Oliver and Tobias, romance Q & A (Patreon)

• Who is more grounded?

Oliver.  Oliver is much more grounded.  Tobias is on unsteady ground, he has the potential, but not the opportunity, to be grounded.

• What values do they both share?

Loyalty.  Compassion.  Honesty.

• Who takes more responsibility for their actions?

I’d say it’s pretty even. Tobias is extremely responsible — for things that shouldn’t even fall into the spectrum of his responsibility. Oliver is as well, at least when he’s aware of what his actions resulted in. He’s a bit less socially aware.

• Who is usually more ready to give in and compromise?

Mmm, I'd say it's even. Maybe, more so Oliver?

• Do they feel the same way about money?

Tobias is more responsible financially than Oliver is.  Oliver is super involved in his hobbies and doesn’t mind dropping money on science projects or hot chocolates from the coffee stand.

• What habits do they have that makes the other unhappy? (Examples: angry outbursts, disrespectful judgments, annoying behavior, selfish demands, dishonesty, or apathy.)

Tobias withdraws, has angry outbursts, low self-esteem, and tries to ghost Oliver occasionally.  All of which, Oliver hates.

Oliver is very pushy.  He is nosy.  Tobias hates it. But, he kind of loves it, too.  (Someone investing that much thought into him flatters him, of course,haha) Tobias doesn't really like how Oliver unintentionally leads people on -- sometimes it's frustrating.

• What do they find most physically attractive about the other?

Everyone knows Tobias has a fixation on Oliver’s neck and shoulder area, but I’d say he likes his curls and eyes as well. Tobias is just overwhelmingly attractive in Oliver’s eyes, but he tends to fixate on his height, shoulders, and eyes as well.

• What do they find least physically attractive about the other?

Is that a thing? Not for them.

• What do they find most mentally attractive about each other?

Oliver admires Tobias for his compassion, loyalty, and perseverance. Tobias admires Oliver for his honesty and his confidence — and his care.

• What accomplishments do they most admire in each other?

Those will come 😉