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Chapter Eight of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:26 Patron emails

32:27 Dr. Kirk's survey apologies

38:52 Analysis of survey-submitted apologies


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Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.


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Anonymous

I know the feeling of being estranged from pd spectrum parents who fail to take accountability. You could have another podcast on the affects of that alone. It’s caused me to create loose boundaries with similar romantic profiles. While I didn’t consciously think I was hoping for the repair I had sought from a parent, in my romantic relationships, I can’t rule it out either. It’s difficult to expect an apology from someone who either feels no remorse or feels so much shame that you can’t even get close to an apology. In the end, the outcome remains the same. When behavior doesn’t change, hurt remains and words prove cheap anyway. Foundations erode and things become too far gone.

Anonymous

Dr. Honda, I loved this episode, thank you! I just wanted to say that maybe if you have the schema that you have the ability to hurt others, you overcompensate by being extra kind and compassionate and diplomatic. And unless it’s causing you harm or unnecessary effort, I wouldn’t want you to be any other way! I really admire and look up to those aspects of your personality.