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Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto respond to a follow up email from six years ago. 


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Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.


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Anonymous

Wow - love this episode. I'm talking to a business partner on Friday about his sexist views in the hope to not only tell him off and shame him, but to make him understand what it feels like as a woman when he says things to me such as "I can't wait to hear how the meeting will go. I bet the dude's eyes are going to fall out when he sees two babes that look straight out of centre fold walk in the room". This was referring to my co-worker and I who are both women. I like my business partner and he is very supportive in other ways. He has come a long way and admitted to his previous homophobia and that he wants to change. But then he also says things like this. I feel so hurt when I'm reduced to a "babe straight out of centre fold". Growing up in a very patriarchal family and culture, I didn't understand my female friends complaining about sexism at work. When my friend told me that her boss had made comments about her skirt I would secretly think "what's the big deal, just wear trousers and fit in". I've been on a journey of waking up to my internalised sexism over the last 3 years. I would add a few items to the list of "risk of being raped, getting too drunk at a party, etc": not being able to invite a male business client to dinner or ensuring that I bring a male colleague, not being too friendly to men at work gatherings, walking down the street in a top or t-shirt without a bra (who cares what I wear!) and second guessing anything I say so that it cannot be misconstrued. It's exhausting. Thanks to you, Dr. Kirk, I know the kind of things I will say to my business partner this week. I won't call him an idiot or make him feel bad. I will tell him what it feels like, how hurtful it is and my personal history. One that is shared by so many other women. By the way, I love the energy between you and Humberto.

Anonymous

Great episode! I love your wedding story Berto! It sounded so you for some reason 😀