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Dr Kirk Honda reviews the points he commonly yammers about.

January 2, 2023


00:00 My Common Yammerings

02:34 What is important to remember about relational traumas and schemas?

07:13 How can we properly attend to those we care about?

09:32 How can we manage conflict?

25:30 Should you become a Patron?

30:54 What is pathological optimism?

33:03 Does trauma excuse behaviors?

39:16 OPP

40:17 What subtle things are considered abuse?

41:29 What was one of Dr. Kirk's aha moments about BPD?

47:05 Should we just lie?

55:31 Are sociopaths rare?

56:05 Do we mirror behavior seen in childhood?

56:15 What's normal in emotions and relationships?

57:50 Should you go to therapy?


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Dani Nouveau Witch

I'm SO grateful for the transparency about the need for patrons, Kirk! Thank you for being open about it.

Anonymous

I am repeatedly impressed by/greatly appreciate your transparency and openness as a content creator. NGL I was thinking of pausing my Patreon sub for a while just to save some money since I was one of the people assuming you probably had plenty of subscribers and income. Hearing you be so open and direct made me reconsider and also reminded me that the reason I signed up in the first place was to support/small way to give back to a creator that has done so much for me. Unfortunately I can't afford more than the lowest monthly tier at the moment, but I hope in the future I am able to contribute more. I have learned so much from your podcast and videos, and that knowledge has in turn tied into my own therapy and, in my opinion, made it much more effective and impactful than it's ever been. On top of that, the things I have learned from hearing you speak about couples and relationships has helped me be a better support for a very close friend that is suddenly going through a very difficult divorce. I have had long talks with him about the situation and during each one can almost hear your voice in my head with little reminders that help me stay differentiated and (hopefully) be a healthy support system. My friend has since expressed to me that I am one of two people that has been a huge help to talk to, and I genuinely think I owe most of that to you and what you've taught me through your content. I feel like this got side-tracked, but all that is to say is thank you, and as long as I can afford it I will continue to support as much as I can (and will hopefully be able to switch to yearly at some point!)