lover of pink (Patreon)

These days I've learned to be more confident in how I dress myself and my interests.

When looking back I realized that the reason that I hated the color pink was that my mother would force it upon me because of gender stereotypes. But when you deconstruct these things, it has no other meaning than consumerism.

Plus, gender identity can be different than outward appearance. Appearing a certain way can affirm gender identity, but it's not necessary. It can be difficult to separate the two since 99% of the time it's so closely connected. Or I could just be a special case and I simply dress what fits my corporeal body lol

I've been thinking to myself often "should I dress more masculine to appear like my gender identity?" But I just simply have no desire for those drab colors and when I dress as "well dress masc" I simply look like a lesbian (which is not what I want). So far I am content with what I have and enjoy experimenting with new ideas on paper.