Regarding FB friend add (Patreon)

Hi guys! Just want to let you know that a lot of you gave me links to add your FB but your setting is set to not allowing strangers to add, so I ended up not being able to do it, and when I send you a message some of them go to spam :"< So if you're sending a link please make sure I can add you. If you sent me a friend request without specifying who you are it can easily get lost because I have 1k+ pending request!