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Seems like this is a thing that pops up a lot when someone in a friend group has a baby before anyone else.. Have any of you with kids dealt with this? tbh I'd be so sad if my friends went to a resort and didn't invite me :/ Thoughts on this one?

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TK

NTA, if you get told not to bring the baby somewhere and you do it anyway, don't be surprised when you're not invited next time.

Rose Bostick

i have an almost 2.5 year old little girl, me and my fiance both work and we’re fortunate enough that his mom watches our little girl while we work. we don’t go out as often as we used to obviously, but 80% of the time that we do our baby is with us. when she was up to a year old we didn’t go out as much as we do now, but when we did, we went places that were comfortable to take babies and never ever would’ve expected anyone around us to not do something because we can’t. i breastfed for about 6 months and when we went out, i didn’t drink but everyone else did. it was an easy dd! 🤣🤣 there’s nothing wrong with taking your baby places, but it should always be with the expectation that where you’re going is appropriate for baby, no one has to conform to you and if baby become inconsolable, then you have to step away. there was one time i went to a formal dinner, and babies were welcome, so we brought our daughter, but about an hour in , she got really upset. we both stepped out and took turns to try and settle her, when that didn’t work we apologized and went home. we actually had a couple people message us and apologize for us having to leave, but thank us for being respectful to everyone around us. i love my babygirl to no end, and even as a younger mom i know that sometimes you have to sacrifice a little for others & your baby’s comfort. <3 much love