Early Access: How to make talking about kinks easier! (Patreon)

Just so you know, I won't be uploading a new episode until November 13th since there were 2 this week. 

When it comes to sharing kinks it all starts with HEALTHY communication. Today I'm going to share my best tips on how to express your needs and wants without becoming overly-emotional or scaring your partner off. 

One of the most frequently asked questions I get is: "how can I prove to my partner that this kink is healthy and not something that needs to be fixed?"

I believe that having good communication skills instantly makes you appear more composed, mature, and like you've got your shit together. Most people don't take the time to learn how to communicate in a healthy way so learning this will set you apart from the rest. 

When you are able to communicate your kinks and other difficult to discuss things with ease, your partner will understand this isn't an unhealthy obsession, it's a way for you to relax. 

And remember this isn't about being perfect, it's about giving the best effort you can in the moment. There have been PLENTY of times I forget to use these communication tips but knowing them gives me the tools I need to do damage control after an argument.  

Hope you find this helpful!

Love,

Lo