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How do you handle challenges in your relationships? What role do memories play in our personal growth?

Licensed therapist Jonathan Decker and filmmaker Alan Seawright take a look at Joel and Clementine's relationship in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. They talk about some of the things that went wrong in their relationship, how they could have handled their conflicts and differences better, the desire to hide from our painful memories, and the great filmmaking techniques, especially in the memory sequences. And of course the great performances from Kate Winslet and Jim Carrey.

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Anonymous

One of my favourite movies of all time.

Wendy Darling

I didn’t notice the book titles vanishing either, makes this movie even better.

Anonymous

I remember seeing this movie right after I got out of a toxic 4 year relationship and just sobbing. I related to wanting to literally erase someone from your brain in that moment. I actually relate to wanting to BE that manic pixie dream girl for a long time when I was younger. Speaking of, would LOVE to see a video on Garden State!

Anonymous

Coming in late to this, I just wanted to point out that the manic pixie dream girl trope is based on autistic women, so while the trope itself is bad, because these guys use these women to give their lives meaning, women like that do just exist on their own, not for the pleasure of other people. I absolutely go out everyday as a manic pixie dream girl, have guys fall in love with me because I'm lively and different and it's... Not great. Anyway, just wanted to make sure that was known.