❤️ Hi. My name is Charlotte and I Don’t Endorse Blackmail ❤️ (Patreon)

Time to respond to a not so anonymous threat of “I’ll expose you”:

Hi, guys. My real name is Charlotte. I live in Yorkshire and I voice porn. Thank you. Side note: don’t allow toddlers in adult bodies to blackmail you.

Just to clarify, the person who threatened me is someone I know in real life. I’ve been surrounded by abusive men all my life. I’ve been born to one, I’ve had female family members be partnered with them, and all the while I entered into a contract with them to “keep the peace”. Well, I am keeping my peace now, and my peace says do not allow vindictive, abusive men to shame you, scare you or control what you think is right.

I also need to apologise to you guys. I pretended to be in a relationship from day one of being a VA in order to protect my identity. I am sorry. I could give you all kinds of excuses, but the top of bottom of it was I trying to protect myself.  I lied. I said I was in a relationship and then I said I was married because I wanted to separate myself from the work.

I’m sorry that I did that. I should’ve just had the balls to say “yeah, this is me. I’m doing this and I’m okay with”. But I didn’t. I was cowardly, and scared, still under the thumb of people, and I honestly didn’t want to leave myself open to sexual attention from people because they believed I was available. It‘s stupid. And I’m not proud of lying. I never thought this would turn into a job. And so, the snowball just got bigger.

I should’ve been honest and brave. I was neither. But I’m now I’m tired of lying, perpetuating this cycle of half-truths and pretending and faking. And I should’ve done this from day one:

My name is Charlotte. I voice porn because I’m okay at it and I can make money from it. I lied about being in a relationship because doing NSFW work often leaves you open to sexual harassment. And in my limited experience with men, they’re more likely to leave you alone if you say you’re taken.  Again, not excuse for lying. I‘m not an angel or a pure, virginal victim. I’m flawed and secretive and definitely layered with sexism.

I just don’t want to spend my life scared of the men in my family or who used to be my family.

You guys do whatever you need to with this info. I appreciate your time, money and support. If I’ve lost any of the above, I understand.

Thank you.

P.S. I understand that people are concerned I’ve shared my real name. But the truth is people could’ve have always tracked me down.

So, I’ll just say this to whoever might need to hear it: do not come looking for me, do not come to my house. You are a stranger and you are not welcome.

If you come, I will call the police and defend myself if necessary. Do not contact my family or anyone close to me. I am saying this firmly because I am serious. I am not the woman in the audios. I am not your comfortable blanket or your sex doll. I am nothing to you but a provider of content. Don’t not come looking for me. I don’t want to fuck anyone. I don’t wanna be anyone’s girlfriend or friend. Do not come. Thank you.