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I'm trying to decide if it's still worth being here and doing what I do. Maybe, what most people here don't know is that my real passion isn't modding, but writing and my Sim Oliver. But how many times I'm told it isn't ok to be who I am or like what I like has me wondering if it isn't just time to walk away from this community. I get ideas for mods while playing. And it's usually always something for Oliver to expand him and his story. It's why I'm one of the hardest people to make suggestions to since I won't make something I probably won't use. Why bother when I know I won't put my best into it? So I guess what I'm here asking is, are my hopes and dreams valid or should I throw them away to just make others happy? Is Oliver and his inspiration worth continuing for my creations?
*Note: This and the incident on Srsly's server are why you were not charged this month. It's not right for me to do so, when I feel like such a terrible person. I also will probably be very inactive this month due to this.
Thanks
EDIT #1: Thank you for your comments. What I've noticed is a common theme is people saying they see how important Oliver is to me. He shouldn't be. He isn't real. And I've hurt enough people senselessly because of my care for him. I think it's time to re evaluate my life. If that means removing him from it to be a better person, so be it. I am sorry to those I have hurt. And thank you to those who put up with me.
EDIT #2: Thank you for all the comments and concern. I am not quitting, I am just taking a break. While I do have my own insecurities and issues to work out, I just need time for myself. Honestly, I am still bitter about someone's recent false accusation of me and this needs to be addressed. Using your disability as a crutch to get away with poor behavior is not acceptable. I have a laundry list of mental health issues, but I in no way expect people to treat me like some special snowflake because of it. My mental health issues do not define me, but explain why I am the way I am. I can only apologize and try to act in a more acceptable manner. I have indeed learned who my real friends are and who truly cares about me in these past few days/weeks of turmoil and I am grateful for them. Anyway, as far as the break is concerned I most likely will just be mildly inactive and slow to product updates or new content. I hope for everything to be back to normal next month, if not sooner.
P.s. - Yes, Oliver is staying. The comments are absolutely correct. He is no doubt part of me and its perfectly OK to love and care for him. Real or not, he's why I create and why I'm even here in the first place. I can't forsake that just because someone doesn't like him or agree. As much as I've tried to walk away from him, I just can't. It doesn't feel right. It feels like something is missing.
Lastly, Thank you to everyone who commented, liked, sent messages, and showed concern. I deeply appreciate you all for letting me have this discussion and allowing me to be open and honest. 💜