preference question (Patreon)

I have a character encounter I am unsure about what gender to make them. it would either me herm or fully male. the other character in the encounter is male, which would you guys rather see? 

im having a hard time making up my mind on if i want the encounter to be male on male or male on herm so i need some help from you guys 

im sorry but i cant give more detail without giving to much away so this will just be based on person preferences from you guys 

(its regarding part 2 of forbidden wants)