Whips, BDSM and mild ball bustin (Patreon)

Hey folks!  The response on the last poll was so overwelmingly in favor of mind breaking husbands into being loyal submissive cocksluts that I started to write a whole miniseries for the theme. As is usual when I  lay back and just let my imagination go in order to "write" i started having other ideas mixing themes. 

That got me wondering, how many of you folks enjoy a bit of the rougher play in BDSM? Hot wax, some flogging with a riding crop, possibly playing rough with the submissive husband's boy bits?

Do ruined orgasms count? Those are a personal favorite fetish of mine, him being stopped somehow from fully releasing. Or the opposite, he gets to enjoy being inside his wife for once, who keeps riding him even after the point of orgasm. The sensation for him is intense to say the least.

I'm excited to hear your thoughts!