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Have you noticed how much toxic unhealthy love is broadcast and promoted in the media?

I stopped accepting romantic movies. Either I have become an adult or it is a year of work with a psychologist, but in every movie I see unhealthy patterns of behavior of people "in love". Emotional swings, abuse, passive aggression, avoiding types of attachment, the child's position in the relationship, Victim and savior.... All this is served under the name of Love. And before, I looked at all this, cried with joy and dreamed of such "true and pure" love. Based on this example, I evaluated my inner feelings with my partner - if we are just calm and respectful to each other, then this is definitely not love 😂 there must be swings, there must be quarrels, broken dishes, jealousy, difficulties and only after overcoming them something beautiful (but also not for long).

Now there will be a theory about the Universal Conspiracy))) The cinematographer films what triggers the viewer (because it clings to the painful), and the viewer considers it the norm. And if the movies showed only loving, open, sincere love where there is personal space, where people respect each other, where two separate personalities develop and build relationships? Maybe then people would stop associating this beautiful feeling of "love" with injuries and there would be more healthy couples and families in the world? I guess we'll never know.