✨ Being Worthy Does Not Make You Entitled ✨ (Patreon)

Just saw another story about someone dying because they rejected romantic advances. None of us are entitled to anyone. We’re not entitled to romance, to friendship, sex. Nothing! Take no as fucking no. And if you can’t, go to therapy and get help!

As someone who creates romantic content, it’s really fucking important to me that I’m communicating a clear message:

✨Being worthy of something is not the same as being entitled to it.✨

You might be worthy of love and intimacy, but you are never entitled to it. Never! How anybody could ever think they are entitled to someone’s time, body, love, desire is absolutely fucking deluded! And if you are feeling that way, you need to address that in therapy. People are not toys or property! They are people with free will. And as people we have a responsibility not to be vindictive, evil cunts.

Stay safe and keep others safe too.

A part of me wants to apologise for being so aggressive, but the other part is saying “Fuck that”. This keeps happening. And we need to talk about why it’s happening. And a part of why it’s happening is we don’t tell people the truth. And the truth is we all get lonely. Some people are lonelier, for reasons they can’t always help - they’re not physically attractive, they’re mentally compromised, they’ve been abused and traumatised, etc. And yes,  that sucks, but for anyone to think violence is retribution for someone not wanting to touch you - is fucking insane.