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[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Humberto about a listener who feels attached to her sexual abuser.


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Anonymous

Thank you for explaining why you chose a male example for a fantasy as two males 😆. It would have been creepy 😅

Anonymous

I am only 3.5 min into this podcast but I am so, so thankful you are talking about this and I am incredibly grateful to the person who shared their story with the podcast. I paused just after hearing the word disgust to share something of my own. I think it is important to share this because although I have never told anyone in my own life or online, I cannot be the only one to feel this way. TW: SA involving a minor. When I was 15, I was raped by a 30 year old man. I believed he loved me despite the fact that he ignored my nonconsent. Being 15 girl is a strange enough time as it is, without men twice your age coaxing you into a sexual relationship. Skipping over the details of CPS, police, and school counselors, I am going to fast forward to young adulthood. In my early 20s, I felt I could finally tell people close to me about what had happened so many years ago. The same response happened over and over again. I was told, "That is disgusting". I think when people said that, they were likely expressing disgust toward the man who groomed and raped me, but they failed to explicitly say that. I stopped telling people because every time I told someone, it felt like they were calling me disgusting. Maybe it has to do with shame and feeling complicit in my own sexual abuse, although intellectually I know better. I'm not sure why I felt compelled to share that with you minutes into this podcast, but maybe someone else out there can relate. Maybe I just needed to write it out even if no one reads it. I have therapy in an hour. Maybe we will talk about this in session. I don't know if I've told my therapist about any of it at all. Anyway, I am really glad to be a deserving listener. I'm thankful for this podcast. I'm thankful for this person who wrote in. I'm thankful that I feel safe enough to share a comment like this on a post on patreon. Thank you