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I'm sorry guys... This isn't a positive or happy post, but rather it's just an honest one.
I was super anxious yesterday. I really couldn't do anything. I slept at 3 am. If I'm being honest, I was paralyzed from my anxiety.
In the extremely short time, I've had my Patreon account, I've blocked 2 people so far (see attached)...June and July. The first time I spent hours crying for the injustice that women all over the world, go through all the time. Male reactors don't have to deal with the shitty comments I've gotten ever since I started reacting.
It's so incredibly sad and discouraging to discover the true intentions behind supporting my art, for some. It makes me want to stop what I'm doing. It makes me feel like an imposter and de-merits my hard work. I make videos for 2 main reasons: 1) fun, 2) passion for pop culture/films/tv/ART and building communities around that. Most recently 3) income.
This is supposed to be my safe space. A tight-knit community. I know all of your names, I reply the most on here. I lost 4/5 of my jobs and so this has become not my 9-5... but my 8am-12am-midnight from Monday-Thursday and Saturdays too. I don't want to feel unsafe or uncomfortable when this is my life now and what I want to continue to be able to do.
I did give the person a very professional warning, but instead, he went on to say that yes, he went far, but won't apologise for calling me beautiful or incredible and that others say worse things on Instagram and Twitter... and that he wants to get to know me, etc... just that kind of stuff. Long story short, I didn't feel any safer after warning him, and I did what was best for my mental health and I blocked him.
I want to thank you ALL for being decent and good people. I've never felt unsafe or uncomfortable with any of you guys reading this and I just want to let you know that I appreciate you all for the genuine support, feedback, and honesty.
That's all. Thanks for reading if you did.