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💙 Personal Responsibility 💙 (Patreon)

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2023-01-31 06:31:02
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The person who sent me the very distressing exit survey has DM’d me with an apology. Whilst I thanked them for their apology, I believe blocking them from my Patreon is the right next step. 

I cannot take responsibility for what people consume online, but I will put barriers in place for people who clearly struggle keeping themselves and others safe. 

Their message:

“I am so sorry that I sent this to you though everything I did say was true it was mean to say it didn't solve a single problem and only gave me a moment of relief and then constant anxiety I should have kept this to myself the sad reality is I get screwed everywhere I go for help the last time I saw that number was when another ASMR  creator who made comfort for PTSD audios linked it from her Twitter the bad part was that her Twitter and website had porn about her forcing herself on young men though there was other stuff that was what triggered my panic attack the first time I knew people did that but I didn't think anybody would be cruel enough to link it to YouTube I think you see how im self-destructive how I don't seem to learn apparently I always make stupid choices that just make things worse I've called the number even before anyone linked it to me at least five times and I always get disconnected and now because of my own stupidity I've just brought back all of the memories I worked so hard to forget and now these stupid scars that were finally healing that I was happy were healing are back and I know it's my fault I hate you and I'm so sorry for that I know I'm just another asshole on the internet and I'm sorry I'm honestly jealous of everyone of your patreons because you seem to help all of them based on their comments again I got screwed over being the only one to be hurt I was doing good I'd forgotten about you I was living my life as close to normal as I could but then my mom got sick and probably won't make it if I was gone she wouldn't be here to miss me but before that happened I thought I'd found faith but the second you mentioned it everyone makes sure you know how stupid you are and now I can't believe in anything I'm so sorry for even bringing this up to you I have no love for you but I do believe you're a good person or at least you're trying to be which is all anyone can ask for if I've ruined your day I'm sorry I am so sorry for sending you that message if I could take it back I would do it in a heartbeat.”

My response:

“Thank you for your apology. I hope you can get the help you need. I’m going to be blocking you from my Patreon, for both your sake and my own. I hope it will enable you to have a fresh start and keep away from things that aren’t helping you. All the best.”

This will be my approach going forward.

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Comments

Gnot

Hopefully this person can get the help they need. With a bit of work I'm sure they'll find happiness. 🤗

sa r dran 24

You did the right thing tea 👍

FreshD0T

Hope Anon gets the help they need

peanutbutterxxx

You did the right thing. It's not fair that you have to suffer this kind of thing from some patreons, I understand that this life is very difficult, sometimes more than we can bear, but reaching the point of blaming yourself for something that really isn't your fault. It seems like something very bad and something sick.

Funflame

You did the right thing and made a very professional response. I hope they get the help they need

June

🖤

Jeremy Knight

Yeah, that dude has a straight up serious problem. It's not the creators fault for making NSFW content on their site/patreon when you see their SFW stuff on twitter/youtube and you have a porn addiction. He'd lose his shit over Dangerous ASMR saying her audios make him feel severely hurt when you don't have to listen. I completely agree, take responsibility, I know it sucks that most people don't care about each other but it isn't their job to take care of your problems.

Ka'laar

Good luck to him going forward. Good job handling this scenario so directly and maturely. Perhaps it's not good to say so but I thought it was rather cruel of them to press their suffering against you in that way. I'm glad they've developed a different perspective and may be on a path towards healing. I hope you're not lastingly troubled by it. Considering your responses you clearly thought about this quite a bit, but I hope and pray it doesn't stick in your head too much. You aren't doing something evil or wrong, and you aren't taking advantage of us. I doubt that was a worry of yours but, just in case, I wanted to say it. Keep being you Tea.

Minos

Bruh's got mad serotonin overload. Internet ruined him. Some people need some time to unplug and calm the fuck down. I don't know what suicide hotlines do but they better tell him to take more walks and put less into finding validation online. Social media is a twisted mirror and you just can't compare your life to the things you see on the internet. It's not helpful. I wish the homie all the good in the world. Smart move blocking him. Needs to get his head on straight and he's not gonna be able to do that on the interbuttz.

Lachlan Parker

I don’t know what to say. This is just… tragic. And I really wish that I was able to help.

Iron Piedmont

It's good that this person realized their mistake and apologized. I hope they get some good help because clearly they got some serious issues going on that need to be addressed.

Flurio

I'm glad they realized that apologizing was the right thing to do, and I really hope they can get the help they need. They really seem to need it. But even more, I'm proud of you Tea, for setting this boundary. Sometimes all you can and need to do is to set a boundary that let's you do the best for yourself and be kind about it. And that's exactly what you did. Very well done!

Andy B

I'm sorry you have to deal with this! I wish you all the best.

Jonah

Blocking is totally the right move here. This individual clearly needs help but isn’t doing themselves any favors. Not only are you not responsible for their situation because they lack self control, but you also aren’t responsible for dealing with their apology any more than you did. You can respect the fact that they had the idea to apologize, but it sounds like they are more sorry they said it rather than being sorry on the principal that it’s not your fault, which is a start I guess but is misplaced. It’s all moot now though because you did the right thing, no need to deal with this person anymore, it’s unfortunate but it entirely lays within them to be better and seek help. Good job Tea, way to handle this and thank you for sharing! Keep up the great work!