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Renno Kedit

Yeah im first 😂

Anonymous

This episode was soooo good. And i agree with You- when Gaipa cries I cry too. For me it's the Best bl series in this year:) and i really love watching your reaction :)

亦菲 李

not remember me ,i forgot it

Anonymous

I assume funeral traditions are different in each culture, in my culture it's normal for complete strangers to come to funeral and there's no need to have invitation, what is important is to give respect to person so that they can rest in peace. So I didn't think that Alan coming to her funeral was too much, Try to educate yourself about other cultures first rather than shitting on character

Anonymous

And why can't Alan cry just seeing how Gaipa is crying having now lost both his parents? You wouldn't start crying in his place? I would. You don't need to know the person to cry on their funeral.

arda obi

I have so many emotions I don't even know where to start😭😭 Ok for the part where you said you think Wen will do the same thing he did to Alan to Jim (I don't know what context)but I actually have been feeling this way from episode 5 but my context is about how he just fell out of love with alan🤣🤣🤣🤣 I feel like same thing might happen with Jim so that scares me😅😅 Uncle Jim hmmmm. I did not like how he addressed li ming on the issue of him being gay even tho I kinda understood him a little after his conversation with wen but i will still call out the bullshit🥲 speaking from personal experience I realize that it's so easy for people to say "oh I won't treat my kid a certain way like my parents did or like outsiders did me" but it's hard to unlearn those behaviors or beliefs that has been engraved into you from the adults in your life so it take a great deal of work to not treat your kid the same way. So you have to work to unlearn those beliefs completely if not you fall into the same pattern that you hated and wished not to continue. I don't know if that made any sense but literally that is what Jim did to li ming. He still holds onto stupid beliefs that people from older generations( for example, someone can influence you to be gay) even his sister instantly thought that way and I thank God wen talked him out of it. I swear wen and alan upset me even more this episode 😪😪 once Alan's sister came wen should have left that whole situation😒 Like why does wen even still have access to that condo they lived together in?? Like!!! I was so done 🤣🤣 Why was Alan even at that burial, he should have just called like you said. He indeed went there to still see Wen and it's the fact that for some reason wen and Alan still believe they could be friends🤦‍♀️ In this show, they may make it possible but not in real life cause they will constantly remain toxic to each other. I was just happy to see that heart's parents were starting to do the needful and I am happy to see li ming and hearts relationship progress. Lastly I really just hope gaipa finds happiness. I really wanted to give him a hug😭😭😭😭😭 No I do not want Alan for him at all😅😅

Elizabeth

Something that made me reconsider Alan and Kaipa getting together is the age difference. Kaipa mentioned in this episode that he was born in the year of the monkey, which most likely means 2004. He's only 19 years old. Normally I don't mind age gaps, but the brain isn't fully developed until around 25. Yes this is fiction, but it just doesn't feel right to want a 19 year old and 30 year old to get together.

arda obi

Oh I didn't even know that. I don't really care about age gap too as long as the two parties are both adults and are ok with it. My reason for not wanting them together is more of a petty one🤣🤣🤣 I just don't like Alan plus I don't need Alan bringing his baggage on to Gaipa. He already has a lot to deal with.

Anonymous

You don't like Alan but still like Wen when their faults were 50/50 in their relationships. So by your logics Alan has to be single for the rest of his life and doesn't deserve to be happy while Wen is happy with uncle Jim?

Anonymous

Maybe Kaipa was born in 1992? Look at this from such way: for asian countries it's normal to marry at young age and have kids, so his mom could give him birth at 19. Saleng is 32 (born in Year of Horse) and I didn't hear Kaipa calling Leng "Phi", he called him either "Ai'Leng" or just "Leng" which means they're almos the same age... And Kaipa can't be the same age as Li Ming, because Li Ming calls him Phi. Additionally, when the cast had Insta live they were asked a question about characters' age, to wich Khao answered about Kaipa as following: "Kaipa didn’t want to do jobs related to y his degree. Therefore, he came to help his mother with business which is selling chicken." So he has already graduated from uni. Plus, if he was 19 why was his mother so concerned of him not having a lover? In my conclusion he's 30.

arda obi

I love how much compassion you have for alan but unfortunately I don't feel that way. But I do respect your feelings tho. I did not think Alan does not deserve to be happy, but we both know that he is not in the right state of mind to be in a relationship at the moment. Instead of making gaipa happy which is what gaipa needs now, he'd only put his baggage from his past relationship on him. He needs to heal first. That's why I said apart from my petty reasons(not liking him personally) this is also another reason why I don't want them together or at least not for now. For wen, I do like him actually but like I said in my main comment, I am skeptical about his relationship with Jim because I am afraid he could just fall out of love with Jim like he did Alan. I am not against his relationship with Jim because he has moved on emotionally but He and Alan need to cut of communication really because that's not helping at all. I hope you understand my POV better now🤗

Elizabeth

I thought Leng was 21 because of the conversation about college in earlier episodes. There are also things said that, to me, are more aligned with a 19 and 21 year old and not a 30 and 32 year old. As for Kaipa, his mother knew she was dying and didn't want him being alone, which is also shown when she said she regretted not having another child so he could have a sibling. Hopefully there is at least a time jump because I also can't see Alan getting over Wen so quickly after showing how desperate he was to keep him. Age aside, I love when you have two characters who have been broken and are able to come together and heal each other, but we have one episode left and Alan/Kaipa just met at a funeral and made an appointment to talk about (most likely) life insurance. I don't think either of them are in the right mindset to start a relationship.

Anonymous

I agree that it's early for both of them to start new relationships but they can become friends at least, and maybe hint at the very end that there's posiibility for something more

Anonymous

And Khaotung made it clear by his answer that he's almost same age with Alan and Wen, so quit this age gap thing

Elizabeth

I haven't seen cast interviews, so I'm sorry if someone mentioned something about their character. I'm also sorry if I missed something that was said in the show. I was basing my own opinion on how similar some conversations were to conversations I had with my friends when we were between the ages of twenty and twenty-three. That's all. It also doesn't help that I had a friend who got pregnant when she was twenty and had to drop out of college due to her parents refusing to support her. A lot of what Leng is going through is similar to what my friend and her boyfriend went through nine years ago. People can watch the same show, but look at scenes or relationships differently due to their own past experiences.

arda obi

Hi Elizabeth. I really liked what you said about two broken people coming together to help each other out. I like that too; For me it depends on what the trauma is and if the parties involved are actually in the right mind to help each other heal through it. There is a saying that "you can't give what you don't have" so if you are so broken to a large extent, you can't really help another person heal. Healing and happiness is something a person has to do on their own internally because if you depend on someone to be happy, when they leave you will be sad again. If you watch wen and Jim's relationship closely, they are still friends atm although flirting and a potential relationship is about to form; Wen has been slowly helping Jim get through his past trauma and only after that can Jim open up for a potential relationship. You see If wen did not have some form of stability emotionally or if he had the same trauma as Jim and never worked on it, he could not have had insight to help Jim. Forgive me I tend to thoroughly analyze things😅 Also you should never be sorry for your opinions except if your opinions are in support of a crime. It is called an opinion for a reason. Not everyone would agree with it and that's ok. I sometimes get annoyed at people's opinions too🤣🤣 but don't let that intimidate or stop you from voicing how you feel🤗🤗

Emily1708

I think at the funeral it wasn’t actually Alan crying it was first and they probably just left it in the show, we all know how sensitive first is