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On the recent surging topic of abuse, I experienced a fair amount of it as well ranging from childhood until a few years back to present day. I don’t want to make a big deal about it but I consider patreon a safe-ish place.

Without going into too much detail, it ranged from physical and verbal abuse to yandere stalking and manipulation. Almost all of it was either ignored (childhood) or victim blamed (teen-early adult). Idk if it was just really bad luck but as soon as I something bad happened everyone turned on me and started distancing, and the few who were trying to help turned out to be the worst of them (manipulative predators).

I did go to the police for some of it but this justice system is broken - they claim they can‘t do anything until something actually happens even if you have evidence of someone threatening to kill you. It‘s one of the reasons I decline if anyone asks for a picture with me. After all of that I just wanted to be left in peace and focus on drawing.

I‘m glad society changed more towards believing and standing up for victims these days.

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旧天空神

愿意聆听您的故事,您的画非常美丽,为此我也不想失去您

Anonymous

Your art always looks so lovely and happy, I had no idea you had such a hard time in your past, I really feel sorry for you. I hope you're doing alright nowadays and I think I can talk for all your Patreons when I say: If you ever want to talk about something, we're here for you! And continue doing what you love! :)

ratedkatzchen

I‘m fine nowadays thank you! Being able to do what I like, having some great friends and kind supporters impacted my life greatly. When I say I appreciate everyone so much I really really mean it ☺️

SuperDavio

Glad you feel like you've got a place that you can talk about these things. We always wish the best for you, and I hope your life's able to stay in the positive environment you now find yourself in <3

ratedkatzchen

Thank you! Even just being able to be myself without getting bullied for it is so much of an improvement 😭❤️

Stïpix

harassment is really the worst thing in the world .. don't hesitate if you want to speak here, we will always be listening to you! =) and I hope that today is much better!

Anonymous

Happy to hear that you do have a place you can talk about this. Even though 2020 hasn't been the best year, I am glad for the people who's sharing their own stories about it which helps others to do the same. Hopefully there will be change to all of this and make everywhere a safe place and I hope your life is also in a safe environment too!

ratedkatzchen

Thanks! It’s been a good movement for the previously suppressed. I hope we can all make a safer place online and respect each other. 2020 is so hard to deal with 🥺

Anonymous

I commend you for your braveness to come out with your story. No one deserves to abused in anyway or shape but it does unfortunately happen. We are slowly moving towards a society where we all feel safe and I'm glad that we're part of making the change. I hope you feeling both physically and mentally better!

Kiri

i'm so sorry for everything that's happened to you. this was so scary to read, you're so brave to talk about all of it. i'm glad that your patreon can give you a safe-ish place. stay well, Katzchi!

Anonymous

There are a certain number of harassers in every country in the world. However, there are many people on the Internet who support katz!. I will help you paint more comfortably!

ratedkatzchen

Thank you. I only ever told a few close people, but just seeing it's become a safer place makes it easier to speak up. I never told my mom because I don't want her to be worried, and she went through enough dealing with my father back then. With all the unbelievably bad things happening right now I'm glad at least some things are going in the right direction. ♥

ratedkatzchen

Thank you Kiri! I left it pretty vague but it's so much that I wouldn't even know where to begin without writing a small book.

shenlong977

Omg, people suck. Glad society is getting better at believing victims though. If I forget and ask for a picture, I give you permission to hit me.