Another Update & GoFundMe Sneak Peek (Patreon)

Simmies & Friends,

I am really sorry I didn't give you an update on the live stream yesterday. I am struggling a bit managing my emotional well-being in addition to the process of splitting assets after a long-term relationship, living out of a suitcase, and keeping up with exceptions that I set for myself as 'Ravasheen'. I haven't had the emotional bandwidth to respond to you all and I am really sorry about that. I promise that I will respond to every single comment/message you have sent as soon as I have healed a little bit.

My life will be pretty chaotic for the rest of the month. I am staying with my mom until April 14th until I can move back into my old place (that is it's own whole story, but just know your words filled me with the courage to make HIM leave and not me... although it was after I already packed up the whole house which will now need unpacking 😂). So I am doing my best to heal and finding all the brightness I can in everyday. It's hard, but it is getting just a bit better everyday. 

I saw many of you so, so kindly offer to donate to help me out with my dog's surgery and it is so above and beyond what I anticipated. You all already put a roof over my head and food on the table and you absolutely do not need to donate. I will post the upcoming GoFundMe set to you all here through patreon and if you want to donate as well you can, but please know that you have already done enough. The plan is to release the set/share the donation information during my livestream on Sunday, April 10th. But please remember, take care of YOU first.

These posts about what is going on with me have become pretty rough on me to write because there is so much I want to say, but am not sure the right way to express it. I am still very much in the muck of it all so this may be my last "life" update till I am in a better mental health state, or at the very least not living in my mom's basement out of a suitcase. So if I seem to be going about business as usual without addressing/responding to previous posts and comments it is only because I am not in the right place to do that yet.

Luckily, finishing up some of my WIP sets has been a way for me to escape my head space so I will finally be getting out some new sets for you. I have 2 sets finished and scheduled for release this next week in addition to the GoFundMe set. Long story (not so short), I wanted to write this post about where I am at before ~blasting~ you with content so I can focus the set release posts on the relevant details and important information.

Together, we have created a safe space here that let me (and many of you) feel comfortable to share very personal stories of pain and resilience. Thank you all for making that space for all of us, it has had a significant impact on me and I am sure I am not alone in that feeling. I love you all so, so much and consider each one of you a friend. Thank you so, so much.

With that, I will leave you with some concept art by Luddy to give you a little sneak peak of the GoFundMe set.

💗 rava