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Hello my sweet, submissive slutboys and fabulous, feisty Femdoms! Did you think I'd miss the chance to drop my Mistress Speaks on Valentine's Day? You should know me better than that by now. ;-)

As I said last year on this lovely holiday, I'm an affectionate / loving Domme by nature. You might even say that's my dominant style of domination! I can get demanding, strict and brutal with my toys when the mood strikes me, but that's not what I crave most of the time.

I haven't taken one of those BDSM quizzes in a long time, but I always ranked low on sadism. I enjoy delivering pain only to the extent it makes my James feel good. I like when it heightens his experience and leaves him begging for more (which heightens my experience tremendously.)

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That's not to say there's anything wrong with Dommes who focus on pain and humiliation. I love that they're out there. They get off on it and so do the men who see them. It's a beautiful thing and I do go into that Domme space at times. The spectacle and titillation of that kind of Femdom is intense. Pushing the limits of physical pain and watching the submissive reach those euphoric brain-chemical highs can be very hot indeed, when that's what they want and/or need.

When I push James' limits, it's almost always for enduring bondage. That's unquestionably my favorite way to dominate. Encasing my slut in ever more latex, leather, rope and metal. Upping his pleasure threshold through immobilization and confinement followed by teasing and forced orgasm(s). Taking command of his body and driving him insane with overstimulation. That's what makes me feel powerful, sexy and the all-controlling Goddess of his entire universe.

In the end, I guess I'm just a big softie. My preferred style is that of the affectionate, possessive Mommy Domme. I want to dominate the man I love and please him as much as he pleases me. And unless I miss my guess, there are way more of those "love Dommes" in waiting out there (whether they realize or not) than there are the heavy sadist types.

What about you? What's your Femdom preference? Is there a certain type of domination you must have? Do you like both styles? Weigh in on the poll below!

I'm off to enjoy the rest of this Valentine's Day in the dungeon with you-know-who. More stories coming soon, as always.  Until then, take care my darling deviants!

Yours Truly,

Mistress Cereza