Age verification on the Server (Patreon)

Heya gamers,

I will make an age verification system for the sake of safety for literally everyone involved. Tho im unsure on what system to use.

The system most used is requiring for people to send a picture of them holding their ID card, with everything censored but the date of birth. Obviously I would delete the picture instantly afterwards.

While the system is mostly fool proof, I really am unsure if I can demand people to show me their face, considering the whole subject of a Minecraft roleplaying sex server.

Which leaves the other option of just requiring a picture of the ID card, with everything censored except the date of birth, next to a piece of paper that has their Discord name on it.

At least the OGs among us who successfully bought cigarettes off cigarette vending machines while they were still young, should know that this system isn't exactly fool proof.

So I am kinda unsure which system to use, considering none is perfect and decided to ask your opinions about it. Maybe you even have an Idea for a third option?