Video: "Durable Love" (Patreon)
Content
Patreon Exclusive. Joshua and Ryan talk about the crucial components of successful relationships with comedian Josh Wolf, and they answer the following questions:
What does it take to be ‘comfortable in our skin’? (05:27)
How crucial is balance? (06:35)
What are memetic beliefs? (13:49)
Are we setting ourselves up for failure when we set ourselves on finding ‘the one’? (19:10)
How do I find the person that’s appropriate for me? (22:00)
Why move to Nashville? (24:33)
What are you running toward? (32:10)
What is wrong with focusing on content creation? (33:37)
How are we failing to live in the moment? (45:02)
What should I do when my values and my partner’s values simply don’t align? (51:26)
What is the difference between values and beliefs? (51:45)
How important is our attitude? (58:17)
How do I check in on my introverted loved ones without overwhelming them? (1:08:52)
How do I find a middle ground with a partner who is completely intractable? (1:17:02)
LINKS
Book: Everything Is Spiritual
Book: It Takes Balls
Book: Some Thoughts About Relationships
Essay: Compassion for Hypocrites
Essay: How to Understand Your Values
Essay: Packing Party
Facebook: Josh Wolf
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Patreon: The Minimalists
Podcast: Rob Bell
Podcast Jennette McCurdy
Podcast: Relationship Rescue
Podcast: Dr. Christopher Ryan
Resources: The Minimalists
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Watch: Father of the Year
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MAXIMS
“You are complete in an empty room.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“If we’re not content where we are, we won’t be content where we end up.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Happiness should always be a byproduct, not a goal.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“We can dislike aspects of someone, yet still love the whole person.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
“Love from someone else is not a substitute for love from yourself.” —Ryan Nicodemus
“People don’t hate change—they hate being changed.” —Joshua Fields Millburn
This Maximal episode corresponds with Minimal episode 255.