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Hey guys,

So I've been thinking for a long while now how difficult it is to keep up with everything. Even as I've been offering less and less rewards for pledges. With Covid my mental health has deteriorated even further and I'm really, really struggling to keep up with it all. I am so burnt out :( And have been in denial of that fact for years. 

The only thing I think I can feasibly offer is an exclusive live stream doing some ASMR and chill chatting each month. And hopefully bookclub can make a return soon, but i would do that for $1 tiers, too. I know a lot of people pledge without wanting rewards and they just want to support me, but still. I don't want to disappoint any more people.

If you'd like a refund, please let me know. I completely understand and I'm so sorry if I've ever disappointed you. beyond, I need to focus on myself and my mental health and other aspects of my life first. As much as I've always wanted to give back and create a close-knit community with those that support me above and beyond and clearly care about me as a person, it's too much to keep up with. And has been for a very long time.

For now I'm gonna unpublish all tiers except for the $1 a month so you guys can still join the discord and be a part of the community there, as well as the videos with no sponsors and early access (hopefully I can get back to posting at least the day before...sigh). 

Thank you everyone for your continued support. Thank you, thank you, thank you. And please message me for any refunds <3

Comments

Anonymous

Mental health comes first, always. We're here for you no matter what. ❤️

Slava N

Nobody would care better about yourself than you. Please don't burn out.

gosiemople

Sorry to hear that. Hope you feel better soon!

K3NPACHI

Love you frivi &lt;3 take care of yourself. You could never dissapoint us!

Stephen Lincoln

I think I'll just stay at my current pledge level and call it good. You do too much already for me to skate on a $1 a month.

LeFringe27

I've been here for years, Friv and i have zero issues the changes. I will always support your decision for what you feel is best for you. Take care of yourself first and remember that we love you no matter what.

Super Belle (Bella)

We’re here to support you so take your time💗

Anonymous

Take care of yourself, we love you ❤️

Anonymous

Thank you for doing your best always (even if you don’t feel like you are). We are all doing the best we can. Don’t forget your light! ❤️

Luis a valdovinos

You work so hard and stretch yourself so thin! We’re all here because we genuinely support what you do and how you help us. Thank you always for your transparency. You never disappoint 💙

chris pacos

At the end of the day your still only human and just like us. Just because you stream doesn't mean you have super powers. You can't make content if your not all there, so you come first not the content. We can wait. 😊

Elias

Take care of yourself, friend.

Finnigan

Don't sweat it! Honestly just posting 2 minutes early so everyone can go "how did you comment 2 minutes ago?!?" is all the reward I need

Phillip Coe

You have never disappointed. Take care of yourself, Friv. Your mental health is what’s important. I’ll still be here supporting you every step of the way. Love ya. ❤️.

MrAtalon

I know you do what you can and I am always for you doing what you need to take care of yourself. ❤

frivvifox

Not me sobbing at your guys' kindness. Thank you everyone. Still, please don't hesitate to ask for a refund!!! &lt;3

iAndrewC

Lauren, you're amazing, thanks for even doing what you do for all of us. I know things are overwhelming, and you'll get through it. We'll all be there for the journey together. Keep your head up, you're doing great!

Anonymous

No worries whatsoever and I appreciate you.

KevinDecaf

Your health above everything else always 🥰 take care Frivvi 💖

Anonymous

No refund needed! Just take care of yourself and we'll be here no matter what. :)

Anonymous

Sorry to hear things are so rough right now. Please do whatever you need to in order to take care of yourself. For whatever it's worth from a fairly new Patron, the $1 tier has almost felt too good - I've been considering tiering-up because I feel like I want to support you more for what you give (both in terms of rewards and in everything you do). But, if this is what you need right now, I respect and support that fully. Sending love &lt;3

Tony XM

No worries. Take care of yourself as you need to. It's all good. You will always have my support. 💖💖💖

Anonymous

Girl, you never disappoint us! I echo what has already been said but will gladly say it again: your mental health comes first and we will still support you no matter what. Take care of yourself first and foremost; and if you get overwhelmed and need to take a break from creating sometimes, you are fully, completely entitled to do so and your viewers will 1000% understand. Be kind to yourself!

Anonymous

I mean... id still stay at whatever it is i give you now with out really caring that all i'd need to give is 1$... Do what ya gotta do, Frivvi. I havnt been super active in the discord or streams..but you are an important part of my life regardless. If i ever need help sleeping, relaxing or get a rare moment of anxiousness i hop right to a frivvi viddi. Take care of your needs :)

Snuffles

Always happy to support you, please take care of yourself and know many of us are here to support you because we care about you and your well being. &lt;3

rambam

Can't disappoint us, take care of yourself first.

Anonymous

Don't worry, Frivvi, we all know how hard it can be to keep working as usual when we feel bad inside... Especially in these weird times, I think no one expects from you to be perfect. Much love and hope that you'll be fine ❤️

Anonymous

There is a discord?

Mitch Connor

No refund necessary, ever 🙂, take care of yourself ❤️.

Red Velvet Kitty

You alredy do so much for us that we can never repay you for so please dont worry one bit about disapointing us you never could 💜. We all love you and will always Support you no matter what 😊

Jackson

I get early access videos when I get off work on the dot. Worth every $1. No disappointment here.

Blazen

i think you are one of the hardest workers in asmr don't stress frivi we all love you and are here for you.

Anonymous

No worries Frivvi! Your the best :)

Breezy

Don't even worry about it! Completely understand. You can't put a price on your well-being. Please do what you need to.

Bryan Connors

It sounds like you're making the right decision. It works out well for me too, because I'm already in that tier. And you've never disappointed me. You're honestly pretty consistently amazing ❤

Anonymous

Take care of yourself! You're the best!

Rachel

if you guys still want to give more, you can go into your pledges and edit &amp; increase the amount you pay each month personally!💞 &amp; frivvi, you never disappoint, youre just a human dealing with life as it comes. take the time and space you need, we’ll still be here❤️

Anonymous

I agree with everything stated above and would still keep supporting at a higher tier just to be supportive. I would rather have a happier healthier Friv than a Friv trying to spread herself too thin. Keep being gentile and take care of yourself Friv.

Michael

Thank you for your hard work! Do what you need to do. We’ll be here.

Anonymous

You never disappointed me. You are great for who you are and it is important to be well, so focus on yourself! 🥺💓

Anonymous

Thank you, thank you thank you. For everything you do. 🥰💗💗 best of luck I am in the same boat on working on my self. It’s such hard work can’t imagine how it feels to upload and film. While working on everything else. I am so proud of you. 💕

niwaar

and here I was just here because I wanted to do what little (very little) I could to support you. never needed any perks for you helping me live my life with a little more peace.

Anonymous

You're amazing! 💗 Please do what you can to take care of yourself. And please don't ever refund me. I love your work and I will happily continue to support you to the best of my abilities. *warm hugs and best of wishes*

geekCOURT1st

Frivvi, you do whatever you need to for your mental and overall health. You give so much to help all of us out here; don't ever think that we would begrudge you the need to care for yourself. Your artistry is extraordinary, but I follow and support you because of who you are. I believe in you. Everyday offers us the chance to polish something about ourselves. We are always learning; if we didn't, we would never grow or flourish. No special perks or rewards needed, in my opinion. You already give so much. Please, brave heart, please take care of yourself, whatever that might entail. And remember that you are loved and supported by so many. Peace and blessings.

Tom (Zoigle)

I get ya, it'll be hopefully a good amount of pressure you no longer feel, and I really hope it helps. I'm not changing my pledge, it ain't much and I'm ok. You've basically been slowly helping me evolve while providing friendship and the ability to sleep for years so...yeah. As many others have said, you do what you need to my dude! And I shall support.

Bruce Bromley

I don't think there's anyone I want to see take a vacation more than you Lauren. I'm not talking just a few weeks, either. Step away for a few months and just "be". You've always given us so much of your time and your heart, it is time for us to let you go. I'd rather see you step away by choice for some time than to see you finally hit that wall and say good bye. Peace and Long Life to you Lauren.

Matthieu (ergosteur)

It’s definitely a lot to keep up with, I honestly sometimes wonder how you manage it all! Take care of yourself Frivvi! I’ll keep supporting in whatever way works for you.

Aaron

I'm only in the $1 squad, but I would be apart of that even if you didn't post anything for the next year. Most of us are here because we love your content on YouTube and want to support you for all your hard work these past few years! Do what you feel is best, because most of us will still be here regardless :)

Anonymous

To echo many of those above, I'll stick where I am and I wouldn't be disappointed if there was never any more patreon content - I'm just using this as a way to show appreciation and support for what you do, and who you are. These bits are nice little bonuses, but not why we're here :) Ease back, reassess priorities, and get yourself comfortable again!

Anonymous

you are a beautiful human and we just want to support you any way we can!

Anonymous

I love you frivvi, nothing changes we all love you and are here for you 💗

Anonymous

You are the best ASMRtist on Youtube! Take it easy and give yourself a break :) I'm just here as adblock repentance.

Anonymous

Prioritizing themselves is the most important thing there is. Make sure you take care of yourself and we'll still be here to support you. You're an amazing person and we all love you.

kdlp313

*gasp!* REFU-- 😮 How dare you even SUGGEST such a thing! I'll thank you to never mention the "R" word again. 😜 Now, will you be needing us to sub to the basic level ourselves, or will Patreon automatically downgrade us when you remove the higher tiers?

Anonymous

You take care of yourself. I’ll keep paying.

Anonymous

If i could support you, it wouldn’t be for the cool fancy stuff i get, i’d do it because i’m supporting you. I feel horrible for everything your going through, but i know that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. I love you and your content frivvi. I’m always here to support you.

Anonymous

Stay strong my darling you do so much for us but it's so much more important for you to take care of yourself you are forever in our prayers and if you happen to think of it keep us in yours🙃💜nAxpLurr