My fear (Patreon)

My community stigmatize is single mothers so bad that I’m so scared to go public and may not with this pregnancy. 😂 It’s sad that we can’t normalize giving men a choice the same way we have a choice. I know how many people are going to assume that I forced him, or baby trapped him when in reality it’s the EXACT opposite. I’m probably the ONLY woman who said “hey I understand if you’re not ready to be a Dad and I’ll take full responsibility”. Of course he chose to help and stay because he’s a good man, but at the end of the day I gave him the choice you know? I feel the need to make sure he’s okay for this baby the same way a man would when a baby comes you know? My agent said I’m the man in this situation and it made me laugh 😂 PLUS I WAS ON DAMN BIRTH CONTROL 😂😂 what’s your options on parents with kids from different dads? I can’t lie I’ve passed judgements in my past and SWORE I’d never do it. It’s challenging to reshape my mind.