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Anonymous

Could be he’s playing a part as a close friend to hopefully lead to something else. If you’re not looking at him that way and his energy is going towards wanting that and yours isn’t. You’re not gonna like it, plus it’s insecure controlling and possessive.

Howard D. Glockzin

If I were in your shoes Chloe, I would honestly see his behavior as a red flag. If he is doing this, he may be into you, but for the wrong reasons. He is simping, meaning he is always making himself available to you, and being too much of a presence around you. He may be living a fantasy of how he sees the ideal life with you. This can be dangerous, because it may lead to stalking. He may also be controlling, possessive, and manipulative. If things, like this, bother him, he may not be a true friend, but only wants you for himself, and not entirely in a good way. You need to live your own life, even if that means enjoying it with other people. Living life just to please other people will burn you out. He wants you right now, but he may not be understanding that you may not be ready. He does not sound like a patient person. Relationships happen over time as trust and knowledge of the two of you develops for each other, and that's if there is meant to be any relationship at all. Chloe, you may want to confront him about this, while having friends with you, and establish an understanding. Even if you have to clearly tell him that what you do is none of his business. You may ultimately have to make the hard decision to end relations with him, and move on. He needs to respect you as a friend, and accept your life and decisions. If he cannot, or is unwilling, he needs to walk away and find other people to get acquainted with. He also seems both immature and insecure, so he also needs to grow as a person. If he truly saw you as a real friend, he would respect your space, and not let what you do concern him. This may sound hard, but sometimes tough love is the best kind. He may need to grow, and heal, as a person. He also sounds superficial, and unrealistic, as a person. Chloe, just saying, but you may even want to consider a different social circle of friends. So much of this behavior from people, like this, is very toxic. Sometimes that kind of change makes a big difference. Growth sometimes means letting go of the old and embracing what is new.