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Ep. 15 - Uncensored - The Podcast is Back! (Patreon)

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2023-03-29 01:50:29
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Everyone's favorite podcast is back and better than ever! Come watch this obligatory wine tasting with your favorite hosts, Maya & QT.

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Nivaldo Farias

LETSFUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOO

SetRange

HYPERS

dar

yessssss

Nikki L

Was gonna go to bed, but that can wait. It's back!!!

Zarianna

Hellll yesss

Izabella

FUCK YESSSSS

Megan

omg stoked

emptyivy

YESSSSSSSSSSS BEST PODCAST!!

daman

try not to say MOTHERS challenge FAILEDDD

paul

Yo

Azzam

HOLY FUCK ITS BACK

scot

been so hyped for this finally out!

Treyden Talbot

maya's right you gotta start by having a chat

Gabby

AYOOOO

Brooke

They weren’t kidding when they said they’d be back ASAP! YAYYAYAYAYAY!

Ashton R

LETS GOOOO!! Just in time for me to listen to during my overnight shift at work!

NuttyKiwis

everybody moved

Monique Rose

Best part of the week 💖

Cody

LETSGO

J

I wish we could all watch together some how

Deli Jones

Yessss!!!!

Ethan Metcalf

Could you guys do audio only also?

Jeff F.

Woooo!

David

Lowkey wish you guys can meet up once or twice a month for an in person episode, but I’ll get used to the best podcast out there!

LunaticLynn

LETS FUCKING GO !! 🍷🫶

Vashtii (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 Sweet!
2023-03-29 01:58:15 Sweet!

Sweet!

KamFord

I wish we had access to Audio Only. I can't watch the videos and turn the screen off

stolenarmy_

LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO!

LunaticLynn

and i just bought my bottle of wine too 😌🍷 perfect timing ! 💚

Phuong Le

🎶 wine about it🎵

Bailey

i been waiting for this all day 😭

FIFTY

LETS GO

Yoda .
>>105119686

Maya said that it's too much flying for her and it's unfair for the people at alveus

Mando Chil

🎆🎆🎆

David
>>105119686

Oh I understand, just yk gotta get used to some change

Aster

So excited for this !! Abt to head to bed but I cant wait to listen tomorrow 🥰

Ellaabunny

finally my drive to work podcast is back

Victor

I do love the wine part of the podcast

Dev

im so happy<3

Dune_Shadow

What a MOOD having all of your close friends move away and then never talking again, that always happens to me.

SetRange

Great job on the set

Parker

At the cheating part of the episode and it’s insane that the guys wouldn’t say anything about it, it’s absolutely not bro code to just not tell someone when their being cheated on holy shit

JenWithLuv

the cheating part of the podcast...the fact he lied that he told their s/o is...🙄 you did the right thing QT

melmo

awesome first podcast back. i think the perspective of males on tthe cheating thing is wild.

patrick davis

Definitely not bro code smh

Kyle A

this is my super bowl

logan rx (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 thats insane, that’s not bro code, QT did the right thing.
2023-03-29 02:53:03 thats insane, that’s not bro code, QT did the right thing.

thats insane, that’s not bro code, QT did the right thing.

miriam lopeZ

the trauma comes from qt watching lc and heidi break up

SnipFred

I'm not gonna lie, I fell in love with Fear and because QT was on it and it made me switch over to Wine About It

Vadonis1

Whoever those streamers are that said to stay out of it are sad human being's. it is definitely not bro code to stay out of it you go tell the person that is being cheated on. any male that says otherwise is a degenerate pos and karma will serve them hopefully sooner than later.

QuintenG

In response to the topic of cheating and being a guy i would totally tell someone if they were being cheated on and would also want someone to tell me if that was the case. Don’t know what guys you’re talking to but it’s a crazy take to say “stay out of it”

veranika

GOD I MISSED THIS SO MUCH 😭😭😭🫶🏻

Daisy

Would like to say I am a cis girl who does enjoy giving head not just bc it gives my partner pleasure but bc I find it hot.

VancityRen

What a great ep!! So happy the pod is back!

Alyce Sutherland

This is the perfect podcast to listen to yank my hair out while doing organic chemistry problems

sofia

wine opening segment is back, i used to pray for times like this 😭

MattButWithOneT

absolutely not bro code to not tell someone if you know their SO is cheating. I would not even tell the cheater before. every guy I have known that has cheated would not tell the truth.

Bassam

I'm so happy that you two got over your 'break up' and are back doing this. I feel sorry that Maya has basically lost faith in humanity bc of shitty Twitch people. Though I'm glad to see that she has a hot, nice bf now lol

Brandy Churchill

I've been with my husband for 17 years and I still love it... gets me off everytime!

rich bich

last part of the ep with maya gushing and glowing about the bf was very wholesome and cyude

KayeBearXD

You should DEFINITELY tell someone if their significant other is cheating on them, regardless of code. I’m so ready for the qt wedding planning episodes!!!! 😏❤️ WELCOME BACK MAYA AND QT!!!

Kid Animal

As a guy I've actually had the exact opposite thing with the cheating convo. Every girl I spoke to at the time when one of their friends was cheating on their boyfriend said to stay out of it and actively tried to hide it for them. Meanwhile me and my other guy friend were getting head from our S/Os for wanting to say something

Lulu

LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO! I'm so happy my favorite podcast is back!!

Blake

I’m so excited to finish work and listen :)

KayeBearXD
>>105124046

Qt is terrified of flying. I don’t think that’s an option unfortunately.

John Pina

That ain’t bro code, just like maya said it’s human responsibility.

Sovde

not bro code at all, insane not to tell the victim there

Nikki L
>>105119364

This episode is so good! Someone should 100% be told if they're being cheated on. Also, I'm excited for all of the upcoming stuff.

Cesar

Real bros don’t be messing with hoes

Luke Hiebert

You should do 1:30 like the yard

Rachael

Great Ep!! Also DEFINITELY tell someone if they are getting cheated on

RonJon

The guys reaction to the cheating thing is super weird, I couldn't ever imagine suggesting to stay out of it. I am very interested to know how the gender divide of the responses would be if it was a girl cheating on her boyfriend instead, if the guys/girls would have different recommendations in that circumstance. Would be really interesting to see if the gender divide is just based on those people's casual approach to cheating in general or if it's because it matches the gender roles in this specific situation you were asking about.

Kaiyah Papaya

I love qts dress this ep!! also maya losing faith in humanity is very sad but seeing the way she talks about her was so sweet 🥺

Connor G

I was in a friend group for a while where all the guys were cheating and they would always say just stay out of it. Same type of guys that wouldn't let their gf's hang out with the guys.

Lucas Vanhoever

As a guy I can say that it is definitely not a bro code thing to not tell someone if their significant other is cheating, it is crazy that every single guy you talked to said not to tell.

gabrieldontsnap

I can relate to not having many friends who are girls growing up and I yearn for a girl group so bad now

Cup_

I love how the butterflies go from one set to the other and they line up :) . Idk if it's just me but I would immediately tell someone that they are being cheated on cause I'm not trying to even give any cheater the chance to lie or manipulate any individual. Glad your back QT & Maya 🖤❤️🖤

Michael Cook

You definitely tell them if their partner is cheating on them. I would be very suspicious about the guys you talked to about it.

Kyle

So happy this is back, I missed it! Also, QT you are my favorite part of Fear& so please don't go!

Anthony Calhoun

on the cheating thing, this is probably different for the streamer-sphere, but I mostly opt for the 'not my business' out of fear of escalating a situation, like doesmetic violence type stuff. I would probably bluff "you tell her or i tell her" and hope the partner does. Idk its tough, pretty context dependent. I definitetly agree that the party should know/has a right to know etc

Sivvii_

fuck man ive missed this

NallM012

This is amazing, I'm now tipsy and happy.

Julia

great episode!! the only podcast where I can listen to the whole thing in one sitting and not get bored. missed this

Neil

Love the pod <3

traklf

So excited to watch this

Kyle Howington

I FUCKING LOVED IT!!! AS KACEYTRON WOULD SAY THAT SHIT WAS SO REAL!

Sophie

I'm so happy this is back

Michael T

Let’s gooooooooooo

Emma Vedock

Amazing podcast back!! So excited for all the content! And also yes QT makes Fear& a thousand times better

Jake

Definitely tell them.

jamiedizzle

Mayas little setup is so cute, love the matching vibes! I don't have wine but I got me a seagrams to sip on as I watch 😎👍

Colten Stolarski

For the cheating thing, that is definitely not "bro code". I would say most men just generally avoid things that don't involve them and definitely doesn't have anything to do with some sort of "men looking out for men" thing. That being said, if it was a friend of mine who was cheating on somebody, I would tell the victim - more so because of the anger and disappointment I would have in my friend, as selfish as that is

GOGOG

"High School Musical is sooo bad" -Maya Higa, whose favourite movie is Angry Birds 2

Shane

On the worrying the podcast won't be the same, it's different, doesn't have quite the same feel as before but it's not nearly as bad as I feared it would be. I was pleasantly surprised

formerdingo88

Maya describing her boyfriend an being in an actual happy relationship is great, but it's actually bad, and I'm mad at her, and it should have happened to me instead.

Kat

Absolutely did the right thing in teling the girl she was being cheated on.

Yumnah Rushdy

i missed u guys so much COMFORT PODCAST FR!!!!!!! pls never ever ever ever end

AYPRIL

wine about it makes me feel like I'm at a girls sleepover I love it sm!!!

viri

i relate to QT on the social drinking thing. i have super social anxiety and a little bit of alcohol helps me so much to be myself in social situations i hate it!

Jenny Lyons

 🎶 WINE ABOUT IT 🎶

Tfries_

It makes me so happy to watch this podcast. I love seeing good friendships and glad they got over the break up coz best friend break ups are tough. GREAT EPISODE AS ALWAYS!

AbaftUser

As a 20 year old male I would absolutely tell someone if I new they were being cheated on

Caligastia

So nice to hear you girls like this again! And no, this is defnitely as good as we remember it! Btw Qt you looked good on Fear&, really...I'm not just saying that! Regarding the cheating situation, I think it's a matter of principles. If you yourself have been in this position and do not want your time to be wasted like that you don't do it to another person or let it be done to someone you care about. However I want to express my antipathy for anyone who claims this is an easy or obligatory course of action. Personally if one of my close friends did it to their partner I'd just stay out of it, I would probably tell them to just break up and seek happiness, but if they just wanted to keep things like that then I'd just resign myself to accepting that's the type of life they want to lead, knowing that there's most likely going to be pain and sadness somewhere in their future . Now the situation discussed here may have had some streaming related implications/consequences so it might have been particularly difficult to handle, but nevertheless, kudos for giving someone the choice to not waste any more time cluelessly.

gargouilles_

thank you for the content smile

Emma

Thank you for being so open and sharing the return of wine about it. So happy that you are back.

Baemaccs

Hearing about Maya's relationship, my brain just went to this line in a swift song "Even in my worst times, you could see the best of me" I was waiting for the "beep beep" hope you guys brings that back :>

Jinee

Nice

John Moncrief

Woo, so glad for the podcast to be back, and as for the "bro code" about telling someone that their significant other is cheating on them, absolutely not a bro code thing, id instantly tell them that, I couldn't imagine

Erin

i also struggle with self worth problems and tried to work on it with a therapist but it was difficult to ever “fix” because it has to come from within. no matter how many people say “nice things” to me, or how many times i repeat “positive affirmations” to myself - if i cannot internally believe all that then it’s pointless. so i completely understand QT’s frustration there - writing down compliments i receive would not help my own self worth because it is a highly personal and internal process.

august

wow the episode felt so short lol i really like the new format and didn’t feel the change glad the pod is back!

Sanduela

I’m so excited for this thank you guys for bringing my favorite podcast back!! 🫶🏼

zacH

After working at a Liquor Store for a while I knew instantly what wine yall had for this ep.. But I ended up just taking a couple dabs and chilling like usual. I do suggest The Prisoner wine, little expensive but very much worth it.

your_reese (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 Listen too it on my way to Work. Great restart and the vibes are still there.
2023-03-29 07:21:20 Listen too it on my way to Work. Great restart and the vibes are still there.

Listen too it on my way to Work. Great restart and the vibes are still there.

Alex Burgos

Im so happy to see you back ladiies!!

envisaguese

omg its just like it used to be

SetRange

I'm definitely removing "keeps their britta in the cupboard" from my red flags list after hearing that boyfriend review

Stephanie Davis

Can’t wait for QT to force Maya to watch Miss Americana and for Maya to become a Swiftie.

ItsSebhere

The format works really well! :)

Akumu2100

So glad the podcast is back. Love the set.

Arrowni

#youtellthegirl

Roberto

Wine About It magic has returned to the kingdom

Tobias

I forgot how fuckin funny you guys are, I'm so glad It's back!

Jack Sleath

You should always tell the person if they are being cheated on, it sucks but I would rather know

Pooyamon

common Caleb W with that first night story

KuyagramTV (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 Thanks for bringing it back!
2023-03-29 10:13:02 Thanks for bringing it back!

Thanks for bringing it back!

SuperDuprEgg

I hate making comments on these things but what Maya went through was so unfair and it still pisses me off thinking about it I hope one day she gets to enjoy more elements of streaming again

Tfries_

my little pattern seeking brain is really struggling with the fact that they're on opposite sides now, why am I like this

tyongflight

not to be parasocial but this episode was awesome, really glad wine about it is back

udara cs

we are backkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk wahoo

Pnwoah

Loved the ep. Also, another plus about the patreon imo is that all the comments are nice lol. Otherwise yt comments are so annoying sometimes. Looking forward to more eps <3

SetRange
>>105137681

Agreed, it's frustrating to listen to what that time was like for her and it's continued affects on her mental. It was cool to hear about how supportive room temperature water guy was though, even early-on in a relationship. You can learn a lot about people from what they do when you are in your roughest spots and he sounds like a real one. It's nice to have people like that around you.

Einārs Bistrovs

I would hate if someone else would assert themselves in my relationship, yes it would suck to be cheated on, but having someone else tell me would be even worse. But it depends on the person, also for guys, if we start going into other guys' business that's a fistfight in the works. (i am not from the USA, have no idea what happens over there)

Lyesaugh

So glad you girls are back! I was a little worried about it feeling different because it's virtual but it's way better than I expected. Can't wait for the next episode!

Julian Schäfer

the set matches really well and I am so glad its back <3

Lindsey

Welcome back! I'm glad y'all decided to return.

N.N.

Love to see you back 😍 You should do an episode where you read Patreon comments 😁

Lichterloh

I put off telling a friend of mine that her boyfriend ALMOST cheated (he tried to come on to me and 2 other friends when he was super drunk but we all obviously said no and talked sense into him) because she was in Japan for 3 months and already having a hard time. We decided it would just crush her so much when she can’t even be here to talk directly 🫣

David Goleb

I can bring a guys perspective to the cheating topic. We had a couple in our friend group, we were all around 21-23 I believe at the time, where we were all friends with both the bf and the gf. The bf, let's call him J, came to me one day though and mentioned how at a party he was at without his gf, we'll call her B, a girl had been hitting on him and flirting a lot. He hadn't cheated or done anything though, and was just discussing it, asking for advice. I told him to let it lie because B was awesome and she had always been crazy about him, so don't ruin a good relationship over some random girl that you'd probably just hook up with once anyways. At that time I didn't say anything to B though, as there was no cheating and I was hoping J was going to be smart. A week later he called me at like 2am, he was at a party again and another girl was hitting on him. He asked me to help "convince him not to cheat". I told him to stop being an idiot and just go home ASAP. Call ended and I didn't talk to him for a few days. Another friend in our group mentioned about a week later that he heard J had hooked up with someone at a party. I reached out to J and he confirmed. He said he felt shitty about it, gave all the typical shitty excuses about alcohol and blah blah blah. I told him he has to let B know, or I'd tell her. He was pissed, but he said he'd do it. I reached out to B a day or two later, under the guise of just saying "Hey, how've you been doing?". She was upset, mentioned that J had told her and she was deciding if the relationship was worth trying to save. J had told her it was a spur of the moment, one time thing. I then told her the conversations I'd had with J, mentioned that it seemed like a pattern on his part, not a one off. I wanted her to be able to make the best and most informed decision for herself about what she was going to do going forward. They ended up breaking up, she wouldn't take him back, and he became a huge womanizer over the years, even slept with multiple married women. Just kind of anscum bag overall. I know a lot of guys who do take that stance of just wanting to stay out of it, not wanting to be involved in the "drama". That always comes across as kind of scummy to me though, like they act that way because they hope their friends will cover for them if they end up doing the same thing down the road. I think you give the cheating partner a chance to come clean, but always end up telling the cheated on partner if they don't. That's the way it should be at least.

Jarod Smith

Staying out of it might be the “Guy code” response, but fuck that, being cheated on is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to a person, and protecting someone who is doing that makes you guilty too. Some people can live with that and not have it bother them, but I certainly can’t.

Crawhss

LETS GO. Love these girls

Dovydas

this was very good

NightSwipe

“If their brain was on fire, I wouldn’t piss in their ear” goes so hard. 10/10 episode, glad this is back!

Dieter Roebert

It's back baby just as good as always. Time to watch the YouTube video in the background on mute because I've already watched it here

tilly

having a long distance relationship with your best friend is so exhausting, especially when there's other factors involved. shit sucks because you want to be a good friend and see each other in person and do things together but it's just not convenient and can end up going months without talking or seeing each other. glad it worked out in the end for you two <3 also i agree with maya that it isn't just girl/brocode with cheating. if i were dating someone and they cheated on me and someone else knew about it for however long and didn't say a word on the basis of it "not being their business" i'd be furious lmao and they'd be cut out of my life. withholding that information because you don't wanna betray the concept of a "solidarity" makes you an asshole imo, people deserve to be called out for doing shitty things and if they hurt other people while doing so they obviously need to feel the repercussions before they normalize it.

Katherine Mary

I need to know why for book club you can't listen to audiobooks. That's wild lol

Darren Hertenstein

I'm so happy Wine About It is back, but Fear & needs QT. The Fear Andies just need to get through to Hasan that what QT says is important and matters (We already know Marche is on board, Will probably is too... but that fuckin Hasan guy.... 😅). Keep up the great work, y'all. ❤️

Aleshia

Glad you’re both comfortable with the podcast again! I feel like streaming/podcasting is so male dominated, so it’s really nice to have this spot 🥰❤️

Julia Rose

Love this podcast. I missed hearing QT and Maya talk, so I’m very glad it is back!

Joseph Cie

you have genuinely outdone yourselves this was crazy good and surprisingly not awkward at all

Lucy

YAY!

CountJest

It is guy code, old toxic guy code. I have for the longest time let everyone know that if meet their gf and they cheat on her and I find out I'll tell her, I won't be party to that.

Seth Hastings

Lol it's funny seeing QT not answer Will after that tier list 😂

RussianI3aer

I'm glad QT speaks out about how Fear& is marketed and presented and needs help

Klav

forsen

Alison

I hope you ladies know how inspiring you both are. Not just with what you both do for women in the content industry but also to see you both handle the ups and downs of friendship, trauma, etc. I hope QT can find comfort in knowing not everyone will abandon her and that Maya can see not everyone is going to use and abuse her kindness. I'm glad the podcast is back. ❤️

rae

theres something so funny about how QT and Maya both dont like wine but force themselves to drink it every episode for the pun of the title

Laura

The cheating thing gets me so heated man because it's totally true (from what I've seen). My current boyfriend got cheated on by his ex girlfriend, and they were in the same friend group in college. One night, one of his friend's girlfriends got really drunk when we were all hanging out and she told me that his ex has propositioned her boyfriend (their friend) for sex while my boyfriend and his ex were together(and before his friend and his girlfriend were together). Then told me they watched them move in together and get a cat together knowing it wasn't going to last. That is so fucking insane to me. Watching your friend make these huge life decisions with someone you know is awful, all while hiding behind the excuse of "it's not my place". aka they're pussies lol. I was the one who told my boyfriend about it long after they broke up, but he's never said anything to his friend about it and they are still friends so idk man. Idk if he understands why they didn't tell him (I certainly don't) or if he's just too nice and is the type to let people walk all over him. It's just sad man. I don't think it's necessarily girl code or guy code as much as it women think about protecting the people involved while men think about protecting themselves. This is all just a massive generalization, so apologies if you don't fit into these roles. We appreciate you guys who have respect for other :3 Moral of the story: if the person who's place it is doesn't own up, it's your place.

Bullbagaren

You barely notice that it is not in person anymore.

Britt Carr

Glad you guys are back :)

Travis Dillon

Amazing episode, glad y’all are back. Thank you for the hour of entertainment at work!

P Soni

I was a little worried about how the new format would work.. but it works!! Loved this episode, it’s so nice to listen along to you two while I go about my day. :) Regarding the cheating thing: I went through something similar in highschool with my best friend’s boyfriend. He attempted to cheat on her (imo it’s still cheating) with my other friend’s sister (the other friend told me - he had no idea we were friends). I told my best friend, and her boyfriend then confronted me saying I broke HIS trust (huh???) he had his friends tell me that by telling MY best friend I had broken some sort of friend code. I asked them what they would’ve done, and I noticed a divide too, some of the guys said they’d leave it alone and some of the girls said they’d say something. The cherry ontop was when I asked my best friend’s boyfriend what HE would’ve done, he said he would’ve told his friend… but this situation is “different!” Still puzzles me to this day, it’s shitty because you feel like you’re being “overly reactive” or emotional in the moment, but I still stand by my decision from back then and I hope you do too QT!

Puhjay

As someone currently working through abandonment issues and how it affects my current platonic/romantic relationships, it's really validating and helpful to hear QT talk about that process in therapy.

Jamie Slacks

it’s the old toxic bro code!

MicahLuv419

Proud of you Maya 👏

Joshua G McLeod

I think old toxic bro code was to not say anything if you knew your bro was cheating, but I'm pretty sure you were still expected to say something if you knew "their girl" was cheating (yay double standards). I've never seen that dynamic in any of my real life relationships. I'd expect any of my good friends to never cheat, but if they do they definitely know I'm not covering for them

domino

Fear& viewer here who will gladly be poached for wineaboutit, suck it hasan

Larnius

For the minute at the end… I don’t think many people from Patreon will watch on YouTube. If you put the uncensored versions of normal episodes on here and they come out earlier I will only watch everything on here. Great to have you back. Was wondering if the vibe would be different because you guys are in different places but I’m glad to see that it’s still the same!!

Bruce Wayne

I am a male. And in Freshman year of college, I found out a guy I graduated with cheated on a girl (who was still in high school). I didn’t know what to do. I REALLY did not want to get involved, but it seemed like I was the ONLY person who actually knew about it. So what I did was, I messaged someone I know who was better friends with the girl than I was, and basically left it up to them to decide what the best thing to do was, and then I asked to remain anonymous. I believe they ended up telling her, and the broke up. I think my decision to not tell her myself (as a male) really came more from a place of PURE self preservation, and not wanting to get into the middle of any kind of drama. I think that’s probably the same for most guys, and NOT due to it being some kind of “bro code”. If that helps you understand a little bit.

Gusse__

Man this podcast is goated, so happy its back!

Murkus

this is healing, I'm so glad it's back

Payton

i could listen to y’all talk for literal hours and hours, it’s so engaging to me and this is the only podcast that keeps me engaged

Jose Marin

Glad to be back! Def a tad diff vibe with the remote but still qt brings the energy and blurts stuff and maya is a bit more calm and collected 😂 great balance! Can def relate to doing a job you don’t like just because of money! Suggestion for trash tv, can y’all watch love is blind?! I really wanna get your reactions to that show!!

Biome

qt pls dont leave fear& they need a woman there Austins gaynes isn't enough

Paulo Roberto Fróes dos Reis

Oh man there's 200 comments already, but I hope QT/Maya sees this bc I would love to hear their opinions on a scenario: Imagine if Maya starts dating a guy, and 1 year later QT discovers that Maya cheated on him. Upon talking to Maya she says she's terribly sorry, she would never do it again, that QT can hold Maya accountable, but Maya won't tell the guy because it was a 'one time thing'. What would you do? Would you tell him, or would you value your relationship with your best friend and not say anything?

NugKai

glad you guys are back!

Noble (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 To me it's 'human code' to tell someone they are being cheated on
2023-03-29 20:10:25 To me it's 'human code' to tell someone they are being cheated on

To me it's 'human code' to tell someone they are being cheated on

Lemony

dude ranch for sub goal?

Maria

Loved it :)

Moral Panic

I am so happy this podcast is back. I know a lot of people say this, but to me you two are some of my closest friends that I can just sit and hang out with. I am having a rather hard time right now, and I was just crying watching this episode, mostly from just how much better and safe I felt emotionally just being able to have a quiet mind and listen to you. I also got really happy at the end listening to Maya being happy about her relationship. I genuinely care about you QT and Maya, and welcome back to Wine About It!

Steven Bonnell II

Not me being a nosey bitch scrolling the comments failing at trying to see if anyone knew who the couple was that QT broke that news to.

Steven Bonnell II

As far as the cheating segment, there’s nothing more soul crushing than being in the position QT was in and doing the right thing, only for the person being cheated on to double down and stay with that person and sort of team up to exile you from friend groups

Infidusfiles

Tell the person they are being cheated on, it’s crazy you heard any other opinion

Kyle

Have you guys considered doing 90min instead of 60min, the pod was great it just felt like it ended too soon

anthony morales

so happy the show is back. and you should ALWAYS tell someone they are being cheated on. thats insane.

Zach

As a guy I think whoever is being cheated on should be told right away. If I was being cheated on I would want to be told right away.

Mitch Mitcherson

Y’all not being physically together doesn’t change the podcast for me. Still has the same flow. Still funny. Happy you two are back.

Gabe

Thank you so much you made my day SO much better!

Nivaldo Farias

That feeling mayo talked about about knowing them being 💫 the one 💫 from the get-go is SOO REAL 😭 I knew from the moment I met my SO that they were the one I would spend the rest of my life with

Carmnsndiego

If I know someone is cheating on someone else, I’m going to tell them! If I knew my friends knew and didn’t tell me, we are no longer friends.

LeahGia

Listening to this was the highlight of my work day. I’m so glad it’s back. Side note, but someone needs to make those Fear& boys start listening to QT… I’m going to need her on both pods in order to reach my weekly QT content quota (and let’s be honest they need her) ❤️

kay

i relate so much to your anxiety qt

Brogue

Glad you guys are back! I'm happy to support :)!

Brad

Exceptional! I only recently found the pod on YouTube but I’m so glad I found it right when y’all came back! And yeah, you’ve gotta tell somebody when they’re being cheated on…! Cheers!

CaptCapn

As a listener to both pods I’ll be in the comments of Fear&

Sneakyo13

So glad to have the pod back, I don’t think any of the chemistry is lost with it being virtual, just glad to have an excuse to listen to you two chat shit for 1hr+ a week. Can’t wait to see what the future holds! Also, side note, any white wine whine about it episodes would be great, still cannot like red wines and love the idea of drinking along!

Sean Larmee

I’m torn on the cheating thing. I think it would depend on who it is. If my best friend is getting cheated on I would want to tell them. If it’s my co worker then I’m less interested in getting involved in their life as I feel it’s none of my business. Maybe they are swingers, maybe he’s a cuck, maybe they are in an open relationship. If I don’t know the person well enough to know those things then their personal life is none of my business.

Alex

Regarding the cheating, when I was in college one of my female friends found out a couple from her high school had someone cheating and used one of those anonymous messengers to send the girl in the relationship the sextape of the boyfriend and a different girl from the previous night. I honestly think not telling is 10x better than that.

Michael

Love looking forward to this podcast! You both are so funny and create a cozy atmosphere. :) For cheating, as a guy, I would definitely want to know if my girlfriend was cheating on me. Crushing but not worth putting in the effort on someone who cheated.

SuperCookieGaming

trans women here, i would absolutely do what QT did about the cheating. i don't remember the guy code ever having a no disclosing cheating clause. like wtf you tell the person.

Ayoub LWR

Switch your places….. maya was always on the right and QT on the left.

eirysse

So happy you guys are back!! It works just as well over discord the vibes were right lol .. QT is right with the cheating thing, girl code is to tell! Guys seem kinda shady right, like wdym don't tell ??

Ridorana12

omg Maya at 35 minutes is how i've been feeling for the past year. I've discovered partially how treacherous people can be. They'll smile in your face and try to get you to talk, yet the moment you're not around or turn your back yhey'll dog you out six ways to Sunday. So many people look after themselves and try to win your friendship with pretty words and a pretty tone of voice. Emotional and psychological manipulation is a mother f**ker.

seashell

IT'S BACK! Both of your feelings are absolutely valid. Sounds like Maya really found a good guy too, it's great to hear you didn't go through all of that alone. You saw some of the worst of humanity and were stabbed in the back too, it's ok to be angry and take your time. You deserve all the good coming your way. As far as the cheating thing goes, there might be some guys that are weird and toxic about not telling the girl because of "bro code", but that sounds like the minority. My thought was more that they were worried about you specifically telling her and receiving any retaliation from the guy.

Jen

qt i love your shirt in this episode its hella cute, and im sure youll find great friends, you seem great, good friends will find you <3

Andrew Endersby (edited)

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2024-01-12 19:35:00 I listened to this yesterday morning and then had a job interview. My fifth in two months, I think. Maybe the rhythm of their talking influenced me because somehow I got the job. The power of Wine About It!
2023-03-30 10:07:44 I listened to this yesterday morning and then had a job interview. My fifth in two months, I think. Maybe the rhythm of their talking influenced me because somehow I got the job. The power of Wine About It!

I listened to this yesterday morning and then had a job interview. My fifth in two months, I think. Maybe the rhythm of their talking influenced me because somehow I got the job. The power of Wine About It!

Kimberly Archibald

I missed this so much! Also - it hit my soul when QT said that every female friend moved away. That’s been my issue since kindergarten, and is still relevant today.

DulkBildos

There is absolutely no bro code revolving around not telling a girl her dude is cheating. You can do exactly what you did and give space for him to confess but there's no rules around a nasty situation like that. Happy to see the ladies back, great episode :)

Dakota Sanders

So happy, "Wine About It!"- Hasan and Austin harmonizing, is back I think the concern for the vibes is super valid but I really felt like it was the two friends talking who I missed hearing are back. Cheating is bad, if you want to cheat on your partner, maybe you should leave the relationship and not cheat on them? if you do cheat you should tell the other person. And if you know that someone cheated and is unwilling to come forward about it you should tell the person cheated on, they deserve to have all the information available to make whatever decision they want to make. Also I hope QT doesnt leave Fear& cause I genuinely think she makes it better. K, thanks, love you, bye <3

Jordan

Not telling someone about that isn't bro code, it's just cowardice. They don't want a potential confrontation from the cheater. I'm really happy though that this podcast is back!

Kelsey Stanley

Honestly this episode felt more original then the ones before the break!

Thique

Very glad the pod is back, I've been waiting very hopefully since it ended. I gotta say, I wish there were a link to some alternative player for the uncensored patreon version. The player on patreon is very laggy and inconsistent for no real reason, so I'd love future pods to have alt links to unlisted youtube videos or something

Rubba

this podcast validates my experience as a woman living in a man’s world. thank u queens, keep it comin

Kyle Coleman

I'm a guy who absolutely believes you should tell a girl she's being chested on if you've already given him the chance.

Ang

i love u guys so much pls ur so relatable

SK J

Maya said the wine was 12 dollars? I want you to know it's 29 dollars in Norway 🙃

Lennu 27th

I feel like im walking into an answer i know the answer to already. I have a coworker i know that has cheated on his girlfriend at a company party. Me as a non social media user, should i create an anonymous social media account to "snitch" on the coworker?

Brezhniew

This why I love Austin. No one knows what Mr. Show does, and especially how he makes his money, but he spends most of his time outside Oregon in The Abbey. There is no "I work all the time".

Brezhniew
>>105251232

It doesn't even have to be cowardice. Guys telling someone don't get involved is just another way of guys wanting to be left alone in peace. Don't get involved, why do you want let aggravation into your life. "So do yourself a favour gurl, and stay away from it. Let someone else tell them, or let them find out on their own".

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2023-04-28 23:15:12 Wait, but I subscribe to both Wine about It and Fear&amp;... can I just subscribe to all QT podcasts?
2023-04-03 09:44:23 Wait, but I subscribe to both Wine about It and Fear&... can I just subscribe to all QT podcasts?

Wait, but I subscribe to both Wine about It and Fear&... can I just subscribe to all QT podcasts?

Max

yea this that good shit and if youre friends with the person being cheated on, then yes, otherwise id either not make it my place to tell them or tell someone thats friends with them. idk sometimes you can add a lot of unnecessary feelings to a situation just by entering it badly

Zay

W episode. Imo telling someone that they're being cheated on feels kinda intrusive. I can understand if it's like a really close friend, but if I just find out that so and so is being cheated on and I don't really know them like that it feels wrong.

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2023-04-09 03:34:39 I literally only trust qts perspective on the whole selena haley justin drama and everyone has been not listening when she starts to talk about it, like on fear&amp; I got so happy we were finally talking about it but then no she got interrupted by will and I just felt like crying because kill me if I want to hear about the stupid celebrity gossip nfjdbfjk
2023-04-05 10:11:42 I literally only trust qts perspective on the whole selena haley justin drama and everyone has been not listening when she starts to talk about it, like on fear& I got so happy we were finally talking about it but then no she got interrupted by will and I just felt like crying because kill me if I want to hear about the stupid celebrity gossip nfjdbfjk

I literally only trust qts perspective on the whole selena haley justin drama and everyone has been not listening when she starts to talk about it, like on fear& I got so happy we were finally talking about it but then no she got interrupted by will and I just felt like crying because kill me if I want to hear about the stupid celebrity gossip nfjdbfjk

Sneaks

But what if Will was dying? tsk tsk tsk...bad friend