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Mark Wood

I missed when this uploaded. There are several issues with Kurt and Blaine (and this is going back to I think episode 5 of this season and up to this episode. First cheating is a subjective adjective, what can be cheating to one person may not be to another (still doesn't make any behavior appropriate) but each person can see that term meaning different things. For example I know people that only use the term for actually having sexual relations with someone outside your relationship, some its any intimate contact, others its can be any verbal comments, for some it can be any emotional connection. The term cheating doesn't have a universal meaning. But even if a person doesn't consider an act or a dialogue or a connection cheating doesn't mean that can't be a betrayal or just hurtful and damaging. Kurt meets a guy, who is extremely flirtatious, who he apparently only communicates with by text, and we have no evidence of ever seeing again. Now is that person just someone who is like that with anyone (and yes those people exist, just like there are people who kiss and hug everyone, I am not one of those people, but I know a ton of them, especially more of my over the top friends). We also don't ever see anything about Kurt flirting back (since we don't see Kurt flirting with people on a regular basis that doesn't like, if he flirted back that would be a fairly big indicator that it was deeper). But Rachel makes an extremely good point (did I just type that), if it's innocent why not share with Blaine. Thats a huge one, there are three primary reasons you don't share with a partner. 1. It's so meaningless that its not worth mentioning. 2. It's something you find utterly harmless but it would still make your partner feel bad. 3. You know it's wrong and crossing a line. That he would share it with Rachel and not Blaine indicates to me its not 1, but certainly 2 or 3. So if anyone can't tell I honestly think that he knows at some level he is doing something wrong, even if in his mind it isn't cheating and has no desire for it to progress further than texting. Then we have Blaine. Remember Blaine meet and conversed and agreed to meet for a coffee date (date doesn't mean romantic) with Sebastian. He never told Kurt about this, the first time Kurt finds out anything is when he runs into them and has to ask who Sebastian is and how they meet. When they first meet Sebastian was actively flirting with Blaine. And certainly by the time that Kurt showed up, even if he was clueless before Blaine knows that Sebastian is actively trying to have sex with him, and doesn't care that he is dating someone else. Later, even after Kurt tells him he doesn't like him, Blaine spends the majority of the night dancing with Sebastian. This is knowing Kurt doesn't like or trust him, and also knowing that Sebastian wants to have sex with him. This is something that you could easily see people getting into a fight over at a bar. Now this doesn't mean that Blaine has any sexual or romantic feelings towards Sebastian, but he wasn't honest. And even knowing how Kurt felt about him (and this is before Kurt confirmed that Sebastian wanted to break them up) he still spent the majority of the first night at a gay bar with another guy, the guy your boyfriend doesn't like or trust. To put that into perspective that would be like if after Blaine found out about the texts, Kurt keep letting the guy flirt with him. Through that episode Blaine really gets to see how much Sebastian bothers him, Yet what does Blaine continue to do? He keeps in phone contact with him, to a degree that Kurt is unaware of (dialogue indicates this in later episodes). Since we never see or hear Blaine flirt back, nor do we see or hear about Kurt flirting back, seems like a wash to me. Both characters were not honest with their partner when they meet someone who flirts with them, and both characters keep up some form of contact (2 days in both episodes) without telling their partner. The difference is once it was out in the open, Blaine is the only one who keep interacting, be it dancing with and texting and calling, weeks afterwards. In my eyes while I don't think either person was trying to hurt the other, and while I don't think either party was interested in the other person, I think both hurt each other, both hid what they were doing, but only one stopped when it was confronted about it. In my eyes what Blaine did was more hurtful. Now admittedly, I am older than dirt, I will generally consider something done in person, more serious than something done it text. Also because of my age I consider something done verbally over the phone, or visually over the phone more serious then something done in text form. That is probably a very generational thing. But for me the kicker, is Blaine knowing what Sebastian wants from him (Kurt doesn't yet), and knowing that Kurt doesn't like the guy spends the bulk of the night dancing with someone who wants him and his boyfriend doesn't like or trust. Going to a gay bar for the first time is often the first time in a public setting that gay people can let their defenses down, to dance and kiss with out fear of getting the shit kicked out of you. For me its was significantly more important then say Prom was. So imagine going to Prom with your dates nd then spending most of the night dancing with someone else that your partner doesn't like. For myself that was a huge, huge slap in the face extremely disrespectful.

jmac

Hi I think you review are excellent. However I disagree with your opinion on Kurt and Blaine. I think Blaine was a complete ass, and this was the episode that really stated my hatred of his character He seems to want different rules in his relationships with Kurt. It is okay for him to text, meet up in secret to a gay boy who wants to do him. However it is not okay for Kurt to send cheesy middle grade school texts to a gay boy. Then he doesn't talk to him about it , walks in the middle of there friends to air there dirty laundry. Basically just to publicly shame him. Then sings Whitney Houston famous breakup song. This is supposed to be Kurt's prince charming. Then all Kurt friends jump in on the shame wagon, as if any of them have room to talk. Everyone in that room with the exception of Sugar, Artie or Joe. Have either cheated on someone or helped someone cheat on someone.

Micheal braveboy

I think the difference is what they text to each other. From what we know Kurt and the other boy were flirting with each other and even Kurt said it made him feel special. While from what we know from Blaine and Sebastian is Blaine considered it more of a friendly thing and stoped because he nearly went blind