Relaxed! (Patreon)

Happy Saturday Patreon! It’s a lazy rainy day so I wanted to post a picture that incapsulates that feeling. I really like the energy of this picture and it has me wanting to do a shoot that’s a bit more relaxed. No flexing, no “only the good angles” no food changes, just what I look like at the current moment.

Patreon has been really good at appreciating my body in every form and even though I’m extremely body positive, I still always take the time to diet for my photo shoots so maybe this time I won’t!

I already know what the comment will be so let me preempt them by saying that I know I look good in all my shapes and sizes. It’s because of you all that I was finally able to see that.

I also know that even when I have extra weight on, I’m still in sharpe. I don’t judge my body based on weight, I base it on how my body feels. Sometimes 15 extra pounds feels really good, and sometimes it feels really bad. It’s not about the number.

Lastly, it’s ok to have a preference for the way YOU personally like my body (hairy, shaved, defined, less defined, flexed, relaxed, whatever) and I wont take offence but just know as a general rule, it’s not cool to comment that. I like hearing what people have to say, but telling someone “you like them better when they…” is typically rude. Lucky for you guys I’m a masochist.

So yeah, anyway lol. This was not meant to be a rant lol. I just wanted to post a cute pic. Sorry about that.