as much as I love creating, I have to use some of that free time to focus on self-care in other ways.

This means that I need to adjust the time I spend creating content. I won't ever stop creating because it's therapeutic for me in a lot of ways and I need it to help with my anxiety and stress. I just need to have limits on the amount of time I spend doing it which means limiting the different types of content I create.

To help me decide what that content will be (because you know I love to create everything lol) I've started a survey to get an idea of what your favorite stuff is so I can try to focus on those things. This doesn't mean I'm going to completely abandon the content types that don't make the cut, it just means I won't be creating those on a consistent basis anymore. You can take the survey here:

https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/Q72MYP8 

I paused payments for July (which get charged on August 1st) and I will get a good chunk of the things I promised for July done during August. Starting September 1st I will pivot into making the whatever the results of the survey are as my normal monthly content. Tiers may need to be adjusted but I'll look into that when the survey results are in.

Thank you all for being so kind and understanding, I appreciate you!

❤️ Brazen 


Comments

Pamela White

I sincerely hope you feel better! Get some rest! 😴

Dana Anna

I totally get where you are coming from! I always try to work through being sick instead of resting. It’s definitely a struggle for me still. I hope you can set some healthy boundaries and relax and get rest. And get better! 💜

Lisa L.

Honestly, I can wait for new content if you really need your rest. The only thing I would like right now is to have the gardening plants updated to fit the vertical planters. Taking care of yourself is the first priority.

Just1MoreGame

Good for you on taking care of yourself! Your content is worth the wait!

Anonymous

So glad you're feeling better, realizing the things we love also takes a tole is hard I hope you manage to find the right balance.

Lumyria

I personally think you should quit worrying about doing lots for those of us on the Lot Owner Tier (which I am on) and focus on the other stuff. I can build lots just fine; It will not make me change my Tier in the least for I love all your work and that would ease some of the load despite the survey. I would be happy if you just kept what you currently have up to date with patches :) ! Take your time don't over do, most of all take care of your self! If your worried about our tier losing out perhaps when your doing items give us access to one that the rest don't or do a lot 4xs a year once every quarter or something like that.

Latesha Coleman

Take all the time in the world, your health and well being is so important. treat your self to a spa day :)) <3 <3

Anonymous

Agree with all the sentiment here so please take all the time you need!

Anonymous

I'm so happy to hear from you Brazen! <3 Please take all the time you need and get well rested and healthy again. <3 I'll love your content whatever it is you decide to create.

SoulfulSmokie

I am thanking God and I am soo glad that it was not covid19... Please recover and take the time and rest that you need. Thank you for the update.

Mendota Kelly

I am happy to hear from you. Thank heavens you are better. As for the content, I love your plant over rides. There are many that do harvestable and food, but no one does the plants the way you do.

Anonymous

So glad you're okay! I've been sick on that level—take care of yourself and rest! Many healing thoughts <3

Molly Burns

Hang in there, sweetie! You're awesome. ♥