21 MINS | The Submissive Series 03 - Submissive Needs vs. Wants Training (Patreon)

Wants and needs are very important to any relationship. When you start to understand who you are as a submissive, it’s time to figure out what you are looking for in a relationship. 

The difference between wants and needs can be answered in one basic question. Is this something you can live without?!

In this recording training session,  you will find your submissive needs and wants.

Difference between needs and wants:

Needs are core to who you are. They are either important for life – like food, money, shelter or they are vital for your long term happiness, well being and emotional state of mind.

They are life giving to you. Without these being met you cannot be happy or fulfilled or reach your full potential as a person.

Wants are additional to needs but not required for life wellbeing and longer term happiness.

You need food but may want chocolate (I know I know…….. you may feel that you can’t live without chocolate but it’s a hard case to win lol believe me!)

If needs are not met – either in frequency or depth – in ways that hold meaning for you – then you could feel unhappy, stressed, frustrated, depressed, not on solid ground, unable to trust, unfulfilled, lonely, that something is not really right or worse that you in some way are failing.

If you are currently in a D/s you may like to discuss this topic with your Mistress/Master and of course please feel free to share feedback with Me, or ask questions.