Discussion: Introvert or Extrovert or both? (Patreon)
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Introvert: shortest definition i can possibly think of: gaining energy from within your self; having to recharge; better talking one on one; thinks to self a lot.
Extrovert: shortest definition i can possibly think of: gaining energy from a crowd, gaining energy from socializing, thinking better in crowd, like being with a crowd of people and socializing.
both; Ambivert (i think): feeling both of introverted & extrovert.
I feel like for me i am extremely introverted because I can only be in a crowd or around people for so long before feeling completely drained. i always need at least about a day to myself to think/be alone/ "to recharge" and then i am okay and ready to start seeing people again and can socialize. I do love socializing but I hate being questioned or messing up, it takes longer for me to come up with something, ((((and that usually may be because of the fear of talking, stuttering, or mispronouncing a word, or worried that i will trail off about talking about something completely boring,))))))
And it also has to be with a group of people that i am comfy with, but even then i can all the sudden become mute and it drives me crazy sometimes. I also have this weird tendency of not hearing what someone says right away because i am to caught in overthinking and then i am left asking them to repeat themselves like five times haha. Its like all the sudden I forget how to hear or process english. very weird.
but i do my best to have fun and enjoy those moments when surround by people that love me whether i am talking or not. Its nice finding people that accept your quiet times.
silence between people isn't that bad anyways, sometimes it nice just having company.
but anyways, I am usually more talkative, connecting, and getting to know someone when its one on one.
so thats my answer! whats yours? :)