I'm writing a blog post to those vanilla partners out there. What would you want yours to know about ABDL?
When we listen to our critical inner voice, we tend to exaggerate and berate ourselves for these flaws.
Constantly remind yourself that you have a fundamental right to be happy. Don't constrict yourself from happiness.
When a certain stimuli presents itself so strongly, don't hold back your emotions. The more you pretend, the more the emotions get stronger.
Being a mommy also gives you perspective on how your partner feels as the dominant caregiver and it makes you appreciate them better.
Remember, what you think, you become so think confidently, practice, get uncomfortable and put yourself out there.
Love is not a walk in the park. It can get messy sometimes and you will get hurt. But you know it's worth it.
Practicing self-compassion can ultimately enhance our relationships with others, especially our romantic partners.
Honestly, kinks are like your blood relative or your family, you don’t get to pick them. But there always gonna be there for you so you might as well learn to love them.