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Published:
2023-05-14 00:45:42
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2023-11

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Hello besties!!

We wanted to take a moment to address the comments in our last Secret Song reaction. As I am sure many of you have seen, the debate has been heated. We know that the situation right now is very controversial, polarising, and is bringing up a lot of emotion (and validly so, from the few things we have seen).

We want to apologise if our comment on trusting Taylor's judgement was invalidating or dismissive of the larger issues being discussed. Of course, she is a human after all, she is flawed, and will (and has) made mistakes, and we don't want to blindly sweep these errors under the rug. On a personal level from us, we know very little about this man and the things he has said and done, and so we will be educating ourselves on this so that we can better understand the implications of Taylor's involvement with him.

But most of all, we want all of you here in our community to always feel respected, safe, and valued. Not only from us, but from other members here too. We love you all SO much, and are so grateful that this is more often than not a space where you can safely share your opinions without fear of judgement or ridicule, but please remember to always be respectful and kind to one another. Many of you have told us that this community is such a happy and positive space for you to escape to while 🎶"outside they're push and shoving" - and we want to keep it this way. We don't want our Patreon to be just another reddit or twitter. We want to connect with you all over our content and our mutual love for Taylor's music!

If you ever have an issue with someone here that you feel needs addressing, you can always reach out to us in a Patreon DM or start a ticket on discord to let us know. 

LOVE YOU ALL SOOOOOOOO MUCH 💜💜💜 as always, thank you for being here and for your support! We'll see you in a few hours for another BLESSED secret song reaction!


Comments

Abrielle Wright

I believe that people should be given room to grow and change and I don't think his past mistakes have to define his whole future as long as he keeps putting the work in. I'd hate to be judged for my worst moments for the rest of my life. (There are exceptions of course such as child abuse and murder lol)

Anonymous

I can really tell on social media who has had to live through a friend dating a crappy rebound and who hasn’t. Friend of mine dated a sexist asshole for over a year and I just had to support her and wait it out. She settled. She looked past his faults and thought he’d change for her. He didn’t. This feels like that, but OBVIOUSLY I don’t know either person.

Brittany Diamond
>>108685192

EXACTLY this. I felt almost out of body during the whole Matty ordeal, with so much of the internet acting like they've never dated someone frightful or known someone who dated a frightful person (or even heard of the concept). It was gross for so many reasons, glad it's over.

Anonymous
>>108685192

Thanks for relating! I have a bestie whose childhood friend has ONLY dated assholes. Her current husband is the best dude she’s ever dated because at least he isn’t physically violent. Score! Are we just supposed to ditch her? We know she picks these guys because her dad and older brother were narcissistic assholes. She’s a decent person and has made some progress. All we can hope for.