❤️ I’m Sorry I Was An Asshole ❤️ [F4A] [Enemy to Lovers] [Your High School Bully Apologies to You] [Class Reunion] [Talking Outside] [You Don’t Have to Forgive Me] [I Just Want You to Know That I’m Sorry] [Vulnerability & Healing] [Breaking the Cycle of Abuse] (Patreon)

“Are you really hugging your high school bully?”

Forgiveness isn’t for the person who wronged you

It’s for you, so you can let go and move on.

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DISCLAIMER:

To clarify, I don't think there is one way to handle a past bully apologising to you. I've never been bullied by a peer, but I do think that all cases are individual and there is no generic statement that can cover all of them.

This audio absolutely does not endorse "oh, well, they said they're sorry - so, we should forgive and forget all bullying". Not at all. It's simple one example of what could have led to the bullying, how that made both the victim and the bully feel, and how on reflection, a person could take responsibility and try to make amends.  

Most bullies, especially high school bullies are being abused at home. Violence, cruelty and humiliation are normalised from a very early age. This is not an excuse, but certainly part of the explanation. But then again, some people are just cunts. Life is infuriatingly grey and that's what makes it so damn hard to figure out.  

Good luck to us all. 

All the best, 

Tea 

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