20 Questions to Inspire Valentine’s ENERGY on a dating app (Patreon)

So I understand plenty of you want to know, how do you begin to get to a pot to produce an app? How do you test his generosity? How do you even know that this pot is generous? We don't know any of these answers unless we inquire in a subtle way. The Finesse way.

There are levels to testing and asking if a man is generous or giving. I know a few ladies feel like there are magically words or phases but it honestly could be a bunch of factors.

🔑Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it.

🔑Sometimes it's not what you say but who is saying.

🔑Sometimes it's not what you say but who you are saying it to.

I am all for dropping subtle hints although being straightforward and asking is also my specialty. If you’re on an app and chatting with a pot just know it’s important to get certain questions out the way.  That way you are not wasting your time. The main conversation should be asking to surround“VALENTINE’S DAY ENERGY”. Let’s make sure we’re not just rushing into trying to get a gift. The best gift-givers are the ones who feel space and opportunity to produce. First comes the recommendations for the dates. Second, should come the hints for the gift 🎁.

Always be aware of a pot's behavior or tone when you bring up a holiday or a gift. If he comes off rude, defensive, dry, infuriated, aggravated, bothered, or anything other than charming & understanding drop them. 🗣

PAY ATTENTION TO RED FLAGS🚩

NO BARE MINIMUM DATES!

 DATES  SHOULD BE A EXPERIENCE 4/5 STAR RESTAURANTS ONLY🚩

• 💠So are we celebrating Valentine’s Day Sunday the 13th? Monday, February 14th baby?or both? I am thinking ( enter your date idea).
• Well how splendid 🙈we matched right before Valentine’s 💕Coincidence? I think not (LOL EMOJI)
• So what if I told you my favorite holiday is  (enter days) away? 👀❤️
• So I’m going to ask you a few questions?
• When is it too soon to celebrate Valentine’s Day? And would you celebrate a holiday if the woman you’re dating was into it?
• When have been conversing for (enter days) and you have yet to ask me to be your Valentine’s 🙊💕
• When have been conversing, laughing, and having a virtual good time for (enter days) & you have yet to ask me to be your Valentine’s 🙈💕😓
• 💠No pressure but Valentine’s is (enter days ) away and I want to make sure you’re mentally and financially prepared for my favorite holiday.
• 💠What’s your preference? take me on a date before Valentine’s, Sunday before Valentine’s Day, or on actually Valentine’s Day … hmm 🤔Decisions Decisions 🥴
• What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve done for Valentine’s Day?
• Luck you! You matched with me right before Valentine’s Day 💕
• 💠 Lol reading your bio, you seem like a man with a plan. So what restaurant are we going to for Valentine’s Day?
• I see cupid 💘 is working in your favor. Don’t you think?
• I love Valentine’s but on our date can you bring (enter flower/ flower color) because that’s more of my love color than red and pink.
• 💠Woohoo 🎉  We matched I’m your potential girlfriend … so what gift am I getting for Valentine’s 🤣🤣🤣🤣?? Hey I’m (enter name ) btw
• 💠 Woohoo 🎉  You have now entered in Valentine’s date draft 🤣🤣🤣 I am loving your bio. 
• Hooray 🎉🎉 seems we magically matched around Valentine’s Day ❤️
• I wish I could I send could send some of the cute Valentine’s dress looks, that I was going for?
• Ughh I wish I could tag you in this super cute Valentine’s Day post I saw on Instagram 😪
• I’m leaving planning our Valentine’s date in your hands 🥰🥰
• I just got this super cute email from (enter steakhouse) I wish I could text you! Give you a little inspo for big heart ♥️ day.  

Some of these prompts are going to come off a  little cringe and quirky but that’s the point. The more innocent he perceives you to be the more he will feel open to giving. Some of these prompts are for women who are more advanced and confident in asking. If you are a beginner, please do not use the advance prompts you could be blocked/reported. We want to keep it light and fun so that it’s subtle. We don’t want to come off desperate or robotic. Use these prompts to help in a conversation that is already going well and you have built a foundation of trust.

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ALL LOVE,

CNC